{"id":2885,"date":"2013-04-12T16:36:01","date_gmt":"2013-04-12T09:36:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=2885"},"modified":"2013-04-12T16:36:01","modified_gmt":"2013-04-12T09:36:01","slug":"trai-quyt-cuoi-cung","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=2885","title":{"rendered":"TR\u00c1I QU\u00ddT CU\u1ed0I C\u00d9NG"},"content":{"rendered":"

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M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn thi\u1ec1n t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 ng\u00e0i Munindra d\u1ea1y t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i h\u01a1i th\u1edf, nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u01a1i th\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 l\u00e0 h\u01a1i th\u1edf cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n, m\u1ed7i \u00e2m thanh, m\u1ed7i m\u00f9i v\u1ecb. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa t\u00e2m tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u00e0 tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp. Nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh nh\u1ecf, nh\u1eefng m\u1ea3nh v\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gom g\u00f3p l\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n so s\u00e1nh gi\u1edd ph\u00fat hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i n\u00e0y v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, v\u00ec qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u khi h\u01a1i th\u1edf n\u00e0y l\u00e0 h\u01a1i th\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean? V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 h\u01a1i th\u1edf cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea7n ch\u1edd g\u00ec m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa t\u00e2m h\u1ebft v\u00e0o n\u00f3, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 g\u00ec n\u1eefa \u1edf t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai? T\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ho\u1eb7c t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 so s\u00e1nh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp r\u1ea5t m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ed1i k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng trong ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m, ta s\u1ebd \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, n\u1eafm b\u1eaft nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi. Ta s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb r\u01a1i v\u00e0o h\u1ed1 s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 k\u00edch th\u00edch qua s\u1eafc d\u1ee5c. Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho ta m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tho\u00e1ng qua v\u00e0 n\u1eb1m \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. M\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t th\u00edch th\u00fa g\u00ec m\u1edbi. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 \u0103n m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i qu\u00fdt ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0103n m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i qu\u00fdt m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa t\u00e2m g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00ecnh d\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, m\u00f9i v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0103n qu\u00fdt ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t h\u1ebft. V\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u1eafc c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec sai tr\u1eadt v\u1edbi tr\u00e1i qu\u00fdt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e2u th\u00edch \u0103n qu\u00fdt bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2u! R\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129: \u201cPh\u1ea3i chi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i chu\u1ed1i th\u00ec th\u00edch bi\u1ebft m\u1ea5y.\u201d Nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0103n chu\u1ed1i \u0111i n\u1eefa m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. R\u1ed3i thay v\u00ec \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 v\u00ec ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ta l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129: \u201cCu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i n\u00f3 t\u1ea7m ph\u00e0o v\u00e0 ch\u00e1n ch\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1eafm. L\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 qu\u00fdt hay chu\u1ed1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c! T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u1edbi l\u1ea1 k\u00eca. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i \u0111i t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 tr\u00e1i h\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e0o ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n.\u201d R\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i h\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n \u0103n xong tr\u00e1i h\u1ed3ng \u0111\u00e0o l\u1ea1 hi\u1ebfm \u1ea5y, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng tr\u00e1i qu\u00fdt, tr\u00e1i chu\u1ed1i t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng kia, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tr\u1ed1ng v\u1eafng, b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta \u00edt khi n\u00e0o ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3ng m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng trong c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n \u1ea5y c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt v\u1eady, ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o ta c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd th\u1ee9c s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf, ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m, ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a m\u1edf c\u1eeda b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. Khi ta ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u00fd ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ta th\u1eadt ra tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u, nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 ta m\u1edbi kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed7i s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd vui th\u00edch kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ta \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecb d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o n\u00f3. S\u1ef1 d\u00ednh m\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m cho m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd vui th\u00fa n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vui th\u00fa h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn ni\u1ec1m vui b\u1ecb suy gi\u1ea3m \u0111i, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i lo s\u1ee3 n\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c m\u1ea5t \u0111i. N\u1ebfu ta c\u00f3 ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3, ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i t\u00ecm gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0m g\u00ec. V\u00e0 ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec hay ho h\u01a1n, th\u00edch th\u00fa h\u01a1n, ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng: \u201cC\u00e1i n\u00e0y c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t l\u1eafm, ph\u1ea3i chi n\u00f3 l\u00e0…\u201d Ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m cho ph\u00e9p ta ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt ra, ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng h\u01a1i th\u1edf n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u01a1i th\u1edf cu\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 ta \u0111ang \u0103n tr\u00e1i qu\u00fdt cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, hay l\u00e0 nghe ti\u1ebfng chim h\u00f3t m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n ch\u00f3t. V\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u00fd th\u1ee9c s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf – xem m\u1ed7i kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ta nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t kinh nghi\u1ec7m cu\u1ed1i – ta s\u1ebd th\u1ee9c d\u1eady t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u1eeda m\u00ea n\u1eeda t\u1ec9nh, b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00f4 t\u1eadn v\u00e0 v\u1eefng b\u1ec1n, m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh n\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 hoa tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n

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                          M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn thi\u1ec1n t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 ng\u00e0i Munindra d\u1ea1y t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i h\u01a1i th\u1edf, nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u01a1i th\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 l\u00e0 h\u01a1i th\u1edf cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp y nh\u01b0 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2886,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2885"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2885"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2885\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2887,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2885\/revisions\/2887"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2886"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2885"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2885"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2885"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}