{"id":4161,"date":"2013-10-15T12:55:45","date_gmt":"2013-10-15T05:55:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=4161"},"modified":"2013-10-15T12:55:45","modified_gmt":"2013-10-15T05:55:45","slug":"khoang-cach-giua-con-nguoi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=4161","title":{"rendered":"KHO\u1ea2NG C\u00c1CH GI\u1eeeA CON NG\u01af\u1edcI."},"content":{"rendered":"
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\"\"<\/a>H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t k\u00fd \u1ee9c \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 ghi l\u1ea1i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n h\u1ee3p l\u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o, v\u00ec n\u00f3 gi\u00fap ta lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong \u201cb\u1ed9 nh\u1edb\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. Cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u0103m tu\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c l\u00e2u h\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb b\u00e1o l\u1ed7i \u201cdisk full\u201d hay \u201cout of memory\u201d nh\u01b0 v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi c\u00e1c m\u00e1y vi t\u00ednh!\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n
\nTh\u1eadt ra, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi v\u00e0o k\u00fd \u1ee9c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau, t\u00f9y theo \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ta nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i theo m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1c ph\u1ea7n k\u00fd \u1ee9c \u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00f9i v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3ng s\u00e2u k\u00edn nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n m\u1edd nh\u1ea1t \u0111i theo th\u1eddi gian cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 m\u1ea5t h\u1eb3n. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n m\u1edbi l\u1ea1i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi v\u00e0o k\u00fd \u1ee9c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd x\u1ea3y ra hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u201cthi\u1ebfu b\u1ed9 nh\u1edb\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u01afu \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf \u201cghi v\u00e0 x\u00f3a\u201d theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a k\u00fd \u1ee9c. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ea1o ra \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1edb k\u1ef9 h\u01a1n, l\u00e2u h\u01a1n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201ctruy c\u1eadp\u201d \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u0169ng s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n phai nh\u1ea1t, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cx\u00f3a\u201d \u0111i. C\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, d\u00f2ng k\u00fd \u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ta t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean tr\u00f4i ch\u1ea3y m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea7y \u1eafp b\u1edfi v\u00f4 v\u00e0n nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n \u201ctr\u0103m n\u0103m trong c\u00f5i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta\u201d!<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u1edb m\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 nh\u1edb dai, nh\u1edb k\u1ef9. V\u00e0 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 l\u1eafm chuy\u1ec7n \u201cmu\u1ed1n qu\u00ean \u0111i sao l\u00f2ng v\u1eabn nh\u1edb\u201d! B\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cghi v\u00e0 x\u00f3a\u201d m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng, n\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u201cghi x\u00f3a\u201d \u0111\u00f3, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 khi ta ch\u1eb3ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec sao l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 l\u1eafm chuy\u1ec7n o\u00e1i \u0103m ngo\u00e0i \u00fd mu\u1ed1n! V\u1eeba m\u1edbi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n xin vi\u1ec7c ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m qua ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, h\u00f4m nay t\u00ecnh c\u1edd g\u1eb7p ngay v\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u00f2ng \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i qu\u00ean khu\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t c\u00e1i t\u00ean \u00f4ng ta! Qu\u00ean h\u1eb3n \u0111i th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f2n t\u1ea1m ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111\u1eb1ng n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i… nh\u1edb l\u1ed9n m\u1edbi d\u1ec5 ch\u1ebft! Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu ch\u00fat n\u00e0o khi c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i g\u1ecdi t\u00ean m\u1ed9t… ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c!<\/p>\n

Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u201cnh\u1edb g\u00ec\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cqu\u00ean g\u00ec\u201d, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng o\u00e1i \u0103m nh\u01b0 v\u1eeba n\u00f3i. B\u1edfi v\u00ec th\u1eadt ra th\u00ec c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf \u201ct\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng\u201d c\u1ee7a k\u00fd \u1ee9c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa t\u00e2m v\u00e0 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u201cc\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb\u201d v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u201cc\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i qu\u00ean\u201d! Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp x\u00e9t cho c\u00f9ng c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb!<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u qu\u00ean \u0111i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng m\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua trong nh\u1eefng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c nhau c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng. M\u1ed9t ch\u00fat b\u00e2ng khu\u00e2ng m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i m\u1edbi l\u1edbn n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c v\u0103n nh\u00e2n thi s\u0129 t\u1ed1n \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u gi\u1ea5y m\u1ef1c ghi l\u1ea1i th\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y ai nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn. V\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 c\u00f4 b\u00e9 tu\u1ed5i m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu m\u1ed9t roi \u0111au \u0111i\u1ebfng khi \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i b\u00ean c\u1eeda s\u1ed5 l\u1ea1i g\u1eedi h\u1ed3n l\u00ean t\u1eadn \u0111\u00e1m m\u00e2y tr\u1eafng \u0111ang tr\u00f4i tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi xa, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee9ng s\u00e1t b\u00ean m\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 hay bi\u1ebft! \u00d4ng b\u1ed1 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc kia ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean khu\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t c\u00e1i \u201cb\u00e2ng khu\u00e2ng m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng\u201d c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o thu\u1edf m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m tu\u1ed5i, n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec sao con b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201cm\u01a1 m\u01a1 m\u00e0ng m\u00e0ng\u201d nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf trong l\u00fac \u0111ang h\u1ecdc b\u00e0i!<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u201ckho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf h\u1ec7\u201d th\u1eadt ra l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u201ckh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nhau\u201d do nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 \u201cqu\u00ean khu\u1ea5y \u0111i\u201d t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. B\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ed3ng n\u1ebfu v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a qu\u00ean t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0y m\u1edbi v\u1ec1 l\u00e0m d\u00e2u, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, b\u1ea5t \u1ed5n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi con d\u00e2u m\u1edbi. Ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi x\u1ea3y ra. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, thay v\u00ec m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n, ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng x\u00e9t n\u00e9t v\u00e0 nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng! Cha m\u1eb9 n\u1ebfu v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a qu\u00ean nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9t, nhi\u1ec7t th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh khi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed \u201cl\u1ea1 l\u00f9ng\u201d c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i. V\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e0n anh, \u0111\u00e0n ch\u1ecb ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c em n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 lu\u00f4n l\u00ean l\u1edbp gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n!<\/p>\n

H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, ch\u00ednh v\u00ec nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng kh\u00e1c nhau m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng c\u00f3 l\u00fac sai l\u1ea7m, v\u1ea5p v\u00e1p, c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i chua cay ho\u1eb7c bu\u1ed3n \u0111au th\u1ea3m thi\u1ebft… nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2y, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00eau ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi: \u201c\u0110\u00fang l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean \u0111i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 qu\u00ean \u0111i \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, v\u1eady th\u00ec li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9?\u201d<\/p>\n

V\u00e2ng, \u0111\u00fang v\u1eady. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, v\u00e0 cho d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o nh\u1edb h\u1ebft! Nh\u01b0ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y, m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ta \u0111ang giao ti\u1ebfp. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y, ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra gi\u1eefa ta v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y. B\u1edfi v\u00ec khi \u1ea5y ta s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng suy t\u01b0, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 trong h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ta \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd v\u1ea5p ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c ph\u1ea3n kh\u00e1ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n

Con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i cha m\u1eb9, v\u1ee3 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ed3ng, c\u00e1c em ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i anh ch\u1ecb… h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 do khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t v\u1ec1 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m… Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh gi\u1eefa con c\u00e1i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc l\u00ean con c\u00e1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng giao ti\u1ebfp c\u1edfi m\u1edf h\u01a1n, b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n khi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c! Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 suy di\u1ec5n v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m t\u01b0, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m hay suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ngay c\u1ea3 khi t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. Ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1i th\u1ec3, m\u1ed7i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, chia s\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 cho r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m hay quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n theo, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch trong giao ti\u1ebfp. V\u00e0 v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec sao lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean trong giao ti\u1ebfp, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c m\u1edf ra kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n

Kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y g\u00ec l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch \u1ea5y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u1ee9ng x\u1eed theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p l\u00fd h\u01a1n, bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf ra c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u0111i v\u00e0o t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, x\u00f3a b\u1ecf \u0111i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n khi \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng chung gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

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H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t k\u00fd \u1ee9c \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 ghi l\u1ea1i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n h\u1ee3p l\u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o, v\u00ec n\u00f3 gi\u00fap ta lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong \u201cb\u1ed9 nh\u1edb\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4162,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[123],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4161"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4161"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4161\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4163,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4161\/revisions\/4163"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4162"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4161"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4161"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4161"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}