{"id":3053,"date":"2013-05-07T17:10:54","date_gmt":"2013-05-07T10:10:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=3053"},"modified":"2013-05-07T17:10:54","modified_gmt":"2013-05-07T10:10:54","slug":"ke-chien-thang","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=3053","title":{"rendered":"K\u1ebb chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n do ta t\u1ef1 quy\u1ebft, m\u00e0 lu\u00f4n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n v\u00e0o th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta. M\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan n\u00e0y tuy c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ebfu ta quan s\u00e1t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1ch quan nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ta, n\u1ebfu ta c\u0169ng n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y v\u00e0 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i th\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, gay g\u1eaft h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, h\u00f2a nh\u00e3, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng d\u1ecbu \u0111i.<\/p>\n

T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n m\u1eafng ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 h\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1eaft \u00f3c suy ngh\u0129 t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u m\u1eafng ch\u1eedi kh\u00e1c cay \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01a1n, gay g\u1eaft h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u00f4n h\u00f2a, m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1edfi m\u1edf hay m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, th\u00ec c\u00e1i \u201cd\u0169ng kh\u00ed\u201d ban \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tan bi\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f2n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan chi ph\u1ed1i l\u1eabn nhau trong giao ti\u1ebfp c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 l\u1ef1c h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c v\u1eadt th\u1ec3. Khi m\u1ed9t v\u1eadt th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 k\u00edch th\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ef1c h\u00fat l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, m\u1ed9t v\u1eadt th\u1ec3 nh\u1ecf tuy c\u0169ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c h\u00fat nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb k\u00e9o v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda c\u1ee7a v\u1eadt th\u1ec3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi nhau, t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n s\u1ebd chi ph\u1ed1i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh g\u00e2y g\u1ed5 khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, nh\u01b0ng anh ta l\u1ea1i \u0111ang trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn v\u00ec m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, s\u1ef1 th\u00f4 l\u1ed7, c\u00e1u g\u1eaft c\u1ee7a anh ta s\u1ebd cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat b\u1ea1n, khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng l\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u00e1u g\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m g\u00ec anh ta.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c v\u00ec m\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c \u0111i\u1ec1m t\u0129nh, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1eafng nghe t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u00e0 t\u1eeb t\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, s\u1ef1 n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec3 lay chuy\u1ec3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y, m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 \u00f4n h\u00f2a c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng qua l\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean trong c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p giao ti\u1ebfp th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 gi\u00fap ta h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n theo t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tinh th\u1ea7n v\u1eefng ch\u00e3i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng bu\u00f4ng th\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng tu d\u01b0\u1ee1ng.<\/p>\n

Khi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc chi ph\u1ed1i l\u1eabn nhau trong giao ti\u1ebfp, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng trong m\u1ed7i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p giao ti\u1ebfp th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ed1i lui ho\u1eb7c khu\u1ea5t ph\u1ee5c, m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 c\u1edb, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u201cv\u0169 l\u1ef1c\u201d c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eadp t\u1eaft c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn d\u1eef \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 k\u1ebb chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng. V\u00ec trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb cu\u1ed1n h\u00fat v\u00e0o c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn c\u1ee7a anh ta, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed theo v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a anh ta ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Anh ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cch\u00e2m ng\u00f2i\u201d cho m\u1ed9t c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 trong b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn ph\u1ea3i l\u1eafng d\u1ecbu \u0111i v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00f4n h\u00f2a, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh h\u01a1n, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 k\u1ebb chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng. B\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng, trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u201cch\u1ecdc gi\u1eadn\u201d hay l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

Trong \u00fd ngh\u0129a n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, m\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n n\u1eefa c\u00f2n l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ebf ng\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t theo th\u00f3i quen \u1ee9ng x\u1eed \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng trong \u00fd ngh\u0129a th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 khu\u1ea5t ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eadt ra ch\u1eb3ng mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch g\u00ec cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00e0 c\u00f2n g\u00e2y th\u00eam phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec1m kh\u00edch kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng trong \u00fd ngh\u0129a chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda giao ti\u1ebfp trong s\u1ef1 \u00f4n h\u00f2a. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n mang l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 an \u1ed5n.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf, m\u1ed7i khi b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 trong m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p giao ti\u1ebfp c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eef v\u1eefng t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u0111i\u1ec1m t\u0129nh, \u00f4n h\u00f2a c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a m\u1ecdi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Khi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 k\u1ebb chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng!<\/p>\n

TH\u00c1I H\u1ed2NG MINH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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