{"id":2896,"date":"2013-04-17T19:26:16","date_gmt":"2013-04-17T12:26:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=2896"},"modified":"2013-04-17T19:26:16","modified_gmt":"2013-04-17T12:26:16","slug":"bon-mua-thay-doi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=2896","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ed0N M\u00d9A THAY \u0110\u1ed4I"},"content":{"rendered":"

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N\u0103m kia, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u1edf California mu\u1ed1n qua vi\u1ebfng th\u0103m New England v\u00e0o m\u00f9a thu. Trong khi ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y ch\u1ecb sang, t\u00f4i m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y c\u1ee9 n\u00f3ng ru\u1ed9t ra nh\u00ecn r\u1eebng c\u00e2y m\u00f9a thu v\u1edbi ng\u00e0n chi\u1ebfc l\u00e1 m\u00e0u s\u1eafc l\u1ed9ng l\u1eaby v\u00e0 r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1, hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang s\u1ebd gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u00e3i. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc l\u00e1 s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u1eb9p cho t\u1edbi ng\u00e0y ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1ebfn. C\u00f3 l\u00fac t\u00f4i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 mu\u1ed1n ra c\u1eafm nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc l\u00e1 r\u1ee5ng l\u1ea1i tr\u00ean c\u00e2y, \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef ch\u00fang cho ch\u1ecb xem. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129: \u201cN\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y khi ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ebfn. Ch\u1ee9 n\u1ebfu l\u00e1 v\u00e0ng kh\u00f4, h\u00e9o phai h\u1ebft th\u00ec c\u00f2n g\u00ec \u00fd ngh\u0129a cho chuy\u1ebfn vi\u1ebfng th\u0103m m\u00f9a thu \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb n\u1eefa!\u201d Nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c th\u00ec ch\u1ecb ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng sang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Khi nghe tin \u1ea5y, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129: \u201cTh\u00f4i, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho ph\u00e9p thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 r\u1ed3i!\u201d<\/p>\n

L\u1ebd d\u0129 nhi\u00ean, \u0111i ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n kh\u00f4ng cho l\u00e1 m\u00f9a thu r\u01a1i r\u1ee5ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111i, bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n ta \u0111\u00e3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng gi\u1eef cho s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed5i thay. Nh\u01b0ng lu\u1eadt v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 c\u01a1 c\u1ea5u c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n thay \u0111\u1ed5i, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n

Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean chung quanh, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y r\u00f5 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1n m\u00f9a. C\u0169ng th\u1ebf, trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb \u0111i. Ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt s\u1edf h\u1eefu, ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfu t\u1eb7ng k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u00fa \u00fd, qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng ch\u00fang n\u1eefa. Ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf kia v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i chi\u1ec1u, v\u00e0 v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 ta bi\u1ebft, cu\u1ed1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi r\u1ed3i ai c\u0169ng s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 thi\u1ec1n t\u1eadp c\u0169ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c. M\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t r\u1ed3i bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. \u00c2m thanh kh\u1edfi l\u00ean r\u1ed3i l\u1eafng xu\u1ed1ng. M\u00f9i, v\u1ecb, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i \u0111i. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh hi\u1ec7n l\u00ean r\u1ed3i tan bi\u1ebfn. M\u1ed7i gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem, theo l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Ralph Waldo Emerson, nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u201cs\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a n\u00fai l\u1eeda\u201d. Qua thi\u1ec1n t\u1eadp ta bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi hay \u00fd \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ch\u1ee9ng nghi\u1ec7m, r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang sanh ra v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft \u0111i trong t\u1eebng gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u00fac trong thi\u1ec1n t\u1eadp, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean t\u00e2m ta kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh sinh kh\u1edfi x\u1ea3y ra trong m\u1ed7i gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat. N\u00f3 m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t kh\u1edfi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. D\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00e2m thanh, m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh, m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac trong th\u00e2n hay l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Ch\u00fang ta kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ta \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i – v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn ph\u00e9p l\u1ea1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111ang khai sinh.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac trong thi\u1ec1n t\u1eadp ta kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra lu\u1eadt v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. T\u00e2m ta t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean s\u1ebd ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn giai \u0111o\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, s\u1ef1 ho\u1ea1i di\u1ec7t trong m\u1ed7i gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat, b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t kia c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Ta ghi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 tan r\u00e3 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh kinh nghi\u1ec7m. Ta \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t m\u1ecfng manh c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd nh\u1ea5t, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ta h\u1eb1ng c\u1ed1 \u00f4m \u1ea5p v\u00e0 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef. Ta m\u1edbi ngo\u1ea3nh m\u1eb7t trong ph\u00fat ch\u1ed1c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 tan bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i. Ta ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng theo m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eeba nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i th\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ecd \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa. M\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 mong manh, qu\u00e1 ph\u00f9 du, m\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00f3ng phai, cho ta th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ho\u1ea1i di\u1ec7t bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng n\u1eb1m ngay trong tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 sinh kh\u1edfi. C\u00f3 n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta b\u00e1m gi\u1eef kh\u00f4ng? Nh\u01b0 Kalu Rinpoche n\u00f3i: \u201cH\u01a1i th\u1edf c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 bong b\u00f3ng n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u00dd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 sinh kh\u1edfi c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho ta m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u1ea7u nhi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ch\u00f3ng t\u00e0n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang khi\u1ebfn ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hai kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh \u1ea5y c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed5i thay s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ta th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00e2n t\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt. D\u00f9 ta c\u00f3 th\u00edch b\u1ed1n m\u00f9a thay \u0111\u1ed5i hay kh\u00f4ng, ta v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1eb7t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o ch\u00fang, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a v\u00f2ng xoay. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, khi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00e2n l\u00fd v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed5i thay trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, ta s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m tin \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

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                                N\u0103m kia, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u1edf California mu\u1ed1n qua vi\u1ebfng th\u0103m New England v\u00e0o m\u00f9a thu. Trong khi ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y ch\u1ecb sang, t\u00f4i m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y c\u1ee9 n\u00f3ng ru\u1ed9t ra nh\u00ecn r\u1eebng c\u00e2y m\u00f9a thu v\u1edbi ng\u00e0n chi\u1ebfc […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2897,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2896"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2896"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2896\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2898,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2896\/revisions\/2898"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2897"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2896"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2896"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2896"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}