{"id":4869,"date":"2014-03-20T17:52:16","date_gmt":"2014-03-20T10:52:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=4869"},"modified":"2014-03-20T17:52:16","modified_gmt":"2014-03-20T10:52:16","slug":"dung-xet-doan-gan-nhan-nguoi-khac-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=4869","title":{"rendered":"\u0110\u1eeaNG X\u00c9T \u0110O\u00c1N G\u00c1N NH\u00c3N NG\u01af\u1edcI KH\u00c1C!!!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ee9 \u00edt khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng h\u00f3a c\u00e1i T\u00f4i. M\u1ed7i s\u00e1ng th\u1ee9c d\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00e1i t\u00ednh tr\u00e1i n\u1ebft, n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, ganh t\u1ecb, cao ng\u1ea1o, \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n, b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7, th\u00f4 l\u1ed7, c\u1ed9c c\u1eb1n, v\u00f4 li\u00eam s\u1ec9… B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ednh t\u1eeb ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y hay ho \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cg\u00e1n\u201d cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 \u1edf ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng hay \u1edf n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, m\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh, nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng va ch\u1ea1m n\u1ea3y sinh, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c r\u1eb1ng, v\u00ec sao t\u00e2m t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u1ea1i ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng? Th\u1ef1c ra, khi b\u1ea1n tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, th\u00ec trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m g\u00ec!<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ea1i ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p? Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb \u201cx\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n\u201d \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 r\u1ed3i! Th\u00eam n\u1eefa, \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb \u201cg\u00e1n nh\u00e3n\u201d l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee7 quan c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta. Gi\u1eefa cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng sinh ho\u1ea1t mu\u00f4n m\u00e0u c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng \u201cx\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n\u201d, nh\u1eb1m \u201cg\u00e1n nh\u00e3n\u201d cho nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0y, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ecd, ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kia l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u, l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang hay sai. N\u1ebfu ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u201cx\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n\u201d, \u201cg\u00e1n nh\u00e3n\u201d cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng l\u00e0m t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta m\u00e0 th\u00f4i! Ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i v\u00f2ng lu\u1ea9n qu\u1ea9n \u201cg\u00e1n nh\u00e3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u00e1n nh\u00e3n l\u1ea1i\u201d \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u00eam ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p?<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ph\u1ea3i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u khi ch\u00fang ta \u201ctr\u00f4ng g\u00e0 ho\u00e1 qu\u1ed1c\u201d. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c tho\u1ea1t nh\u00ecn t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady! Th\u1ebf th\u00ec d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1, g\u00e1n nh\u00e3n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? Ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 quan t\u00f2a ch\u0103ng?<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh ri\u00eang, suy ngh\u0129 ri\u00eang, c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang. M\u1ed9t khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e1n nh\u00e3n cho h\u1ecd. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft l\u00e0 h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. \u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i cho r\u1eb1ng, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n, g\u00e1n nh\u00e3n,… ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, x\u00e9t cho c\u00f9ng ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, suy ngh\u0129 mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ee7 quan c\u1ee7a ta m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 v\u1ed1n c\u00f3. Mang n\u1eb7ng nh\u1eefng x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n, g\u00e1n nh\u00e3n, th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn, \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn… ch\u1ec9 c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c, m\u00e9o m\u00f3. L\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 d\u1ef1ng l\u00ean m\u1ed9t h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? L\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c hay m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang hay sai, t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u, ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n! N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta h\u1ea5p t\u1ea5p th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng, h\u00e0m h\u1ed3. Ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t, k\u1ebft \u00e1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch thi\u00ean l\u1ec7ch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn ta \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed7 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ee9ng x\u1eed sai l\u1ea7m. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0, ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean tai h\u1ea1i, r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i th\u00eam!
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\n\"\"<\/a>N\u1ebfu l\u00fac n\u00e0o ta c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. L\u00f2ng ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u1ed9t ng\u1ea1t, n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ta b\u1ecb bao ph\u1ee7 b\u1edfi m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed bi quan. D\u1ea7n d\u00e0, ta s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, th\u00ec ta l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y?<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0, thay v\u00ec c\u1ee9 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n, g\u00e1n nh\u00e3n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed can \u0111\u1ea3m t\u1ef1 soi v\u00e0o t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n m\u00ecnh. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. Cho n\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y trung th\u1ef1c t\u1ef1 soi v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, sao cho th\u1ea5y h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u, c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i t\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n th\u1eed ngh\u0129 xem, \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c\u201d trong nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea3o, l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 m\u1ea5y t\u1ef7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tinh n\u00e0y. C\u00f2n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t m\u00e0 th\u00f4i! V\u1eady th\u00ec, n\u1ebfu l\u00fac n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t, g\u00e1n nh\u00e3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00f2n th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa hay kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i, khi ch\u00fang ta x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n, g\u00e1n nh\u00e3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 ho\u1eb7c l\u1eddi l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i nhi\u1ec1u gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian cho nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f4 b\u1ed5 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u1eefa. T\u1eeb h\u00f4m nay, thay v\u00ec t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch x\u00e9t \u0111o\u00e1n, g\u00e1n nh\u00e3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn trong suy ngh\u0129 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd v\u1ed1n c\u00f3. D\u00f9 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ed1n c\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng \u00edt ra th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng khi \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u0169ng gi\u00fap ta h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c th\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t nh\u1eefng ng\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn, sai l\u1ec7ch. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec coi ch\u1eebng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd m\u00e3i m\u00e3i l\u00e0m n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 cho nh\u1eefng thi\u00ean ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh!<\/p>\n

Nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5! Nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u1edbi kh\u00f3! R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u khi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au kh\u1ed5 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ta ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft th\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1o, \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t, x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu l\u00fac n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn ch\u1eb1m ch\u1eb1m v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u xa, t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec kh\u00e1c n\u00e0o ta \u0111ang t\u1ef1 c\u00fai g\u1eb1m m\u1eb7t xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ai bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, l\u00e0 cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ea9ng m\u1eb7t l\u00ean. Cho n\u00ean, n\u1ebfu l\u00e2u nay b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec t\u1eeb gi\u1edd tr\u1edf \u0111i b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0 t\u00ednh trung th\u1ef1c, l\u00f2ng nh\u00e2n h\u1eadu, \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m, \u00f3c h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1, kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng cao c\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi… Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd n\u00e2ng d\u1ea7n t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ch\u00fang ta l\u00ean.
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\nCu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n lu\u00f4n nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng, thanh th\u1ea3n, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y v\u1eefng tin v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng thi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, cho d\u00f9 h\u00f4m nay h\u1ecd c\u00f3 l\u1ee1 x\u1eed t\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf, bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i, khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. T\u1ee5c ng\u1eef c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201cS\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u00fac, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u00fac\u201d. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nhi\u1ec1u khi ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n ri\u00eang: ta c\u00f3 c\u00e1i kh\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ta, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i kh\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u1ebfu ta kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ea7y ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng bi k\u1ecbch kh\u1ed1n c\u00f9ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Do v\u1eady, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd v\u1ed9i v\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t.<\/p>\n

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Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u1ee9 \u00edt khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng h\u00f3a c\u00e1i T\u00f4i. M\u1ed7i s\u00e1ng th\u1ee9c d\u1eady, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00e1i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4870,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4869"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4869"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4869\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4872,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4869\/revisions\/4872"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4870"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4869"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4869"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4869"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}