{"id":3025,"date":"2013-05-06T10:44:47","date_gmt":"2013-05-06T03:44:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=3025"},"modified":"2013-05-06T10:45:34","modified_gmt":"2013-05-06T03:45:34","slug":"cam-thong-va-tha-thu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=3025","title":{"rendered":"C\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9"},"content":{"rendered":"

Khi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ai \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf r\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1edbn. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, khi b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y, ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>V\u00ec th\u1ebf, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecd. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1edd \u01a1 qua l\u1edbp v\u1ecf h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tinh t\u1ebf h\u01a1n thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m hay n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 m\u1edf l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kh\u1ed5 \u0111au m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111ang g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu, ta vui m\u1eebng theo v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i h\u00e2n hoan m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00e0 ta th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, ta c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd v\u1eady m\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa ta v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00fat ng\u1eafn, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ef1 ng\u0103n c\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, cho n\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m nhau, g\u00e2y m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, hi\u1ec1m kh\u00edch v\u1edbi nhau, h\u1eddn tr\u00e1ch, o\u00e1n h\u1eadn nhau… th\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Bi k\u1ecbch th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0: h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta quy k\u1ebft nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 do ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, do s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn, do ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c… v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 l\u00fd do kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu nh\u1ea5t l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecf qua kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn c\u1ee7a h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 m\u1eb7c nhi\u00ean xem l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ban t\u1eb7ng, s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1eefa ta v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 trong m\u1ed9t khu r\u1eebng hoang, h\u1ecda ho\u1eb1n l\u1eafm ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u00e2y c\u00f3 tr\u00e1i ch\u00edn th\u01a1m ng\u1ecdt, \u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ta b\u1ecf c\u00f4ng khai ph\u00e1 khu r\u1eebng \u1ea5y v\u00e0 mang nh\u1eefng gi\u1ed1ng c\u00e2y tr\u00e1i ngon ng\u1ecdt \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u1ed3ng, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean thu ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng tr\u00e1i c\u00e2y th\u01a1m ng\u1ecdt.<\/p>\n

C\u0169ng v\u1eady, tr\u00ean m\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea5t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a ta, tuy th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng hoa tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf. N\u1ebfu ta bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 cho ta nhi\u1ec1u hoa th\u01a1m tr\u00e1i ng\u1ecdt. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng bu\u00f4ng th\u1ea3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng hoa tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. V\u00e0 t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y sinh nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a kh\u1ed5 \u0111au v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n. Nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m, s\u1ef1 h\u1eddn gi\u1eadn o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch, s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i… T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng sau khi ly h\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u1ed1ng nhau \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1 khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n tan v\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh: Anh \u1ea5y (ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y) kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u t\u00f4i! \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 chia tay. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau? \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng r\u1ea5t y\u00eau nhau. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4 h\u00e9o, t\u00e0n l\u1ee5i. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau nhau, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 nhau. Bi k\u1ecbch bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng ph\u00e1t sinh t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, hi\u1ec1m kh\u00edch l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y n\u1ea3y sinh gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 cha con, m\u1eb9 con, anh ch\u1ecb em… c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Khi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, th\u00ec kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau m\u00e0 c\u00f2n th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1ec1 nhau. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n x\u1ea5u \u0111i cho \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tan v\u1ee1.<\/p>\n

Khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y c\u0169ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n ngay c\u1ea3 trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, cho \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e1ng gi\u1ec1ng v\u1edbi nhau \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1 b\u1ea5t bi\u1ebfn. Ch\u00fang lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t ch\u1eadu hoa tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u00e2n nh\u00e0 v\u1eady. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb t\u01b0\u1edbi n\u01b0\u1edbc th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, ch\u1eadu hoa s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o t\u01b0\u01a1i t\u1ed1t. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n qu\u00ean h\u1eb3n vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng bao l\u00e2u n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4 c\u1eb1n r\u1ed3i ch\u1ebft \u0111i.<\/p>\n

Khi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng th\u00ec m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd di\u1ec5n ra theo chi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. V\u00ec nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nhau, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m t\u01b0, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a nhau, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui, n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n, nh\u1eefng kh\u1ed5 \u0111au b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh hay s\u1ef1 h\u00e2n hoan vui s\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a nhau… V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu h\u1eb9p d\u1ea7n, cho \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ng\u0103n c\u00e1ch v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n

Khi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ta hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i qua con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng suy lu\u1eadn d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean l\u00fd l\u1ebd, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 qua s\u1ef1 tr\u1ef1c nh\u1eadn, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng gi\u1eefa hai t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. Hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nhau. Khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang v\u1ec1 ai \u0111\u00f3 qua s\u1ef1 suy lu\u1eadn, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng d\u1eef ki\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, m\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm khi, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd x\u1ea3y ra. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n hay m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3. V\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng phi\u1ebfn di\u1ec7n, sai l\u1ec7ch. V\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n hay nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t sai l\u1ea7m th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m nhau l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng sao tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, khi ta nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4ng qua s\u1ef1 tr\u1ef1c nh\u1eadn, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng gi\u1eefa hai t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 ng\u0103n c\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c qua s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n quan s\u00e1t m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf x\u1ea3y ra trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa hai khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1eeba n\u00f3i tr\u00ean. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, khi b\u1ea1n chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi b\u00e0n \u0103n \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i l\u00e0m, b\u1ea5t ch\u1ee3t \u0111\u1ee9a con g\u00e1i nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed5 ly s\u1eefa. S\u1eefa ch\u1ea3y tr\u00e0n l\u00ean b\u00e0n r\u1ed3i ch\u1ea3y ra m\u00e9p b\u00e0n, v\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd n\u00ean b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng sao tr\u00e1nh k\u1ecbp, th\u1ebf l\u00e0 s\u1eefa ch\u1ea3y xu\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m \u01b0\u1edbt b\u1ea9n c\u1ea3 qu\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e3 v\u1eady, con b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n lu\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed1ng k\u00e9o m\u1ea1nh kh\u0103n tr\u1ea3i b\u00e0n l\u00e0m ch\u00e9n d\u0129a ly t\u00e1ch thi nhau r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng n\u1ec1n nh\u00e0 v\u1ee1 lo\u1ea3ng xo\u1ea3ng… Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh! L\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i \u0111i thay \u0111\u1ed3, v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ec5 gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1edf l\u00e0m. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nghi ng\u1edd g\u00ec n\u1eefa, v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u00e3 h\u01a1n m\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u1ed5i m\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con b\u00e9 m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u1ec1 sau…<\/p>\n

Trong l\u00fac b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c v\u00ec s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng gi\u1eefa t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con b\u00e9 b\u1ecfng. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00ea ph\u00e1n, nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 h\u1ed1t ho\u1ea3ng, s\u1ee3 s\u1ec7t trong l\u00f2ng con b\u00e9 khi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u1ea7n l\u00fac \u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea5n an, xoa d\u1ecbu, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t, qu\u00e1t th\u00e1o. V\u00ec n\u00f3 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 ngoan, v\u00e0 l\u1ebd ra b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n ai h\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0, con b\u00e9 b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t con ki\u1ebfn c\u1eafn v\u00e0o n\u00e1ch trong khi \u0111ang ch\u1ea1m tay v\u00e0o ly s\u1eefa, th\u1ebf l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 gi\u1eadt tay c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ng\u00e3 ly s\u1eefa. Ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3 khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y ly s\u1eefa ng\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed5, n\u00f3 c\u1ed1 v\u1edbi tay theo \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed9p l\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec qu\u00e1 lu\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed1ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm l\u1ea5y m\u00e9p kh\u0103n b\u00e0n v\u00e0 gi\u1eadt m\u1ea1nh… K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00e0ng t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt ra, \u0111i l\u00e0m tr\u1ec5 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u qu\u00e1 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, khi s\u1ef1 r\u1ee7i ro ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh m\u1ecdi r\u1ee7i ro? M\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng qua \u0111i. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng qua \u0111i. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 con g\u00e1i, thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 thu ng\u1eafn d\u1ea7n kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch \u1ea5y. T\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t trong c\u01a1n b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con m\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n h\u1eb3n \u0111\u00e3 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf c\u0169ng s\u1ebd h\u1ee3p l\u00fd h\u01a1n. Khi c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ecfa chi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con m\u00ecnh qua s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng g\u00ec nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi di\u1ec5n ra theo \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 d\u1ef1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u01b0ng trong v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec3n, thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea5p b\u00eanh c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t \u0111i ni\u1ec1m tin \u1ea5y th\u00ec m\u1ecdi gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y c\u0169ng s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec. N\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1edf l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129a quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n. Thi s\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Anh Alexander Pope \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng vi\u1ebft: \u201cL\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft tha th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n.\u201d (To err is human, to forgive divine.) Khi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c. T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1eb7ng h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ta gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Trong khi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o l\u00fd lu\u1eadn lu\u00f4n d\u1eabn ta \u0111\u1ebfn khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng r\u0103n \u0111e, tr\u00e1ch ph\u1ea1t, th\u00ec l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng lu\u00f4n h\u01b0\u1edbng ta v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m t\u01b0 v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do n\u01a1i s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n \u0111o\u00e1n d\u1ef1a theo v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng n\u0103ng h\u00e0n g\u1eafn m\u1ecdi th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n, c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, s\u1ef1 r\u0103n \u0111e tr\u00e1ch ph\u1ea1t ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. Khi thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta m\u1edbi c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch ph\u1ea1t nh\u01b0 bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c m\u1ecdi l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m. S\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch ph\u1ea1t lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 mang l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t m\u00e1y m\u00f3c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi m\u1ed9t c\u1ed7 m\u00e1y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn n\u00e0o h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng \u0111\u1ec3 thay th\u1ebf n\u00f3. Sau khi thay th\u1ebf c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u1ed7 m\u00e1y s\u1ebd ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c, b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. Nh\u01b0ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ed7 m\u00e1y, v\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n thay th\u1ebf c\u1ea3! Khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 \u201cthay th\u1ebf\u201d m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, n\u00ean h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh r\u1eb1ng, ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i lu\u00f4n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i nh\u1edd lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00f3 sao? M\u00e0 lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t, ch\u1ebf t\u00e0i. V\u1eady ch\u1eb3ng l\u1ebd c\u00f3 g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y sao?<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i c\u0169ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd r\u1eb1ng lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng trong quan h\u1ec7 ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ee9ng cho quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, hay n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem x\u00e9t nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 th\u1ee9 y\u1ebfu m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. T\u1eeb x\u01b0a, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 l\u1eadp ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u00e2u \u201cPh\u00e1p b\u1ea5t v\u1ecb th\u00e2n\u201d, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c quan t\u00f2a lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t nh\u01b0 nhau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i gi\u1ed1ng nhau, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i l\u00e0 ai, c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1edbi c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ee9 hai, t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 cho c\u00e1c l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. M\u00e0 l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 t\u1ed9i \u00e1c l\u00e0 hai ph\u1ea1m tr\u00f9 kh\u00e1c nhau. Ch\u00fang ta m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 do s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh, thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i \u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u00f4i th\u00fac c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00e1i v\u1edbi quy \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ec1n l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ngay ch\u00ednh trong h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt th\u00ec y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 khoan h\u1ed3ng, tha th\u1ee9 v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e9t th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 \u00fd ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh h\u1ed1i l\u1ed7i.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y, s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem tr\u1ecdng. V\u00e0 v\u00ec quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem tr\u1ecdng n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf t\u1ed1i \u0111a m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng tha th\u1ee9 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

D\u00f9 v\u1eady, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 t\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Khi ch\u00fang ta nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9 l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, g\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u00e9p.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf, cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec3m xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng v\u1eabn l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt. M\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 \u0111i theo khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

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Khi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ai \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf r\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1edbn. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, khi b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3026,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3025"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3025"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3025\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3029,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3025\/revisions\/3029"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3026"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3025"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3025"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3025"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}