{"id":4630,"date":"2014-01-03T09:09:52","date_gmt":"2014-01-03T02:09:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=4630"},"modified":"2014-01-03T09:09:52","modified_gmt":"2014-01-03T02:09:52","slug":"hay-bat-dau-tu-quanh-ta-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=4630","title":{"rendered":"H\u00c3Y B\u1eaeT \u0110\u1ea6U T\u1eea QUANH TA…"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Anh Hai t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0i hoa nh\u01b0ng x\u1ea5u s\u1ed1. Anh bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ngh\u1ec1, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng t\u1ecf ra xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1eadn may ch\u01b0a m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi anh, l\u1ea1i th\u00eam g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng con c\u00e1i b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt dai d\u1eb3ng, n\u00ean l\u0103n l\u1ed9n h\u01a1n n\u1eeda \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 anh v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong c\u1ea3nh thi\u1ebfu tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ee5t sau, gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00fang qu\u1eabn.<\/p>\n

Ngh\u00e8o t\u00fang v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eafc ch\u00ed, anh sinh ra tr\u00e1i t\u00ednh, r\u1ed3i l\u1eafm l\u00fac r\u01b0\u1ee3u ch\u00e8 be b\u00e9t. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u1ea5y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea9y gia \u0111\u00ecnh anh l\u00fan s\u00e2u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa v\u00e0o c\u1ea3nh kh\u1ed5.<\/p>\n

May thay, ch\u1ecb d\u00e2u t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. M\u1ed9t tay ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00e8o ch\u1ed1ng, gi\u1eef cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 tan v\u1ee1 trong su\u1ed1t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m d\u00e0i. Ch\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kinh t\u1ebf gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 hi\u1ec1n h\u1eadu v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111ang. Ch\u1ecb ch\u0103m s\u00f3c t\u1ed1t con c\u00e1i ngay trong nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 h\u1ebft m\u1ef1c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u1ed3ng cho d\u00f9 anh kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y khi b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ecb. Ch\u1ecb lu\u00f4n \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a anh, v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft l\u1ef1a l\u1eddi an \u1ee7i, khuy\u00ean gi\u1ea3i sau m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n anh th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. M\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a anh th\u00ec qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng k\u1ec3 xi\u1ebft. Kh\u00f4ng \u00edt l\u1ea7n anh th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i cay \u0111\u1eafng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c tr\u1eafng tay. D\u00f9 v\u1eady, ch\u1ecb ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n hay tr\u00e1ch c\u1ee9 anh, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi than v\u00e3n cho s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng may c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng xem anh nh\u01b0 ch\u1ed7 d\u1ef1a duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u1ecb v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n \u1edf c\u1ea1nh b\u00ean anh \u0111\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac anh suy s\u1ee5p nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n quanh ta. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta suy ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u khi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ea5y v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh b\u1ecb g\u1eafn ch\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n h\u00f3a nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t hay l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m trong nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam n\u1ecd, anh t\u00f4i \u0111i l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ebfn h\u01a1n m\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1edd \u0111\u00eam v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a th\u1ea5y v\u1ec1. Sau khi d\u1ed7 c\u00e1c con ng\u1ee7 y\u00ean, ch\u1ecb t\u1ea5t t\u1ea3 \u0111i t\u00ecm anh. Sau m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3i lu\u1ed3n l\u00e1ch ra kh\u1ecfi con h\u1ebdm nh\u1ecf s\u00e2u h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m th\u01b0\u1edbc, v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ebdm th\u00ec ch\u1ecb nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y d\u00e1ng anh t\u1eeb xa gi\u1eefa m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng l\u1ed1 nh\u1ed1 d\u01b0\u1edbi \u00e1nh \u0111\u00e8n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0ng v\u1ecdt, n\u01a1i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1n c\u00f3c ven \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ecb v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00ec th\u1ea5y anh \u0111ang x\u00f4 x\u00e1t v\u1edbi kho\u1ea3ng b\u1ed1n n\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u n\u1ed3ng s\u1eb7c m\u00f9i r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u00e0 \u0111i l\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1ng cho\u1ea1ng, kh\u00f4ng v\u1eefng. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ed3i c\u00f9ng b\u00e0n v\u1edbi nhau cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi say kh\u01b0\u1edbt r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi g\u00e2y g\u1ed5, x\u00f4 x\u00e1t nhau. B\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 qu\u00e1n \u0111ang v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ea9y h\u1ecd ra xa b\u00e0n r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u00ec s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ed5 b\u1ec3 ly t\u00e1ch, ch\u00e9n d\u0129a. Trong \u0111\u00e1m c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n kh\u1ecfe ra ph\u1ebft \u0111ang c\u1ed1 s\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea5m m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, trong khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i ch\u1ec9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u201c\u0111\u1ea5m gi\u00f3\u201d. Khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t anh t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y ch\u1ed7 s\u01b0ng v\u00f9, b\u1ea7m t\u00edm, h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea5m tr\u00fang.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ecb k\u00eau th\u00e9t l\u00ean r\u1ed3i nh\u00e0o \u0111\u1ebfn \u00f4m l\u1ea5y anh, c\u1ed1 \u0111\u01b0a anh ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng b\u00e1t nh\u00e1o kia. V\u00ec anh \u0111\u00e3 say \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee9ng v\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, n\u00ean ch\u1ecb ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c m\u1edbi d\u00ecu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c anh b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i, trong khi g\u00e3 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh kia c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai l\u00e0 ai, v\u1eabn n\u1ec7n ti\u1ebfp m\u1ea5y qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ea5m v\u00e0o vai, v\u00e0o l\u01b0ng ch\u1ecb\u2026<\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef3 t\u00edch khi \u0111\u00eam \u1ea5y ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00ecu anh v\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap s\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ai kh\u00e1c. H\u00f3a ra tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1ebfn anh \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u00f2n kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, n\u00ean m\u00ecnh m\u1ea9y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ed7 th\u00e2m t\u00edm. Anh n\u1eb1m li\u1ec7t gi\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ea5t hai h\u00f4m sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u00e1o h\u1ea1i ch\u1ecb ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea1y lo thu\u1ed1c thang, c\u01a1m ch\u00e1o, trong khi nh\u00e0 l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n\u2026<\/p>\n

Sau th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda \u0111\u00f3, anh t\u00f4i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn. Anh nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 l\u00fd v\u00e0 h\u00e8n k\u00e9m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh khi bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Sau n\u00e0y, trong m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, anh k\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i r\u1eb1ng khi \u1ea5y anh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1eadt x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 khi ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i thua xa so v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee3 ch\u00e2n y\u1ebfu tay m\u1ec1m. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, anh b\u1ecf r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u00e0 xa l\u00eca h\u1eb3n m\u1ecdi th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, mong c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea5m kh\u00e1 h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

R\u1ed3i tr\u1eddi c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi. S\u1ef1 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a anh sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p. Anh d\u00e0nh d\u1ee5m m\u1edf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng nho nh\u1ecf, r\u1ed3i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. \u0110\u1ebfn nay th\u00ec gia \u0111\u00ecnh anh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt ra, ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb d\u00e2u t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m h\u00f3a, th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c anh. L\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi anh l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n g\u00ec. Ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0n l\u1ebb m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00ea tr\u00e1ch anh khi anh kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh trong nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n sa ng\u00e3. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ch\u1ecb c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ec7 b\u1ea1c h\u01a1n v\u1edbi anh th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1ch c\u1ee9 ch\u1ecb, v\u00ec anh th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng nh\u1eadn l\u00e3nh nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf! Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ecb \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m v\u1eady, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ch\u1ecb th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau anh. L\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00fd gi\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p l\u00fd hay kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. Cho d\u00f9 anh c\u00f3 x\u1ea5u t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd ch\u1ecb c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00ec ch\u1ecb v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi anh ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf n\u00e0y hay th\u1ebf n\u1ecd m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u1ecb. Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt n\u00ean n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n quanh ta. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta suy ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u khi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ea5y v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh b\u1ecb g\u1eafn ch\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi. Ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n h\u00f3a nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh y\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t hay l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m trong nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m cha ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m m\u1eb9, gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ed7ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t thi\u00ean \u0111\u00e0ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1edfi trong l\u00f2ng ta tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1i m\u1ea7m s\u1ed1ng b\u00e9 b\u1ecfng m\u00e0 ta v\u1eeba t\u1ea1o ra. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u1edf b\u00e9 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. S\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh ta l\u00e0 l\u00fd do duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau b\u00e9. V\u00e0 d\u00f9 b\u00e9 ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 ri\u00eang s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a b\u00e9 \u0111\u00e3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho ch\u00fang ta ni\u1ec1m vui b\u1ea5t t\u1eadn. Ni\u1ec1m vui \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng do b\u00e9 t\u1ea1o ra, m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u00e1t sinh t\u1eeb l\u00f2ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau m\u00e0 ta d\u00e0nh cho b\u00e9. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi ti\u1ebfp r\u1eb1ng v\u00ec sao ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau b\u00e9, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p.<\/p>\n

R\u1ed3i th\u1eddi gian tr\u00f4i qua, con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta d\u1ea7n l\u1edbn l\u00ean, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang nh\u01b0 l\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u. Ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u2013 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u2013 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u1edf ch\u00fang \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ecd\u2026 Ta mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang k\u1ebf t\u1ee5c s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a ta, ta mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc, ta mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang ngoan ngo\u00e3n v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi, ta mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang \u0111\u1eebng \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00e0y ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n kia, ta mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e0n d\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea7m, ta mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng Anh thay v\u00ec ti\u1ebfng Ph\u00e1p\u2026 C\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u201cta mu\u1ed1n\u201d \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. V\u00e0 ta lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang\u2026<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng mong mu\u1ed1n hay k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ta \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec sai tr\u00e1i. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh g\u1eafn ch\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ta d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, nh\u1eefng mong \u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng \u201c\u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n trao \u0111\u1ed5i\u201d, v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u1ecfa \u01b0\u1edbc \u201cb\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh v\u0103n\u201d gi\u1eefa ta v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh. N\u00e0y nh\u00e9, n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau th\u00ec con ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc, con ph\u1ea3i ngoan ngo\u00e3n v\u00e2ng l\u1eddi, con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi th\u1eb1ng \u1ea5y, con ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e0n d\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea7m, con ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc ti\u1ebfng Anh thay v\u00ec ti\u1ebfng Ph\u00e1p, v\u00e2n v\u00e2n v\u00e0 v\u00e2n v\u00e2n\u2026<\/p>\n

Trong v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01a1n ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0 h\u1ee3p l\u00fd, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 l\u00fd. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh. Ta qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn, s\u1edf th\u00edch, n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. V\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn \u0111\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f9ng v\u1edbi c\u1eadu con trai ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec c\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed9p \u0111\u01a1n thi v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng S\u01b0 ph\u1ea1m, thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng Y d\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n!<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh g\u1eafn ch\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi v\u1edbi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt. Ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fd do d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i trong nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00f4i khi kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 nhau. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 lu\u00f4n th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nh\u1eefng \u201c\u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n\u201d c\u1ee7a ta, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ta mong mu\u1ed1n. M\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u00e1i \u00fd c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con \u1ea5y c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 do n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau ta, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec \u0111\u00f4i khi ta v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u1edf n\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. Nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p c\u1eadu con trai thi v\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1eddng S\u01b0 ph\u1ea1m v\u1eeba n\u00f3i tr\u00ean ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 t\u01b0 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi nh\u1eefng mong \u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra kh\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang, ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n mong m\u1ecfi con c\u00e1i h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ebfp lo\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc sinh gi\u1ecfi, h\u00e3y kh\u00e1ch quan t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 n\u1eb1m \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p x\u1ea5u nh\u1ea5t, sau khi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i m\u00e0 th\u1eb1ng b\u00e9 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 bao nhi\u00eau, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3ng \u0111i\u1ec3m. X\u00e9t cho c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi? Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i, s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n h\u00f3a t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u1edbi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n quanh ta, nh\u01b0 trong quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, anh ch\u1ecb em v\u1edbi nhau. Nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u1eb7t quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, cho d\u00f9 trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hay v\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1eafc v\u00ec b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fd do g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, khi ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n g\u00ec, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0o m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua, thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c, gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng s\u1ebd s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng bao dung, tha th\u1ee9 cho m\u1ecdi l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m, thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t, thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c, o\u00e1n h\u1eadn. Nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, vun b\u1ed3i cho ch\u00fang ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng s\u00e2u \u0111\u1eadm h\u01a1n, b\u1ec1n ch\u1eafc h\u01a1n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n quanh ta.<\/p>\n

TH\u00c1I H\u1ed2NG MINH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Anh Hai t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0i hoa nh\u01b0ng x\u1ea5u s\u1ed1. Anh bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ngh\u1ec1, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng t\u1ecf ra xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1eadn may ch\u01b0a m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi anh, l\u1ea1i th\u00eam g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng con c\u00e1i b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt dai d\u1eb3ng, n\u00ean l\u0103n l\u1ed9n h\u01a1n n\u1eeda \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4631,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4630"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4630"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4630\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4632,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4630\/revisions\/4632"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4631"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4630"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4630"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4630"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}