{"id":3009,"date":"2013-05-06T10:15:45","date_gmt":"2013-05-06T03:15:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=3009"},"modified":"2013-05-06T10:15:45","modified_gmt":"2013-05-06T03:15:45","slug":"thuong-ai-thuong-ca-duong-di-loi-ve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=3009","title":{"rendered":"Th\u01b0\u01a1ng ai th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i l\u1ed1i v\u1ec1"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n lu\u00f4n chi ph\u1ed1i c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng chung quanh. Khi ta vui, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 quanh ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u vui theo. Khi ta bu\u1ed3n, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh v\u1eadt v\u00f4 tri c\u0169ng nhu\u1ed1m theo v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n trong l\u00f2ng ta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, khi ta c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ai, m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh vi, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ta cho l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ta tha th\u1ee9. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, khi ta gi\u1eadn gh\u00e9t ai, ta lu\u00f4n th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh vi, c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n l\u00e0m cho ta b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. B\u1edfi v\u1eady, t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef ta c\u00f3 c\u00e2u:<\/p>\n

Khi th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7 \u1ea5u c\u0169ng tr\u00f2n,
\nKhi gh\u00e9t b\u1ed3 h\u00f2n c\u0169ng m\u00e9o.<\/p>\n

Ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft, c\u1ee7 \u1ea5u ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 c\u1ee7 n\u00e0o l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00f3c c\u1ea1nh, m\u00e9o m\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng khi th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 tr\u00f2n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, tr\u00e1i b\u1ed3 h\u00f2n tr\u00f2n tr\u1ecba l\u00e0 th\u1ebf, m\u00e0 khi gh\u00e9t th\u00ec c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u00e9o m\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u1ee7 quan nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi. Ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ebf m\u00e0 ca dao ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 ghi nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng:<\/p>\n

Th\u01b0\u01a1ng ai th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i,
\nGh\u00e9t ai gh\u00e9t c\u1ea3 t\u00f4ng chi h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng, gh\u00e9t l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m th\u01b0\u01a1ng, gh\u00e9t \u0111an xen l\u1eabn nhau \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ec7t n\u00ean b\u1ee9c tranh \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. B\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh c\u1ea3m quan c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh trong t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng soi, m\u00e0 lu\u00f4n ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 kh\u00fac x\u1ea1 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh theo nh\u1eefng h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c nhau t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ta trong m\u1ed7i l\u00fac.<\/p>\n

Khi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ch\u00fa t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 chi ph\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ch\u1ee7 quan l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u00f3 th\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn cho ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ec7ch v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n, v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quanh ta. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng c\u1ee7 \u1ea5u tr\u00f2n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u00e1i b\u1ed3 h\u00f2n m\u00e9o m\u00f3, th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u1ee7 quan l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m quanh ta. Nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 t\u1ed1t, x\u1ea5u, hay, d\u1edf… \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea5t bi\u1ebfn, v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c ra ch\u00fang lu\u00f4n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng l\u1ea1c quan, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng quanh ta s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9 \u0111i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng may ho\u1eb7c tr\u00e1i \u00fd v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, s\u1ef1 b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c hay c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng khi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1eb3ng gi\u00fap \u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m l\u00fd s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ta \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c hay c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean l\u00e0 ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft thay \u0111\u1ed5i, c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quanh ta. Khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1edf l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 gh\u00e9t gi\u1eadn, th\u00ec t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n, \u00edt c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00e1ng cho ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m h\u1eddn gi\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf, l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng mang l\u1ea1i cho ch\u00fang ta t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng l\u1ea1c quan v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n, s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ecdi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00ednh t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng l\u1ea1c quan n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n nh\u00ecn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u01a1n, nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 \u1edf m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi quanh ta.<\/p>\n

TH\u00c1I H\u1ed2NG MINH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n lu\u00f4n chi ph\u1ed1i c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng chung quanh. Khi ta vui, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 quanh ta c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u vui theo. Khi ta bu\u1ed3n, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh v\u1eadt v\u00f4 tri c\u0169ng nhu\u1ed1m theo v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n trong l\u00f2ng ta. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, khi ta […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3010,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3009"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3009"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3009\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3012,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3009\/revisions\/3012"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3010"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3009"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3009"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3009"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}