{"id":4634,"date":"2014-01-05T13:13:29","date_gmt":"2014-01-05T06:13:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=4634"},"modified":"2014-01-05T13:13:29","modified_gmt":"2014-01-05T06:13:29","slug":"con-cai-nghi-gi-ve-cha-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=4634","title":{"rendered":"CON C\u00c1I NGH\u0128 G\u00cc V\u1ec0 CHA M\u1eb8…"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 trong m\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 sau: \u201cKhi c\u00f2n b\u00e9, t\u00f4i xem cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i cho t\u00f4i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u. T\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u1edf cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh; t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n l\u1eafng nghe m\u1ecdi l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9, v\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft. V\u00e0o m\u1ecdi l\u00fac, \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 cha m\u1eb9.”<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u00f4i m\u01b0\u1eddi l\u0103m, m\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1u tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129, b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e1m tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n \u00edt \u1ecfi l\u1eafm, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u cha m\u1eb9 ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft ho\u1eb7c hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n, m\u01a1 h\u1ed3. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t xa cha m\u1eb9, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng khi cha m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec hay \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p \u00fd ki\u1ebfn cho t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 quan t\u00e2m. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111i l\u00e0m, r\u1ed3i l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh, b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7, c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p; t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb ch\u00fang t\u00f4i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ra s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 l\u1ed7i th\u1eddi, c\u1ed5 h\u1ee7, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4m nay. L\u00fac n\u00e0o cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u1eaft khe, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng, gi\u1eef g\u00ecn \u00fd t\u1ee9, ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eafn \u0111o suy ngh\u0129, ph\u1ea3i l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n theo tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc k\u1ef9 c\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ebfn khi t\u00f4i ba m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i, khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cha c\u1ee7a hai \u0111\u1ee9a con, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i m\u1edbi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u. Cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t kho t\u00e0ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra .<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i v\u00e0 b\u1ed3ng b\u1ed9t qu\u00e1, lu\u00f4n n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, h\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ed3 v\u00e0 k\u00e9m kinh nghi\u1ec7m, nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u00f2n n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n. L\u00fac n\u00e0y t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u1ea5m th\u00eda nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i nh\u1ecdc nh\u1eb1n v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, m\u1ec7t nh\u1ecdc v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ebfm ra ti\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u00e1i. B\u1ea5y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f4 b\u1edd b\u1ebfn m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i, d\u00f9 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, d\u00f9 gian kh\u1ed5 cha m\u1eb9 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng n\u1ec1 h\u00e0.<\/p>\n

K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n v\u00f4 t\u00e2m n\u1eefa, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean v\u1ec1 th\u0103m cha m\u1eb9, \u0111\u01b0a c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ebfng \u00f4ng b\u00e0, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng hi\u1ebfu th\u1ea3o. \u0110\u1ebfn n\u0103m t\u00f4i g\u1ea7n n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i th\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i qua \u0111\u1eddi . L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb n\u1eefa nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, v\u00ec t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2y cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u1edf tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u1eefa, d\u00f9 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfc th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed9n m\u00e0ng, d\u00f9 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec1n c\u00f4ng \u01a1n cha m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y \u00e2n h\u1eadn v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 l\u00fac m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 sai v\u1ec1 cha m\u1eb9, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra t\u00f4i, \u0111\u00e3 nu\u00f4i t\u00f4i kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch cho t\u00f4i, \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n trao nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft cho t\u00f4i, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00edch cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i\u201d.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ebd m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i n\u00f3i tr\u00ean. Trong m\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 cha m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn khi tr\u1ea3i qua \u201cm\u1ea5y ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi\u201d nh\u1ecdc nh\u1eb1n, gian kh\u00f3, \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cha l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 r\u1ed3i th\u00ec m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft n\u1ed7i l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea5ng sinh th\u00e0nh, m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n v\u1ec1 cha m\u1eb9. \u0110\u00fang nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, \u201cc\u00f3 nu\u00f4i con m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft c\u00f4ng \u01a1n cha m\u1eb9\u201d, hay v\u0103n v\u1ebb h\u01a1n, \u201c\u1ede \u0111\u1eddi ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n, l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u01a1n sinh th\u00e0nh. M\u1eb9 cha kh\u00f3 nh\u1ecdc nu\u00f4i m\u00ecnh, kh\u00e1c chi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ebft t\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i con\u201d.<\/p>\n

Tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y nay n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, nh\u1ea1y b\u00e9n, c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n, trau gi\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. So v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 h\u00f4m nay c\u00f3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, do \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb h\u00f4m nay v\u01b0\u1ee3t xa \u00f4ng cha m\u00ecnh ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 \u00f4ng cha m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp \u1edf nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, t\u1eeb nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ebfn kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i qua v\u00ec tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f2n non tr\u1ebb. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng d\u00f9 th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 sau c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfn xa h\u01a1n c\u00e1c th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn xa \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng cha m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng nh\u1edd \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t tr\u00ean c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, nh\u1edd \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4m nay, nh\u1edd \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u00edch cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. D\u00f9 cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u sang danh v\u1ecdng hay b\u1ea7n c\u00f9ng kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5, d\u00f9 cha m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 hay m\u00f9 ch\u1eef, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u0103n h\u00f3a, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh ra ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ch\u00fang ta tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00e1ng t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

Gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb. Ch\u00ednh kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn cho \u00f4ng b\u00e0, cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0 b\u1ecb con ch\u00e1u \u201cb\u1ecf r\u01a1i\u201d, ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n bu\u1ed3n t\u1ebb, thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, thi\u1ebfu th\u1ed1n t\u00ecnh th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

Do sinh ra v\u00e0 l\u1edbn l\u00ean, s\u1ed1ng trong th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i, trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00e1c nhau n\u00ean m\u1ed7i th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 quan ni\u1ec7m nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, n\u1ebfp suy ngh\u0129, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen, l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. C\u00e1c b\u1eadc \u00f4ng b\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng con ch\u00e1u thi\u1ebfu kinh nghi\u1ec7m, n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, t\u1ef1 do th\u00e1i qu\u00e1, s\u1ed1ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i, ph\u00f3ng t\u00fang, \u0111\u00f4i khi \u00edch k\u1ef7, v\u00f4 \u01a1n. Con ch\u00e1u th\u00ec cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh, b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7, c\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5p, c\u1ed5 h\u1ee7, l\u1ea1c h\u1eadu, \u0111\u00f4i khi tr\u00e1i t\u00ednh tr\u00e1i n\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

Trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, khi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a con ch\u00e1u. Th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng xa d\u1ea7n con ch\u00e1u. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u0103m lo cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0, v\u1eady c\u00e1c b\u1eadc \u00f4ng b\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 bi\u1ebft tr\u00f4ng c\u1eady v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u khi \u0111\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i x\u1ebf chi\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a v\u00e0o con ch\u00e1u?<\/p>\n

Con ch\u00e1u n\u00ean th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m cho \u00f4ng b\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 gi\u00e0, n\u00ean hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0: V\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t, m\u1eaft m\u1edd, tai \u0111i\u1ebfc, hay qu\u00ean, d\u1ec5 nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn, \u0111i \u0111\u1ee9ng ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng, sa s\u00fat tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1t sinh b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt. V\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd, d\u1ec5 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, hay gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn, nh\u1edb r\u1ea5t k\u1ef9 chuy\u1ec7n xa x\u01b0a nh\u01b0ng hay qu\u00ean nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n v\u1eeba m\u1edbi x\u1ea3y ra, hay bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, ng\u1ea1i giao ti\u1ebfp, hay than th\u00e2n tr\u00e1ch ph\u1eadn, hay o\u00e1n tr\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u2026<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng chia s\u1ebb, bi\u1ebft dung h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng chung th\u00ec nh\u1eefng m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn gi\u1eefa \u00f4ng b\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con ch\u00e1u s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i, kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n. M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb n\u00ean nh\u1edb l\u00e0 tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd.<\/p>\n

PHAN MINH \u0110\u1ee8C<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 trong m\u1ed7i giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 sau: \u201cKhi c\u00f2n b\u00e9, t\u00f4i xem cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i cho t\u00f4i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u. T\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u1edf cha […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4635,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[123],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4634"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4634"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4634\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4636,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4634\/revisions\/4636"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4635"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4634"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4634"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4634"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}