{"id":1109,"date":"2012-07-27T08:17:35","date_gmt":"2012-07-27T01:17:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=1109"},"modified":"2013-06-17T19:00:47","modified_gmt":"2013-06-17T12:00:47","slug":"tinh-thuong-chan-that-la-binh-dang","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=1109","title":{"rendered":"T\u00ccNH TH\u01af\u01a0NG CH\u00c2N TH\u1eacT L\u00c0 B\u00ccNH \u0110\u1eb2NG"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/130.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1110\" title=\"1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/130.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"221\" height=\"228\" \/><\/a>Khi ch\u00fang ta nghe k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, xem m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 phim hay \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m, thua thi\u1ec7t h\u01a1n. C\u00e1c t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 th\u01b0\u1eddng khai th\u00e1c khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o s\u1ef1 l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n cho c\u1ed1t truy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 cho nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt ch\u00ednh, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t&#8230; lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, thua thi\u1ec7t&#8230; cho \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n m\u1edbi b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0u th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n<p>Trong \u0111\u1eddi th\u1eadt, khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t con th\u00fa d\u1eef s\u0103n m\u1ed3i, ta lu\u00f4n mong mu\u1ed1n, ao \u01b0\u1edbc sao cho con m\u1ed3i ch\u1ea1y tho\u00e1t. Ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3 b\u1ecb ch\u1ed9p b\u1eaft, b\u1ecb \u0103n th\u1ecbt b\u1edfi con th\u00fa l\u1edbn hung d\u1eef h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>Khi nh\u00ecn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 duy\u00ean kh\u1edfi, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p l\u00fd c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea7y d\u1eaby nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 tranh gi\u00e0nh kh\u1ed1c li\u1ec7t, t\u00e0n b\u1ea1o, trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t \u201cm\u1ea1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u1ebfu thua\u201d \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t quy lu\u1eadt ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 quy lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc, ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a trong t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7ng lo\u1ea1i y\u1ebfu h\u01a1n trong qu\u1ea7n th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i di\u1ec7t vong, v\u00e0 ngay trong m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7ng lo\u1ea1i th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea7n t\u1eed y\u1ebfu h\u01a1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i di\u1ec7t vong. Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ngay t\u1eeb thu\u1edf s\u01a1 khai cho \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i v\u0103n minh ng\u00e0y nay c\u0169ng v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a ra kh\u1ecfi quy lu\u1eadt n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn r\u00f5 quy lu\u1eadt n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda y\u1ebfu n\u1eefa. B\u1edfi v\u00ec, x\u00e9t cho c\u00f9ng th\u00ec c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 nhau trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ea5u tranh \u0111\u1ec3 sinh t\u1ed3n.<\/p>\n<p>Tr\u1eeb khi ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ebf t\u1ee5c t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00e0y, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec, hi\u1ec3u theo m\u1ed9t ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t trong hai ph\u00eda: k\u1ebb \u0111i s\u0103n m\u1ed3i ho\u1eb7c k\u1ebb b\u1ecb s\u0103n. M\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 bu\u00f4n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng khi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a anh ta c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea5u th\u1ee7 c\u1ea1nh tranh \u2013 th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea1nh tranh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng con m\u1ed3i b\u1ecb \u201cx\u00e9 x\u00e1c\u201d theo ngh\u0129a \u0111en, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i n\u0103m tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n doanh nghi\u1ec7p b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n v\u00ec \u201cy\u1ebfu h\u01a1n\u201d. Trong nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e3nh v\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ea5u tranh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai d\u00e1m ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u00e3i m\u00e3i l\u00e0m k\u1ebb chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00ec th\u1ebf, m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1i bi, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u1ea3i r\u1ed9ng kh\u1eafp mu\u00f4n lo\u00e0i, ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u201cnghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda y\u1ebfu\u201d n\u1eefa. Ngay c\u1ea3 \u201ck\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh\u201d kia c\u0169ng \u0111ang ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ea5t nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au kh\u1ed5 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edd qu\u00e1n ni\u1ec7m s\u00e2u xa v\u00e0o nguy\u00ean l\u00fd duy\u00ean kh\u1edfi.<\/p>\n<p>Khi m\u1ed9t con ch\u1ed3n r\u01b0\u1ee3t b\u1eaft con g\u00e0 con ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 b\u00ean n\u00e0o? Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, b\u1ea1n mong sao cho con g\u00e0 con ch\u1ea1y tho\u00e1t. B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y gh\u00e9t con ch\u1ed3n v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201ck\u1ebb \u00e1c\u201d. Gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed con g\u00e0 con th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea1y tho\u00e1t, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn, chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3i c\u1ee7a con ch\u1ed3n hay ch\u0103ng? Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1eadt, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eadn ra khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u lo\u00e0i \u0103n th\u1ecbt, vi\u1ec7c s\u0103n m\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 \u201chung d\u1eef\u201d nh\u01b0 ta g\u00e1n gh\u00e9p cho ch\u00fang qua c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn ch\u1ee7 quan c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee3 s\u0103n \u0111i s\u0103n v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 v\u1ee3 con, \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i cho anh ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c \u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb \u0111i s\u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed, l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 gi\u1ebft ch\u00f3c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vui. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9c \u0103n kh\u00e1c trong t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u01b0 rau qu\u1ea3, ng\u0169 c\u1ed1c, c\u1ee7 r\u1ec5 c\u00e2y&#8230; \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ebft b\u00f2, heo, g\u00e0, v\u1ecbt&#8230; \u0111\u1ec3 \u0103n th\u1ecbt, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e1ch h\u01a1n con ch\u1ed3n kia r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t n\u00ean n\u00f3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng, h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 nh\u00ecn hai \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh g\u00e2y g\u1ed5, s\u00e1t ph\u1ea1t nhau. V\u00ec c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, b\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 \u201cph\u00eda y\u1ebfu\u201d nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m. B\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean, b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3 hai nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>Khi \u0111i t\u00ecm gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i cho nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn tranh gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, v\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang ta \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 cho ph\u00eda b\u1ecb \u00e1p b\u1ee9c, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ngh\u0129a, nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ra \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 khi ta nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t b\u00ean, ta s\u1ebd v\u1ea5p ph\u1ea3i s\u1ee9c ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng t\u1eeb ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, khi ta c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, ta s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean. V\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00f3 ta m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec1 ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p thi\u1ebft th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 mang t\u00ednh kh\u1ea3 thi cho c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean.<\/p>\n<p>Ngay c\u1ea3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra quanh ta, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i t\u1ed1t khi xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean.<\/p>\n<p>NGUY\u00caN MINH<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Khi ch\u00fang ta nghe k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, xem m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 phim hay \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m, thua thi\u1ec7t h\u01a1n. C\u00e1c t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 th\u01b0\u1eddng khai th\u00e1c khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o s\u1ef1 l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n cho c\u1ed1t truy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1110,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[5],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1109"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1109"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1109\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3266,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1109\/revisions\/3266"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1110"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1109"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1109"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1109"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}