{"id":3905,"date":"2013-08-04T17:03:33","date_gmt":"2013-08-04T10:03:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=3905"},"modified":"2013-08-04T17:03:33","modified_gmt":"2013-08-04T10:03:33","slug":"cuoc-doi-la-mau-thuan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=3905","title":{"rendered":"CU\u1ed8C \u0110\u1edcI L\u00c0 M\u00c2U THU\u1ea8N"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/12.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-3906\" title=\"1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/12.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"350\" height=\"252\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/12.jpg 350w, http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/12-300x216.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" \/><strong style=\"color: #333333; font-size: 13px;\">HT. Th\u00edch Thanh T\u1eeb<\/strong><\/a><br \/>\nCu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn\u201d, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec cao si\u00eau l\u1eafm m\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an l\u00e0nh t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 l\u00e0m ray r\u1ee9t, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu. M\u1edbi nghe qua r\u1ea5t l\u1ea1 nh\u01b0ng x\u00e9t k\u1ef9 th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. B\u1edfi v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed t\u1ea1i gia c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t gia lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n. Than t\u1ea1i sao \u1edf gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi nhau, ho\u1eb7c \u1edf trong ch\u00f9a sao kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00e2m hi\u1ec7p l\u1ef1c v\u1edbi nhau. T\u1eadp th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady h\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00fd do g\u00ec m\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n, nh\u1eefng ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n \u0111\u00f3? B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta th\u1eed ki\u1ec3m tra l\u1ea1i n\u01a1i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, t\u1eeb th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c cho \u0111\u1ebfn tinh th\u1ea7n; v\u00e0 \u0111i xa h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1c quan ni\u1ec7m, nh\u1eefng t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ai c\u0169ng ng\u1ee1 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn l\u00e0 do ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ecd, ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 c\u00e1i m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf s\u1eb5n trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i theo Ph\u1eadt h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng trong y h\u1ecdc qu\u00ed v\u1ecb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng. Trong Ph\u1eadt h\u1ecdc Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y th\u00e2n n\u00e0y do t\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p g\u1ed3m: \u0111\u1ea5t, n\u01b0\u1edbc, gi\u00f3, l\u1eeda. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ea5t v\u1edbi gi\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng thu\u1eadn, n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi l\u1eeda kh\u00f4ng thu\u1eadn. Cho n\u00ean nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng tr\u1ea3 nhau ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1edbi l\u1eeda. V\u1eady trong th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, gi\u00f3 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t c\u00f3 thu\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng? Qu\u00ed v\u1ecb th\u1ea5y n\u01a1i n\u00e0o c\u00f3 gi\u00f4ng l\u1edbn th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5t b\u1ee5i bay t\u1ee9 tung l\u00ean. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, trong th\u00e2n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi n\u00e0o l\u1ea1nh ph\u1ea3i u\u1ed1ng th\u1ee9c n\u00f3ng cho \u1ea5m l\u1ea1i. Khi n\u00e0o b\u1ecb n\u00f3ng ph\u1ea3i u\u1ed1ng th\u1ee9c m\u00e1t cho d\u1ecbu l\u1ea1i. V\u00ec n\u00f3ng l\u00e0 l\u1eeda nhi\u1ec1u n\u01b0\u1edbc \u00edt, c\u00f2n l\u1ea1nh l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eeda \u00edt, cho n\u00ean ph\u1ea3i dung h\u00f2a n\u00f3. C\u00e1i g\u00ec y\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i n\u00e2ng l\u00ean, c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u1ea1nh ph\u1ea3i k\u00e9o xu\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a b\u00e1c s\u0129.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, trong s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao trung h\u00f2a c\u00e1c y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau. N\u1ebfu qu\u00e1 b\u00ean n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u sanh b\u1ec7nh h\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0 gi\u00f3 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t, c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o tr\u00fang gi\u00f3 th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao? Tr\u00fang gi\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u00f3 nh\u1eadp nhi\u1ec1u, tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111au r\u00eam c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u00ean gi\u00f3 m\u1ea1nh th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5t rung rinh, v\u00ec v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00f3. \u0110\u00e1nh m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3i b\u1edbt gi\u00f3 th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eb9, kh\u1ecfe l\u1ea1i. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu \u1edf l\u1ed7 m\u0169i, c\u1ed5 h\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec n\u00f3 m\u1ecdc nh\u00e1nh ra; ph\u1ea3i \u0111i c\u1eaft b\u1ecf, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ngh\u1eb9t. R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea5t v\u1edbi gi\u00f3 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ecdi v\u1edbi nhau, c\u00e1i n\u00e0y tr\u1ed9i th\u00ec c\u00e1i kia b\u1ecb ng\u0103n tr\u1edf. V\u00ec v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a l\u00e0m sao cho n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, mang th\u00e2n n\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 \u0111ang m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn.<\/p>\n<p>Trong nh\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng, ch\u00fang ta \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a th\u00e2n n\u00e0y gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a b\u1ed1n con r\u1eafn s\u1ed1ng chung trong m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i gi\u1ecf v\u1eady. N\u00f3 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch nhau, mu\u1ed1n cho n\u00f3 y\u00ean ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 c\u1eafn m\u1ed5 nhau. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o? K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ra sao? C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a, \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a t\u1ed1i \u0111a, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1i gi\u1ecf th\u1ee7ng b\u1ec3, th\u00ec m\u1ea5y con r\u1eafn m\u1ea1nh con n\u00e0o con \u1ea5y ch\u1ea1y. \u0110i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a gi\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 b\u00e1c s\u0129 nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e1i gi\u1ecf s\u1ebd th\u1ee7ng, m\u1ea5y con r\u1eafn c\u0169ng ch\u1ea1y. N\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ea1y theo n\u01b0\u1edbc, gi\u00f3 theo gi\u00f3, l\u1eeda theo l\u1eeda, \u0111\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea5t. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c su\u1ed1t n\u0103m n\u00e0y th\u00e1ng kia cho t\u1edbi n\u0103m b\u1ea3y tr\u0103m n\u0103m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n n\u00e0o th\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ph\u1ea7n th\u00e2n do \u0111\u1ea5t, n\u01b0\u1edbc, gi\u00f3, l\u1eeda n\u00ean c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi nhau, c\u00f2n n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n<p>Theo Duy th\u1ee9c h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt th\u00ec n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m chia ra c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m: nh\u00f3m Thi\u1ec7n t\u00e2m s\u1edf v\u00e0 nh\u00f3m \u00c1c t\u00e2m s\u1edf. Thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u00e1c c\u00f3 l\u1eabn trong t\u00e2m ta h\u1ebft. C\u00f3 khi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra ch\u00fang ta b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c n\u00ean n\u00f3i, l\u00e0m qu\u00e1 tr\u1edbn. L\u00e1t sau, Thi\u1ec7n t\u00e2m s\u1edf n\u00f3 r\u1ea7y, n\u00f3i m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang, cho n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb ray r\u1ee9t, t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3, t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y kh\u1ed5, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh tr\u1eebng tr\u1ecb m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i. C\u00e1i thi\u1ec7n r\u0103n c\u00e1i \u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 khi c\u00e1i \u00e1c th\u1eafng c\u00e1i thi\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0 l\u1ebd ra ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfng n\u1eb7ng v\u1edbi ai, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111au kh\u1ed5, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu. V\u1eady m\u00e0 khi c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh n\u1ed5i t\u1ee9c l\u00ean th\u00ec \u00c1c t\u00e2m s\u1edf qu\u00e1 m\u1ea1nh, n\u00f3 l\u1ea5n l\u01b0\u1edbt l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fa thi\u1ec7n tr\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e2u m\u1ea5t. Ch\u00fa \u00e1c la l\u1ed1i m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3i, ch\u00fa thi\u1ec7n m\u1edbi tr\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea7u ra th\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ed3i. N\u00ean n\u00f3i m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n c\u00e1i thi\u1ec7n m\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n c\u00e1i \u00e1c. N\u1ed9i t\u00e2m ch\u00fang ta l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 hai th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1eb1ng co v\u1edbi nhau khi\u1ebfn cho ch\u00fang ta b\u1ea5t an ho\u00e0i.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u00e2n ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, t\u00e2m ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn c\u1ea3, m\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn l\u00e0 g\u00ec? &#8211; Thu\u1eabn c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u00e1i khi\u00ean, m\u00e2u c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u00e2y gi\u00e1o. Cho n\u00ean gi\u00e1o \u0111\u00e2m th\u00ec khi\u00ean \u0111\u1ee1, ch\u1ecfi l\u1ea1i. Trong t\u00e2m ch\u00fang ta s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. T\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn th\u00ec s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c! Th\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, t\u00e2m \u0111\u00e3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Cho n\u00ean c\u00f3 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady trong th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n ch\u00fang ta hai th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00f3i r\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n \u1edf th\u1ebf gian, th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng? Trong th\u1ebf gian ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i c\u00f3 kh\u00ed \u00e2m, kh\u00ed d\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u00c2m v\u1edbi d\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu nh\u01b0\u1eddng nhau \u0111\u00e2u! D\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec n\u1eafng h\u1ea1n kh\u00f4, c\u00f2n \u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec m\u01b0a d\u1ea7m d\u1ec1. \u00c2m d\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ecdi nhau, v\u00e0 c\u00e1i n\u00e0o t\u0103ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u0169ng nguy hi\u1ec3m. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u00e2m d\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1edf th\u1ebf gian c\u0169ng lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n h\u00f2a h\u1ebft. C\u00f3 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. V\u00ec kh\u00ed \u1edf th\u1ebf gian \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ecdi nhau, lu\u00f4n thay \u0111\u1ed5i cho n\u00ean \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u00edt ng\u00e0y c\u1ea3m, s\u1ed5 m\u0169i nh\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7u v.v\u2026 R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng gian b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi nhau, ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n an \u1ed5n. V\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec7n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u00e2m d\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec7n \u00e2m d\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc ng\u00e0y nay \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 v\u01b0\u1ee3t b\u1ef1c. C\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt ph\u00e1t minh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 nh\u1edd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec7n. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec7n, ch\u1ec9 s\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i n\u00f3i gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef. Th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1ea3o nam th\u00ec cang, n\u1eef th\u00ec nhu. Cang l\u00e0 cang c\u01b0\u1eddng, nhu l\u00e0 nhu h\u00f2a n\u00ean c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ch\u1ecfi. V\u00ec v\u1eady khi l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00f3 v\u1ee3 th\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ecfi; b\u00ean cang, b\u00ean nhu l\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng. Cho n\u00ean v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u01b0\u1eddng hay c\u00e3i v\u00e3 nhau c\u0169ng t\u1ea1i l\u00fd do \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa nam n\u1eef mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac d\u1ec5 hay kh\u00f3? \u0110\u00e3 l\u00e0 hai t\u00e1nh ch\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Qu\u00ed v\u1ecb m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng lu\u00f4n m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. V\u00ec v\u1eady mu\u1ed1n cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n gi\u1eefa nam n\u1eef, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3i t\u1edbi t\u1eadp th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1eadp th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng ri\u00eang, sanh ho\u1ea1t ri\u00eang, ch\u00e1nh ki\u1ebfn ri\u00eang kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau. M\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u1ed1ng nhau. N\u00ean nh\u00ecn chung, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an vui, l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 ta c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, \u0111\u00f2i gi\u1ed1ng nhau th\u00f4i. N\u1ebfu gia \u0111\u00ecnh gi\u1ed1ng nhau th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nam h\u1ebft, ch\u1edb m\u1ed9t b\u00ean cang, m\u1ed9t b\u00ean nhu th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao gi\u1ed1ng nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ec v\u1eady \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o, kh\u00f4n ngoan ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00fd m\u00ecnh. Ai ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb ra m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u nghe, \u0111\u1ec1u tu\u00e2n theo h\u1ebft th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i nhi\u1ec1u hay \u00edt v\u1eady th\u00f4i, ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p thu\u1eadn h\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>Hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady r\u1ed3i, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4n h\u00f2a, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vui v\u1ebb? N\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u00f4i nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i: \u201cTh\u01b0a Th\u1ea7y, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 hai t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch nhau th\u00ec theo quan ni\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a Th\u1ea7y, ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao cho hai t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p?\u201d T\u00f4i tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng: \u201cC\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f3 l\u1eeda th\u00ec c\u00f3 c\u01a1m \u0103n.\u201d C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u1eady th\u00f4i. Qu\u00ed Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed th\u1eed x\u00e9t, th\u1eadt ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ee9 s\u1ee3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 sanh h\u00f3a. Nam kh\u00f4ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng sanh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng c\u0169ng sanh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 sanh h\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e9o. Nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1eeda, hay ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 l\u1eeda m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec c\u00f3 c\u01a1m \u0103n kh\u00f4ng? Ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f3 l\u1eeda v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e9o d\u00f9ng n\u01b0\u1edbc, d\u00f9ng l\u1eeda \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ea5u th\u00ec c\u00f3 c\u01a1m \u0103n. Ch\u1edb d\u00f9ng n\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eadp t\u1eaft l\u1eeda, hay d\u00f9ng l\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed1t cho c\u1ea1n n\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1m \u0103n. Cho n\u00ean cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a, n\u1ebfu n\u1eb7ng b\u00ean n\u00e0o c\u0169ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ea3. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u00e1i nhau, kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00ean n\u00e0o thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i, kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh tan n\u00e1t. Do \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ee7 quan. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u00ean nam hay ch\u1ee7 quan ta l\u00e0 ph\u00e1i m\u1ea1nh, c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u0169ng b\u1eaft ph\u00e1i y\u1ebfu tu\u00e2n theo, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a. \u0110\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a th\u00ec m\u1ea7m \u0111au kh\u1ed5 s\u1ebd n\u1ea3y sanh, n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00ean n\u00e0o b\u1ecb thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi \u0111i t\u1edbi ch\u1ed7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, an vui, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i. V\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p b\u1edfi hai th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1eedu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ph\u1ea3i g\u1eafng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a n\u00ean cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ea1m an \u1ed5n, t\u1ea1m vui, ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u00e0o ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n nh\u01b0 \u00fd h\u1ebft. K\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 \u00f4ng vua c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd n\u1eefa, b\u1edfi v\u00ec Vua c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed1ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3n l\u1ea1i ch\u1edb \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng nghe theo. V\u00ec v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ec3 cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Nh\u01b0 v\u00ec n\u1ed3i c\u01a1m ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a l\u1eeda, n\u01b0\u1edbc. Nh\u1edd c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a n\u01b0\u1edbc, l\u1eeda n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u01a1m \u0103n ngon. C\u0169ng v\u1eady, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng vui, con c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 t\u01b0\u1edfng d\u00f9ng th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00e0n \u00e1p ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i theo m\u00ecnh. B\u1edfi v\u00ec khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e0n \u00e1p h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n theo, nh\u01b0ng trong l\u00f2ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5c, th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u00f3 l\u00fac h\u1ecd c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i th\u00f4i. Cho n\u00ean kh\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a qu\u00e2n b\u00ecnh th\u00ec m\u1edbi t\u1ed1t, m\u1edbi l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4n ngoan. C\u00f2n m\u00ecnh gi\u1ecfi, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4n r\u1ed3i b\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng theo m\u00ecnh th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a th\u1eadt kh\u00f4n ngoan. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, gia \u0111\u00ecnh, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a, v\u1eady \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n<p>Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y, mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp hai \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00e1nh: nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c v\u00e0 h\u1ec9 x\u1ea3, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gian n\u00f3i nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9. Mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd. C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng: Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0m Ph\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i do ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00f4ng? T\u00f4i n\u00f3i: C\u00f3! H\u1ecfi: Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady Th\u1ea7y ngh\u0129 sao v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e2y tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i cho Th\u1ea7y? T\u00f4i tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebb th\u00f9, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u00ecn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u00ec t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy ch\u01b0a th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00f9. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng ch\u1eb3ng l\u1ebd coi nhau nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9? N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c vui bu\u1ed3n x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, ch\u1edb \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd coi nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9. Ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1edfi m\u1edf, th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau. C\u00f3 th\u1ebf m\u1edbi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y tr\u00e0n tr\u1ec1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 b\u1edfi v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 h\u01a1n, r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c l\u00e0 g\u00e2y \u0111au kh\u1ed5 ho\u00e0i. Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i an vui cho m\u00ecnh, cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eebng xem ai l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 h\u1ebft. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o.<\/p>\n<p>Qu\u00ed Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y, bao nhi\u00eau n\u0103m r\u1ed3i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, k\u1ebb th\u00ec m\u1eafng nhi\u1ebfc th\u1ebf kia m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4i. Ai l\u00e0m g\u00ec l\u00e0m, v\u00ec h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m; n\u00f3i g\u00ec th\u00ec n\u00f3i, l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i h\u1ecd c\u0169ng th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m. Ch\u1edb nghe li\u1ec1n n\u1ed5i t\u1ee9c la l\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhau, r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c r\u1ed3i th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1m c\u00e3i l\u1ed9n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c g\u00ec h\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00e0m sao trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u1edf gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ee3 bi\u1ebft nh\u1ecbn nhau nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. V\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u1ea7n h\u00f2a vui, c\u00f2n n\u1ebfu ch\u01b0a th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u00ec l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, ch\u1edb \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9. N\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 th\u00ec d\u1ec5 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1 tan n\u00e1t.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ebd th\u1eadt, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh cho t\u1edbi t\u1eadp th\u1ec3, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00fang theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eebng s\u00e1u m\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3y m\u01b0\u01a1i ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t l\u1eafm r\u1ed3i, ch\u1edb \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 \u00fd h\u1ebft. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u sai l\u1ea7m, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang l\u1ebd th\u1eadt. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n? &#8211; Ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn. B\u1edfi v\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n \u201c\u00c1c t\u00e2m s\u1edf\u201d l\u00e0 n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft gi\u1eadn. Khi m\u00ecnh n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn n\u00f3i l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn n\u00f3i l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i. V\u1eady th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao? C\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh h\u1ebft hay m\u1ed7i b\u00ean nh\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 t\u1eadt hay c\u00e3i l\u00fd. C\u00e3i cho ra l\u00fd m\u00e0 l\u00fd n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eadt, th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u1edf k\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt l\u00fd. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi l\u1ebd th\u1eadt, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ai m\u1ea1nh, ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00eanh v\u1ef1c th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i. C\u00f2n ai y\u1ebfu, \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00eanh v\u1ef1c th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i. \u1ede \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1eddi nay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta d\u00f9ng \u201cl\u00e1 th\u0103m\u201d, d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng hay l\u1eafm nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng thi\u00ean h\u1ea1 th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cth\u0103m\u201d, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9 cho hay m\u00e0 thi\u00ean h\u1ea1 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cth\u0103m\u201d nh\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u1eebng cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec hay, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i th\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u1ec9 kh\u00e9o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ebfn, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi s\u1edf nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u00ec h\u1ecd h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng, h\u1ecd theo m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i d\u00f9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0a \u00fd ki\u1ebfn \u0111\u00fang m\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng theo nh\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi khen l\u00e0 l\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i. L\u00e2u nay ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 ng\u1ee1 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. L\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1eadt s\u00e2u, ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng qu\u1ea7n ch\u00fang theo th\u00ec trong \u0111\u00f3 \u0111a s\u1ed1 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xu h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fang ta t\u00f9y thu\u1eadn v\u1edbi nhau, nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn nhau \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1eebng n\u00f3i vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i, ai l\u00e0m kh\u00e1c th\u00ec s\u00e1t ph\u1ea1t h\u1ecd, ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed3ng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f2i s\u00e1t ph\u1ea1t nhau. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 c\u00f3 hai quan t\u00e0i r\u1ed3i. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n, th\u00f4i th\u00ec nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn nhau cho n\u00f3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu nh\u1ecbn nhau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tha th\u1ee9, c\u1ee9 nh\u1edb l\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ho\u00e0i th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u01b0a? H\u00f4m nay nh\u1ecbn ch\u1edb mai m\u1ed1t g\u1eb7p vi\u1ec7c c\u0169ng b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 n\u1eefa. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta hay ch\u1ee9a trong l\u00f2ng. C\u00f3 ai l\u00e0m ph\u1eadt l\u00f2ng l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u r\u00e1ng nh\u1ecbn, mai m\u1ed1t g\u1eb7p n\u1eefa th\u00ec n\u00f3i \u201ct\u00f4i nh\u1ecbn l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai r\u1ed3i nghe\u201d. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a th\u1eadt. Ch\u00fang ta nh\u1ecbn th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf qua lu\u00f4n, \u0111\u1eebng nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi nh\u1eafc lui. Nh\u1ecbn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu qu\u00ean c\u1ee9 nh\u1eafc ho\u00e0i. Nh\u1eafc ho\u00e0i th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u0169ng s\u00e2n l\u00ean, r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c kh\u00f4ng ai nh\u1ecbn ai c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00ec v\u1eady mong qu\u00ed Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed kh\u00e9o nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn v\u1edbi nhau. Qua s\u1ef1 nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ec9 x\u1ea3, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 vui m\u00e0 b\u1ecf ch\u1edb \u0111\u1eebng g\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ecf. B\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng qua \u0111\u1ec1u do kh\u1edd d\u1ea1i n\u00ean ta m\u1edbi c\u00e3i v\u00e3 v\u1edbi nhau. Bi\u1ebft r\u1ed3i th\u00ec b\u1ecf h\u1ebft \u0111\u1eebng th\u00e8m gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn g\u00ec n\u1eefa. Ch\u1edb c\u00f2n ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i, kia qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed3i \u00f4m \u1ea5p, mai m\u1ed1t g\u1eb7p vi\u1ec7c c\u00e3i l\u1ea1i n\u1eefa, r\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c kh\u00f4ng h\u1ebft kh\u1ed5 \u0111au.<\/p>\n<p>Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta t\u1edbi ch\u1ed7 an \u1ed5n. Nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn l\u00e0 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u01b0\u1edbc d\u1eadp t\u1eaft l\u1eeda, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed1t c\u1ea1n n\u01b0\u1edbc. \u1ede gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00ec con c\u00e1i n\u00ean v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn nhau. Ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ecbn nhau. Trong \u0111\u1ea1o th\u00ec v\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00ean nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn nhau, tha th\u1ee9 nhau. Nh\u1edd th\u1ebf m\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 m\u1edbi th\u1eadt c\u00f3 an \u1ed5n, th\u1eadt c\u00f3 vui t\u01b0\u01a1i. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m vui \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 g\u1eb7p nhau g\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n ch\u1edb trong b\u1ee5ng kh\u00f4ng ai \u01b0a ai, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n<p>Do bi\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a b\u1eb1ng hai h\u1ea1nh: h\u1ea1nh nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh h\u1ec9 x\u1ea3. Mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c, h\u1ec9 x\u1ea3, tr\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 t\u00e2m t\u1eeb bi, th\u1ea5y t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai th\u00f9. Ba \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb bi l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, r\u1ed3i nh\u1ecbn sau, tha th\u1ee9 nhau. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1eeb bi th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. C\u1ee9 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m tr\u00e1i \u00fd m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng th\u1ea5y ai l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ea3, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00e2m t\u1eeb bi. Ch\u00ednh do t\u00e2m t\u1eeb bi n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi nh\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ecbn, tha th\u1ee9 nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang ta \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng gi\u00e1o l\u00fd c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng v\u1eeba c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, v\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an vui trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ba \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a s\u1ef1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Tuy kh\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i r\u00e1ng \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u1eaft s\u1ebd ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ed5 th\u00f4i. Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, ch\u1edb \u0111\u1eebng tranh ph\u1ea3i qu\u1ea5y h\u01a1n thua th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ebd th\u1eadt.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, mu\u1ed1n cho s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p b\u00ecnh y\u00ean th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee7 ba \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n: t\u1eeb bi, nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c v\u00e0 h\u1ec9 x\u1ea3. N\u00f3i theo th\u1ebf gian l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u1ea5m k\u1ef5 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd \u00f4m \u1ea5p \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng ai c\u0169ng t\u00f9ng ph\u1ee5c ta, ch\u00ecu theo \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ta h\u1ebft. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ea7m to.<\/p>\n<p>Kinh nghi\u1ec7m trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 cho th\u1ea5y, t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng chung quanh n\u0103m s\u00e1u tr\u0103m T\u0103ng Ni, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u00f4i d\u00e1m \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng ai c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ec7t t\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i ai c\u0169ng nghe. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba \u00fd t\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i c\u0169ng b\u1ecf qua, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 bu\u1ed3n. Ch\u1edb n\u1ebfu m\u1ed7i ch\u00fat m\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n th\u00ec ch\u1eafc t\u00f4i ch\u1ebft s\u1edbm l\u1eafm. Th\u00f4i th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng b\u1ecf qua, mi\u1ec5n h\u1ecd tu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00ec v\u1eady qu\u00ed Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed nh\u1edb, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec tr\u00e1i \u00fd nhau n\u00ean b\u1ecf qua, mi\u1ec5n gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u00ecnh y\u00ean, con c\u00e1i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng, kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ri\u00eang t\u01b0 th\u00ec b\u1ecf qua h\u1ebft. V\u00ec vi\u1ec7c chung n\u00ean b\u1ecf c\u00e1i ri\u00eang th\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u1ed5n. \u1ede trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u1eb3ng nh\u1eefng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau. Mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh y\u00ean vui v\u1ebb th\u00ec tr\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a. C\u00e1i kh\u1ed5 l\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u1ecbn con. Con c\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu nh\u1ecbn hay kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu nh\u1ecbn cha m\u1eb9 th\u00f4i, ch\u1edb cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u1ecbn con, m\u00e0 ch\u1eafc g\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00fang m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m. B\u1edfi v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ee9 cho r\u1eb1ng cha m\u1eb9 sanh ra con c\u00e1i n\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 b\u1ec1 tr\u00ean, con c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n c\u00e3i. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ra cha m\u1eb9 sanh l\u00e0 sanh th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 th\u00f4i, ch\u1edb \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 sanh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. T\u00e2m h\u1ed3n con c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i hay ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a con n\u00ean cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ecbn. Nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y, \u0111\u00e2u th\u1ec3 nh\u1ecbn tr\u00f2, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 khi th\u1ea7y c\u0169ng b\u1ecf qua. B\u1ecf qua t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 nh\u1ecbn r\u1ed3i. Nh\u1edd v\u1eady t\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5y tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1edb n\u1ebfu b\u1eaft nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh, r\u1ed3i \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111i h\u1ebft th\u00ec th\u00f4i, ch\u1eafc t\u00f4i c\u0169ng s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh t\u00f4i. Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y nh\u1edd ch\u00fang ta kh\u00e9o \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a n\u00ean m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u1edbi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1edfi v\u00ec khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta d\u1eb9p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh; T\u00e2m s\u1edf thi\u1ec7n, T\u00e2m s\u1edf \u00e1c h\u1ebft th\u00ec ch\u1eebng \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn, kh\u1ecfi tha th\u1ee9 g\u00ec c\u1ea3. N\u00ean n\u00f3i tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i l\u00e0 v\u1eady. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 L\u1ee5c t\u1ed5 Hu\u1ec7 N\u0103ng b\u1ea3o Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ecda Hu\u1ec7 Minh: \u201cKh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 thi\u1ec7n, kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u00e1c, c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 B\u1ea3n lai di\u1ec7n m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ecda Minh?\u201d Ngay c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y Hu\u1ec7 Minh li\u1ec1n nh\u1eadn ra B\u1ea3n lai di\u1ec7n m\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea3n lai di\u1ec7n m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hai b\u00ean, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hai b\u00ean th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f2n m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn m\u1edbi l\u00e0 v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n an l\u00e0nh. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch Ph\u1eadt nh\u1eafm \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta tu \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t vi\u00ean m\u00e3n.<\/p>\n<p>C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong T\u00edn T\u00e2m Minh, T\u1ed5 T\u0103ng X\u00e1n n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00edn t\u00e2m b\u1ea5t nh\u1ecb, b\u1ea5t nh\u1ecb t\u00edn t\u00e2m.\u201d Tin m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u00e1i T\u00e2m ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n hai. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n hai th\u00ec m\u1edbi tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c T\u00e2m ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u00f2n Thi\u1ec7n t\u00e2m s\u1edf v\u00e0 \u00c1c t\u00e2m s\u1edf kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadt t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m tham lam v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m hi\u1ec1n l\u00e0nh, hai nh\u00f3m \u0111\u00f3 l\u1eb7ng xu\u1ed1ng th\u00ec m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3n b\u00e0y T\u00e2m ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c T\u00e2m ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt r\u1ed3i th\u00ec c\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0i, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n tha th\u1ee9 g\u00ec n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu hai th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb bi, nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn, h\u1ec9 x\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi y\u00ean. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta tho\u00e1t qua hai th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u1ed5n v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n. Qu\u00ed v\u1ecb th\u1ea5y T\u1ed5 th\u1ee9 ba, T\u1ed5 th\u1ee9 s\u00e1u \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecf hai th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd g\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 T\u1ed5 Tr\u00fac L\u00e2m, Ng\u00e0i c\u00f3 b\u00e0i k\u1ec7 \u201cH\u1eefu C\u00fa V\u00f4 C\u00fa\u201d, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u201cC\u00e2u C\u00f3 C\u00e2u Kh\u00f4ng\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y c\u00f3, th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y hai. T\u00f4i t\u1ea1m d\u1eabn v\u00e0i c\u00e2u trong b\u00e0i k\u1ec7 \u1ea5y:<\/p>\n<p>H\u1eefu c\u00fa, v\u00f4 c\u00fa<br \/>\nT\u1ef1 c\u1ed5, t\u1ef1 kim<br \/>\nCh\u1ea5p ch\u1ec9 v\u1ecdng nguy\u1ec7t<br \/>\nB\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecba l\u1ee5c tr\u1ea7m\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng, t\u1eeb x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nay, nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p ng\u00f3n tay m\u00e0 qu\u00ean m\u1eb7t tr\u0103ng. Ng\u00f3n tay ch\u1ec9 m\u1eb7t tr\u0103ng m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 cho l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t tr\u0103ng ch\u00ednh t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u00f3n tay. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb ngu xu\u1ea9n. Ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf ng\u00f3n tay m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t tr\u0103ng \u1edf tr\u00ean kia. \u201cB\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ecba l\u1ee5c tr\u1ea7m\u201d, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5t b\u1eb1ng m\u00e0 ch\u1ebft ch\u00ecm, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 cho nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb qu\u00e1 ngu xu\u1ea9n. C\u00f2n hai b\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111au kh\u1ed5, c\u00f2n ngu xu\u1ea9n. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o h\u1ebft hai b\u00ean m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i, an l\u00e0nh. N\u00ean ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u qu\u00ed th\u1ea7y d\u1ea1y Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed tu, ng\u1ed3i thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec? &#8211; \u0110\u1ec3 b\u1ecf c\u00e1i t\u00e2m ch\u1ea1y theo hai b\u00ean \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u1ed3i thi\u1ec1n th\u00ec ngh\u0129 \u00e1c, ngh\u0129 l\u00e0nh g\u00ec c\u0169ng b\u1ecf h\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u1edbi ch\u1ed7 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n hai, khi \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t. C\u00f2n c\u00f3 hai th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Do \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u \u00fd ngh\u0129a t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i thi\u1ec1n, t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh b\u1ecf h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1ecdng t\u01b0\u1edfng thi\u1ec7n, \u00e1c. B\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00f2n thi\u1ec7n t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i, v\u00ec v\u1eady ph\u1ea3i bu\u00f4ng c\u1ea3 hai th\u00ec t\u00e2m m\u1edbi y\u00ean. T\u00e2m y\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 T\u00e2m ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, c\u00f2n t\u00e2m ngh\u0129 thi\u1ec7n ngh\u0129 \u00e1c v.v\u2026 ch\u01b0a ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 T\u00e2m th\u1eadt. L\u00e2u nay ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00f3 th\u1eadt, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u00f3n tay ch\u1ec9 m\u1eb7t tr\u0103ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 cho \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u00f3n tay l\u00e0 m\u1eb7t tr\u0103ng. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd b\u1ecf \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u00f3n tay, nh\u00ecn t\u1eadn ch\u00e2n tr\u1eddi m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7t tr\u0103ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4n ngoan \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0y. B\u1edfi v\u00ec tu l\u00e0 si\u00eau tho\u00e1t. Si\u00eau tho\u00e1t ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng k\u1eb9t trong \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i th\u00ec qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n an l\u00e0nh t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i, cho n\u00ean m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y hai. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1eady th\u00ec t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean h\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n g\u00ec m\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n<p>Song n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a qua kh\u1ecfi hai b\u00ean th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp tu t\u1eeb bi, nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c v\u00e0 h\u1ec9 x\u1ea3 th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi y\u00ean l\u00e0nh. B\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u qu\u00ed Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed n\u00ean t\u1eadp t\u1eeb bi, nh\u1eabn nh\u1ee5c v\u00e0 h\u1ec9 x\u1ea3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc cho c\u00e1i m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn trong m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ecnh an. L\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0m b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i nghe k\u00eau m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u201cm\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft l\u00fd s\u1ed1ng\u201d. V\u00ec l\u00e2u nay Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m sao, cho n\u00ean ai c\u0169ng nu\u00f4i c\u1ef1c \u0111oan trong m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i mang l\u1ea5y \u0111au kh\u1ed5, k\u00eau tr\u1eddi tr\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea5t ho\u00e0i. N\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh an. N\u1ebfu v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua lu\u00f4n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i th\u00ec th\u00e0nh Th\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i Th\u00e1nh c\u0169ng l\u00e0 Th\u00e1nh, c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i bu\u1ed3n. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m l\u00e0nh th\u00ec gh\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m \u00e1c, cho n\u00ean c\u00f2n c\u00f3 hai t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ecdi. Ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00e0o qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hai b\u00ean m\u1edbi h\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. \u00dd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt cao si\u00eau l\u00e0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n<p>Bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n h\u00f4m nay n\u1ebfu Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec th\u1eadt l\u00e0 hay, b\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i th\u00ec h\u1ecdc Ph\u1eadt bao nhi\u00eau c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00edch l\u1ee3i g\u00ec. Qu\u00ed v\u1ecb h\u00e3y nh\u1edb c\u00e2u n\u00e0y: \u201ctr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebb th\u00f9\u201d th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an l\u1ea1c nhi\u1ec1u r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ea1o l\u00fd th\u1eadt hay, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t bu\u1ed3n v\u00ec k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh n\u1ed5i, c\u1ee9 th\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, gi\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu m\u00e0 n\u00f3i gi\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, th\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia th\u00ec ch\u01b0a ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u th\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng r\u1ed3i th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng h\u1ebft. Khi \u0111\u1eb7t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan tr\u1ecdng, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh th\u00ec l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1ee9ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00f9. C\u1ee9 m\u00e3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111au kh\u1ed5 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i: \u201cTh\u1ea7y c\u00f3 thu\u1eadt g\u00ec m\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a m\u1ea5y tr\u0103m T\u0103ng Ni v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u00ean Ni?\u201d T\u00f4i n\u00f3i: Ai \u0111\u1ebfn th\u01b0a ki\u1ec7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y sai, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia tr\u00e1i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 x\u1eed, t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o: th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta qu\u1ea5y th\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed3i. Nh\u1edd v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng ai d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ebfn th\u01b0a ki\u1ec7n n\u1eefa. Qu\u00ed Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y th\u1eadt t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng? V\u00ec ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e3i nhau m\u00e0 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu m\u00ecnh qu\u1ea5y c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c! cho n\u00ean th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 qu\u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea5y th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00e3i, m\u00e0 c\u00e3i th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 qu\u1ea5y. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m, t\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng cho \u0111\u1ebfn tu t\u1eadp Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng tr\u1ecdng t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec1u n\u1eb1m \u1edf nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3. Nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ecb sau n\u00e0y gi\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i ph\u00e1p d\u00e0i m\u00eanh m\u00f4ng m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 to\u00e0n l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft su\u00f4ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111i t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2u h\u1ebft, ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 thu\u1eadt s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft m\u00e0 noi theo.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec3m \u01b0u vi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o \u0111\u1eddi Tr\u1ea7n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng Tam gi\u00e1o \u0111\u1ed3ng nguy\u00ean. Thi\u1ec1n t\u00f4ng dung h\u1ee3p ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00e1c kia \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ecdi nhau. Do \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong n\u01b0\u1edbc theo \u0111\u1ea1o L\u00e3o, \u0111\u1ea1o Kh\u1ed5ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt. Nh\u1edd ba t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o h\u00f2a nhau n\u00ean d\u00e2n m\u1ea1nh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m r\u1ea5t hay.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n h\u00f4m nay h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, t\u00f4i mong qu\u00ed Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed nghe r\u1ed3i \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng cho kh\u00e9o, cho \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 \u00fd ngh\u0129a, m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y ni\u1ec1m vui hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i &#8211; s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 vui.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>HT. Th\u00edch Thanh T\u1eeb Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn\u201d, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec cao si\u00eau l\u1eafm m\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu. 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