{"id":4899,"date":"2014-03-29T09:00:52","date_gmt":"2014-03-29T02:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=4899"},"modified":"2014-03-29T09:00:52","modified_gmt":"2014-03-29T02:00:52","slug":"dam-song-that-voi-nguoi-khac-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=4899","title":{"rendered":"D\u00c1M S\u1ed0NG TH\u1eacT V\u1edaI NG\u01af\u1edcI KH\u00c1C."},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Trong giao ti\u1ebfp h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y, khi kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Xa h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 ch\u1ea5t so v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 thu m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecf \u1ed1c, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u00eam m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u00f3i gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u00f3i gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ed1 \u00fd t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp “v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc”. L\u1edbp v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc n\u00e0y c\u00f2n nguy hi\u1ec3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 thu m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecf \u1ed1c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, l\u1edbp “v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc” n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u1ee5y trang.<\/p>\n

Trong giao ti\u1ebfp, l\u00f2ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n t\u1ea1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn. Ngo\u00e0i mi\u1ec7ng, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edbt l\u1eddi khen b\u1ea1n xinh \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u01b0ng trong l\u00f2ng h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n x\u1ea5u x\u00ed ch\u1eb3ng k\u00e9m g\u00ec Th\u1ecb N\u1edf. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00eau ra, h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n g\u1eadt g\u00f9, t\u1ecf \u00fd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 b\u1ea1n. L\u00fac n\u00e0o h\u1ecd c\u0169ng t\u1ecf v\u1ebb th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng b\u00ean trong h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u01b0u \u0111\u1ed3 ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ebft l\u1eddi t\u00e2ng b\u1ed1c b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u sau l\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng khi \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 v\u1eafng m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i h\u1ebft l\u1eddi t\u00e2ng b\u1ed1c k\u1ebb m\u00e0 h\u1ecd v\u1eeba n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea1i g\u00ec m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u sau l\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n. V\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edbt l\u1eddi kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0ng trong l\u00f2ng h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m r\u00ecnh r\u1eadp nh\u1eefng sai s\u00f3t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u1eb1m h\u1ea5t c\u1eb3ng b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3i t\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n t\u1ecf v\u1ebb y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, th\u00f3i gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t! N\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ea5t an, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 th\u1eadt, \u0111\u00e2u l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3? N\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u0103ng m\u1eaft, c\u0103ng \u00f3c ra \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t, m\u00e0 trong r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t n\u1ed5i!<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt? Gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec? Sao h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a th\u00f3i gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd? V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch t\u1ea1o cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc ng\u1ee5y trang, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: “Chi\u1ebfc kim trong b\u1ecdc l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u1ed9.” T\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea5u gi\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec s\u1edbm mu\u1ed9n g\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u ta gi\u1ea5u gi\u1ebfm c\u0169ng b\u1ecb ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y hay c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ea1o cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t “v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o” nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i th\u00ec s\u1edbm mu\u1ed9n g\u00ec thi\u00ean h\u1ea1 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra ch\u00e2n t\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a ta. \u0110\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec ta c\u00f2n m\u1eb7t m\u0169i n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn thi\u00ean h\u1ea1 n\u1eefa? \u0110\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u00f2n ai tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00fang ta n\u1eefa? \u0110\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa? V\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0, \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chung s\u1ee9c v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa?<\/p>\n

B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a th\u00f3i gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u00f3i gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 k\u1ec3 h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a th\u00f3i gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Th\u00f3i gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u \u1ee9ng x\u1eed \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1eeba ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen, ng\u1ea5m s\u00e2u v\u00e0o t\u1eadn b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t th\u00ec s\u1ebd l\u00e0m x\u00f3i m\u00f2n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u1ee9ng x\u1eed phi nh\u00e2n t\u00ednh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nguy hi\u1ec3m.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 giao thi\u1ec7p v\u1ed3n v\u00e3, h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt, th\u00ec gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1ed1 th\u1eb3m c\u00e1ch ng\u0103n. Th\u00f3i gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, l\u00e0m m\u1ee5c ru\u1ed7ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, k\u00ecm h\u00e3m x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. Th\u00f3i gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i khi\u1ebfn cho nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh h\u00e8n h\u1ea1. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta bu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, bu\u1ed9c l\u00f2ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng m\u01b0u m\u1eb9o, gian tr\u00e1 v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1, l\u1ecdc l\u1eeba khi\u1ebfn cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00eam ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, h\u1ed7n lo\u1ea1n. Tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o th\u00ec x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n ch\u1eebng n\u1ea5y. Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y th\u1eed h\u00ecnh dung m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1edfi m\u1edf, ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, b\u1eb1ng khi\u1ebfu h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh h\u00f3m h\u1ec9nh… th\u00ec x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd thanh b\u00ecnh, y\u00ean \u1ed5n, \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd v\u00e0 vui t\u01b0\u01a1i h\u01a1n bi\u1ebft bao! Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u01b0u m\u1eb9o x\u1ea3o tr\u00e1, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 d\u1ed1i g\u1ea1t, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 khoe khoang, t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5, gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd… Khi \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc “m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1” s\u1ebd b\u1ecb c\u1edfi b\u1ecf h\u1ebft, v\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

L\u1ea0I TH\u1ebe LUY\u1ec6N<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Trong giao ti\u1ebfp h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y, khi kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Xa h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1ec1 ch\u1ea5t so v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 thu m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecf \u1ed1c, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u00eam m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4900,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4899"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4899"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4899\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4902,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4899\/revisions\/4902"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4900"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4899"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4899"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4899"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}