{"id":2684,"date":"2013-01-18T11:38:16","date_gmt":"2013-01-18T04:38:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=2684"},"modified":"2013-01-18T11:38:16","modified_gmt":"2013-01-18T04:38:16","slug":"hay-la-chinh-minh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=2684","title":{"rendered":"H\u00e3y l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Chuy\u1ec7n giao ti\u1ebfp, \u1ee9ng x\u1eed trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00e0 t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb. Bao nhi\u00eau bu\u1ed3n vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u c\u0169ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ra. M\u1ecdi giao ti\u1ebfp th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n ra v\u1edbi cung c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb, s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u1ed1t m\u1ed1i d\u00e2y li\u00ean k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n
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\u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb trong cung c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i d\u00e1m s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh!<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ph\u1ea3i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3, v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh!<\/p>\n

Gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p \u0111an xen ch\u1eb1ng ch\u1ecbt, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i mang kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau chi\u1ebfc “m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1” kh\u00e1c nhau, \u0111\u1ec3 giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. L\u00fac n\u00e0o h\u1ecd c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng canh ch\u1eebng, \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111au kh\u1ed5 nh\u1ea5t! T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i kh\u1ed5 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? T\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh?<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y, trong m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u00f3 khi t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac ba c\u00e1i T\u00f4i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 “c\u00e1i T\u00f4i ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c” (t\u1ee9c c\u00e1i T\u00f4i m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111ang c\u00f3), “c\u00e1i T\u00f4i \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng” (t\u1ee9c c\u00e1i T\u00f4i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3) v\u00e0 “c\u00e1i T\u00f4i l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng” (t\u1ee9c c\u00e1i T\u00f4i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang khao kh\u00e1t v\u01b0\u01a1n t\u1edbi, mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh).<\/p>\n

Trong ba c\u00e1i T\u00f4i k\u1ec3 tr\u00ean, th\u00ec “c\u00e1i T\u00f4i \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng” (hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ng\u1ee5y ng\u00e3) ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i nguy h\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Quan s\u00e1t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i T\u00f4i \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n

Bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i T\u00f4i \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh “kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7”. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb c\u00f9ng danh v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ba c\u00e1i c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 bi\u1ebft bao ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, ai l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng mong c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y! C\u0103n b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y kh\u00e1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong giao ti\u1ebfp ng\u00e0y nay. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c “kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7” \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu trong h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

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Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i “c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh” n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 r\u1eb1ng: m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng minh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p… Chao \u00f4i! Danh s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ham h\u1ed1, tham lam c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c… Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n v\u00e0 th\u00e8m mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. L\u00fac n\u00e0o h\u1ecd c\u0169ng th\u1ea7m ngh\u0129 trong l\u00f2ng: “T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ee1. Li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 n\u00ean thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c? Hay l\u00e0 quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm th\u00eam b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p? \u0110\u1ed5i ch\u1ed7 \u1edf? L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn?…”<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u1ea1i th\u00edch b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u \u00e1o qu\u1ea7n, ki\u1ec3u t\u00f3c, c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u00e0 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u1ecd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh! L\u00fac n\u00e0o h\u1ecd c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n “sao ch\u00e9p” l\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t “b\u1ea3n sao” c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh “kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7” n\u00eau tr\u00ean, th\u00ec ham \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb v\u00e0 h\u00e1o danh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 “c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh” c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y \u1edf nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n th\u00e8m kh\u00e1t l\u1eddi khen c\u1ee7a thi\u00ean h\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u0111\u00ea m\u1ea1t! Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 con n\u00edt m\u1edbi ham \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen \u0111\u00e2u! C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn tu\u1ed5i, mang danh l\u00e0 tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c h\u1eb3n hoi m\u00e0 v\u1eabn hu\u1ebfnh ho\u00e1ng, khoe khoang, \u0111\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1, \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, r\u1ea5t t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu v\u0103n ho\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c r\u1ea5t tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi may ra tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i h\u00e1o danh. Sau nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, lo toan c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, sau nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5m th\u00eda c\u1ee7a b\u1ec1 tr\u00e1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1edbt \u0111i nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n danh v\u1ecdng h\u00e3o huy\u1ec1n v\u00e0 s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u00e1ng quan t\u00e2m trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng, \u0111\u00e1ng quan t\u00e2m h\u01a1n danh v\u1ecdng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u!<\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1eb1ng: Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n! Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u00e1ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 b\u01b0\u1edbc qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ea7m ph\u00e0o, th\u00f3i h\u00e1o danh c\u00f9ng v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f4 b\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng… \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ai, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 s\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u1ed1 b\u1ecbch tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. Tuy nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

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Mu\u1ed1n v\u01b0\u01a1n t\u1edbi c\u00e1i T\u00f4i l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 can \u0111\u1ea3m s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1i T\u00f4i ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh!<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t v\u00f4 nh\u1ecb tr\u00ean cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y! Th\u1ebf th\u00ec, t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3? Thay v\u00ec lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh “kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7”, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt h\u01a1n \u2013 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh “c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7”. H\u00e3y thay \u0111\u1ed5i suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu l\u00e2u nay b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ngh\u0129, “M\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea5p, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng minh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 gi\u00e0u c\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p…” th\u00ec nay b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y thay th\u1ebf b\u1eb1ng \u00fd ngh\u0129: “T\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng minh, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea3nh mai, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee7 gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb!”. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3. H\u00e3y b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng can \u0111\u1ea3m v\u00e0 ng\u1ea9ng cao \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u00fa t\u00e2m v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

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