C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc khuy\u1ebfn c\u00e1o, vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do s\u1ef1 tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c c\u00fang b\u00e1i, v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh chung \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed5 s\u00fay cho m\u00ea t\u00edn…<\/p>\n
Tr\u00f9ng tang do… th\u1ea7y b\u00f3i ph\u00e1n!<\/p>\n
Ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00f2ng h\u01a1n 2 n\u0103m, gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ecb V\u0169 Th\u1ecb H\u00e0 (Qu\u00e1n S\u1ecfi, D\u01b0 H\u00e0ng K\u00eanh, H\u1ea3i Ph\u00f2ng) \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t \u0111i ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft. L\u1eddi ph\u00e1n c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y c\u00fang r\u1eb1ng “nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u00f9ng tang, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i th\u00ec tr\u00f9ng s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c b\u1eaft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n kh\u00e1c” khi\u1ebfn ch\u1ecb v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh hoang mang t\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9.<\/p>\n
G\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eb7t b\u01a1 ph\u1edd, \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft th\u00e2m qu\u1ea7ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 s\u1ef1 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, lo l\u1eafng, ch\u1ecb H\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, gi\u1ecdng ch\u01b0a h\u1ebft b\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng “ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea7y ba n\u0103m m\u00e0 b\u00ean ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 ba c\u00e1i tang”. Ch\u1ecb k\u1ec3, gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 6 anh ch\u1ecb em. Th\u00e1ng 7\/2008, ng\u01b0\u1eddi em \u00fat c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 anh Ph\u1ea1m M\u1ea1nh H\u00f9ng b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh, m\u1ea5t \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 37 khi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i x\u00f3t xa.<\/p>\n
Th\u00e1ng 12 n\u0103m ngo\u00e1i, v\u1ee3 anh H\u00f9ng l\u00e0 ch\u1ecb Ph\u1ea1m Th\u1ecb H\u1eb1ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed5 b\u1ec7nh m\u00e0 m\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i hai \u0111\u1ee9a con nh\u1ecf. Nh\u01b0ng tai h\u1ecda ch\u01b0a d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 khi m\u00f9ng 5 T\u1ebft v\u1eeba qua, m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb 71 tu\u1ed5i m\u1ea5t v\u00ec tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 s\u1ee9c y\u1ebfu. Chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00f3i n\u1ebfu m\u1ea5y ch\u1ecb em kh\u00f4ng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i m\u00e1ch \u0111i xem b\u00f3i.<\/p>\n
“Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 m\u1ea5y “th\u1ea7y” c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng trong th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1, \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng nghe ph\u00e1n l\u00e0 trong nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u00f9ng tang. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00fang b\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00f9ng th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c b\u1eaft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1eadn kh\u00e1c ch\u1ebft theo. Nghe v\u1eady ai c\u0169ng s\u1ee3”, ch\u1ecb H\u00e0 k\u1ec3.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng cho bi\u1ebft th\u00eam: “Th\u1eadt ra, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nghe nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f9ng tang r\u1ed3i. Nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea7n v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ea t\u00edn, ph\u1ea7n v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh n\u00ean t\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd. Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u01a1 s\u1ef1 n\u00e0y th\u00ec m\u1edbi cu\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3 l\u00ean”.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n mang m\u00e0u s\u1eafc m\u00ea t\u00edn<\/p>\n
C\u0169ng b\u1ecb ph\u00e1n “c\u00f3 tr\u00f9ng tang” l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ecb Tr\u1ea7n Th\u1ecb Nhung \u1edf x\u00e3 \u0110\u00f4ng Xuy\u00ean (Ti\u1ec1n H\u1ea3i, Th\u00e1i B\u00ecnh). Th\u00e1ng 10\/2010, anh \u0110o\u00e0n V\u0103n M\u1ea1o – ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed5 b\u1ec7nh r\u1ed3i m\u1ea5t ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n. C\u00e1i ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a anh M\u1ea1o khi\u1ebfn gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ecb b\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng d\u1eebng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3…<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ecb Nhung v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 l\u00e0ng x\u00f3m v\u1eabn c\u00f2n n\u01a1m n\u1edbp lo s\u1ee3 khi truy\u1ec1n tai nhau nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n mang m\u00e0u s\u1eafc m\u00ea t\u00edn, khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ecfi b\u00e1n t\u00edn b\u00e1n nghi. “L\u00fac anh \u1ea5y m\u1edbi m\u1ea5t, d\u00f9 ngo\u00e0i tr\u1eddi v\u1eabn n\u1eafng to, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f2n m\u1eb7c \u00e1o ph\u00f4ng sang l\u00e0m \u0111\u00e1m, th\u1ebf m\u00e0 ai v\u00e0o trong nh\u00e0 c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y l\u1ea1nh to\u00e1t”, ch\u1ecb \u0110o\u00e0n Th\u1ecb Nh\u1ee7 – em ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb Nhung k\u1ec3.<\/p>\n
“N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 coi vi\u1ec7c trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 tr\u00f9ng tang th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, b\u1edfi nhi\u1ec1u khi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 tr\u00f9ng tang th\u00ec theo t\u00f4i, c\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf ch\u1ed7, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e2n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00e2ng cao hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ed9i quy k\u1ebft l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb tr\u00f9ng tang. T\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u sai b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai, c\u1ed5 x\u00fay cho m\u00ea t\u00edn, ph\u1ea3i c\u00fang b\u00e1i t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00f3”.<\/p>\n
PGS. TS H\u00e0 V\u0129nh T\u00e2n<\/p>\n
R\u1ed3i chuy\u1ec7n ngay t\u1ed1i h\u00f4m \u0111\u01b0a thi h\u00e0i ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1ecb Nhung ra \u0111\u1ed3ng an t\u00e1ng, c\u1eadu em ch\u1ed3ng v\u1eeba d\u1eaft xe m\u00e1y ra \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ed5ng \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 th\u00ec nghe r\u00f5 ti\u1ebfng g\u1ecdi gi\u1eadt l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn anh n\u00e0y s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i m\u1eb7t “c\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n gi\u1ecdt m\u00e1u”, ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0a v\u1ec1.<\/p>\n
“Theo kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 th\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u00f9ng. \u0110\u1ee9a con trai th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y s\u1ee3, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 ng\u1ee7 n\u1eefa. Ngay c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e0 h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 d\u00e1m sang nh\u00e0 ch\u1ecb d\u00e2u v\u00e0o ban ng\u00e0y, m\u00e0 c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng d\u00e1m v\u00e0o nh\u00e0 v\u00ec u \u00e1m, l\u1ea1nh l\u1ebdo l\u1eafm”, ch\u1ecb Nh\u1ee7 ti\u1ebfp l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
M\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ee9t h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c tri\u1ec7u<\/p>\n
Qua t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y, m\u1ed7i khi b\u1ecb “ph\u00e1n” l\u00e0 c\u00f3 “tr\u00f9ng tang”, gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ea3i m\u1eddi th\u1ea7y v\u1ec1 l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 “gi\u1ea3i tr\u00f9ng”. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 c\u0169ng mu\u00f4n h\u00ecnh v\u1ea1n tr\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 c\u1ea3 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n
\u00d4ng th\u1ea7y m\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ecb H\u00e0 m\u1eddi v\u1ec1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng \u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1. Theo g\u1ee3i \u00fd c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y, l\u1ec5 c\u00fang ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u00e2m c\u1ed7 m\u1eb7n, h\u01b0\u01a1ng hoa. Ri\u00eang th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd lo ph\u1ea7n gi\u1ea5y s\u1edb, h\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n th\u1ebf m\u1ea1ng. “T\u1ea5t t\u1ea7n t\u1eadt c\u00e1c kho\u1ea3n c\u0169ng h\u1ebft ng\u00f3t hai ch\u1ee5c tri\u1ec7u”, ch\u1ecb H\u00e0 nh\u1ea9m t\u00ednh. “C\u0169ng may, c\u00f3 n\u0103m gia \u0111\u00ecnh anh ch\u1ecb em c\u00f9ng san s\u1ebb n\u00ean \u0111\u1ee1 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o”, ch\u1ecb b\u1ea3o.<\/p>\n
C\u00f2n nh\u00e0 ch\u1ecb Nhung th\u00ec k\u00e9m thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i h\u01a1n khi ph\u1ea3i m\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn hai th\u1ea7y c\u00fang, l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 hai l\u1ea7n. “Th\u1ea7y c\u00fang \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1ea3i, m\u1ea5t h\u01a1n ch\u1ee5c tri\u1ec7u r\u1ed3i. Nh\u01b0ng sau \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i xem ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c cho ch\u1eafc \u0103n, th\u1ea7y ph\u00e1n l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i m\u1eddi m\u1ed9t th\u1ea7y cao tay h\u01a1n \u1edf huy\u1ec7n b\u00ean. T\u00ednh ra, t\u1ed5ng c\u1ed9ng hai l\u1ea7n c\u0169ng g\u1ea7n ba ch\u1ee5c tri\u1ec7u”, ch\u1ecb Nhung cho hay.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n l\u00e0m l\u1ec5 “gi\u1ea3i tr\u00f9ng” \u1ea5y, ngo\u00e0i ti\u1ec1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ebfng, ti\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu con trai \u0111i l\u00e0m phu h\u1ed3 ngo\u00e0i H\u00e0 N\u1ed9i t\u00edch c\u00f3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec ch\u1ecb Nhung v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i vay m\u01b0\u1ee3n th\u00eam c\u1ee7a anh em h\u1ecd h\u00e0ng. “\u0110\u1ebfn gi\u1edd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n n\u1ee3 ch\u1eebng n\u0103m tri\u1ec7u n\u1eefa”, ch\u1ecb Nhung b\u1ea5m \u0111\u1ed1t ng\u00f3n tay.<\/p>\n
Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean?<\/p>\n
PGS.TS H\u00e0 V\u0129nh T\u00e2n, gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c Trung t\u00e2m V\u1eadt l\u00fd M\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng, Vi\u1ec7n V\u1eadt l\u00fd t\u1ecf ra kh\u00e1 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng khi \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 cho bi\u1ebft: “Tr\u00f9ng tang l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m d\u00e2n gian, hi\u1ec7n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh khoa h\u1ecdc ghi nh\u1eadn tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 tr\u00f9ng tang c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i ch\u00fang”.<\/p>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u00f4ng H\u00e0 V\u0129nh T\u00e2n c\u0169ng cho r\u1eb1ng: “V\u0169 tr\u1ee5 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u00e2m linh. C\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 thu\u1ed9c l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0y m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn nay khoa h\u1ecdc hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Do \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y”.<\/p>\n
Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, cho \u0111\u1ebfn nay, vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng “tr\u00f9ng tang” v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c m\u00e0n b\u00ed \u1ea9n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc khuy\u1ebfn c\u00e1o, vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 do s\u1ef1 tr\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c c\u00fang b\u00e1i, v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh chung \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed5 s\u00fay cho m\u00ea t\u00edn… Tr\u00f9ng tang do… th\u1ea7y b\u00f3i ph\u00e1n! […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/311"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=311"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/311\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":312,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/311\/revisions\/312"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=311"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=311"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=311"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}