{"id":4903,"date":"2014-03-30T08:26:26","date_gmt":"2014-03-30T01:26:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=4903"},"modified":"2014-03-30T08:26:26","modified_gmt":"2014-03-30T01:26:26","slug":"hay-song-that-tot-va-yeu-thuong-nguoi-khac-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=4903","title":{"rendered":"H\u00c3Y S\u1ed0NG TH\u1eacT T\u1ed0T V\u00c0 Y\u00caU TH\u01af\u01a0NG NG\u01af\u1edcI KH\u00c1C."},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>S\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i, v\u1ec1 m\u00e0u da, qu\u1ed1c t\u1ecbch, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, phong t\u1ee5c, t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o… T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u1ea5y l\u00e0 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u0103n c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 chia r\u1ebd, c\u00e1ch xa nhau. Ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng l\u1ecbch s\u1eed nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c sai l\u1ea7m, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5 m\u00e1u \u2013 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft dung h\u00f2a nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac y\u00ean vui c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi! \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t, khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta d\u1ec5 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 l\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t, n\u00ean vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh n\u00f3 m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t! Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean \u00edch k\u1ef7, ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai c\u0169ng b\u0103n kho\u0103n: “Khi t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i c\u1ee9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t, trong khi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng quanh t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb x\u1ea5u, th\u00ec li\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i cho t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng?”<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu l\u00fac n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng! Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o “l\u1eadp lu\u1eadn” \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf th\u00ec, v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o? Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 m\u00e3i quanh qu\u1ea9n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. H\u00e3y th\u1eed nh\u00ecn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y trong vi\u1ec5n c\u1ea3nh th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf nh\u1ea5t. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat h\u1ea5p h\u1ed1i, h\u1ecd n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n? Khi s\u1eafp ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb gi\u00e3 c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i ra th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t! H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i g\u00ec?<\/p>\n

H\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong l\u00fac l\u00e2m chung th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u0103n tr\u1ed1i l\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng con ch\u00e1u nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m nguy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ho\u1eb7c ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n khi h\u1ecd c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau, th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ecf ra \u00e2n h\u1eadn v\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ee1 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi c\u01b0 x\u1eed kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, l\u1ee1 g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m, x\u00edch m\u00edch, nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n bu\u1ed3n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c… Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i l\u1eddi t\u1ea1 l\u1ed7i c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thanh th\u1ea3n tr\u00fat h\u01a1n th\u1edf cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng!<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho \u0111\u1ebfn nay v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean \u0111\u00f3, v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u1ecd nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u1ea5t n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n, h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t, th\u00e0nh th\u1eed c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra bao \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. M\u1ed9t ki\u1ebfp ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i, l\u00e0m qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac ph\u1ea3i \u00e2n h\u1eadn. Ch\u1ec9 s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng khi bi\u1ebft \u00e2n h\u1eadn th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed9n, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 chu\u1ed9c l\u1ed7i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1ed1t n\u1eefa! M\u1ed9t ki\u1ebfp ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a, kh\u00f4ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho ai c\u1ea3 – k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eddi ta ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i l\u1eafm! Th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd m\u1ed9t ki\u1ebfp ng\u01b0\u1eddi? T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 gieo tr\u1ed3ng ni\u1ec1m tin cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u01a1i t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? Bi\u1ebft bao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng t\u1ed9i \u00e1c, nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n? N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1ed1t cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin n\u01a1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f2n gieo ni\u1ec1m tin cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng cho bao ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c!<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta tr\u00ean c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 ri\u00eang, nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i kh\u00e1t khao ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa nguy\u1ec7n… Do v\u1eady m\u00e0 c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n! Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m l\u00fd do bi\u1ec7n minh cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111au kh\u1ed5, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 than tr\u00e1ch v\u00ec sao m\u00ecnh \u0111au kh\u1ed5 qu\u00e1 th\u1ebf? Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn xa h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u00f4i, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y n\u1ed7i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a bi\u1ebft bao ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb lang thang kh\u00f4ng n\u01a1i n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a, nh\u1eefng thanh ni\u00ean th\u1ea5t h\u1ecdc, nh\u1eefng tr\u00ed th\u1ee9c n\u1eb7ng l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi th\u1eddi cu\u1ed9c, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 \u1ed1m \u0111au kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n thang thu\u1ed1c, nh\u1eefng tai n\u1ea1n giao th\u00f4ng th\u1ea3m kh\u1ed1c m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y… B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2u ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t, th\u1edd \u01a1, th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng \u0111au kh\u1ed5 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n nhau h\u01a1n, d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nhau h\u01a1n v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu l\u00fac n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ta c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u00fang l\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta mang m\u1ed9t t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn l\u1edbn lao h\u01a1n, bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi quanh ta, th\u00ec n\u1ed7i kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean thu nh\u1ecf l\u1ea1i!<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ean c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. Trong v\u1eadt l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, nh\u00e0 b\u00e1c h\u1ecdc Archimedes (287 – 212 TCN) c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng: “H\u00e3y cho t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng b\u1ed5ng c\u1ea3 tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t l\u00ean!” (Give me a firm place to stand, and I will move the earth.) Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, ri\u00eang trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, l\u1ebd n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i: “M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e3y \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p ph\u00e2n n\u1eeda s\u1ed1 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n \u0111ang c\u00f3 cho t\u00f4i, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ef7 ph\u00fa gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i s\u1ebd y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi!” N\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f2n g\u00ec kh\u00f4i h\u00e0i h\u01a1n! N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111i k\u00e8m theo, th\u00ec t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u1eefa. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ebft th\u1ea3y m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. M\u1ecdi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n, th\u1ebf th\u00f4i!<\/p>\n

Nh\u1edd c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi nhau. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n qua nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng mu\u00f4n m\u00e0u mu\u00f4n v\u1ebb c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng quanh b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu g\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t. H\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb, t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u1ea3, ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m t\u1eeb s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m trong l\u00f2ng h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc c\u1ee7a y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. L\u00f2ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi v\u1ecf b\u1ecdc ch\u1eadt h\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a l\u00f2ng \u00edch k\u1ef7. Nh\u1edd c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n, tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y h\u01a1n… Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng, trong m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ta. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean y\u00ean b\u00ecnh h\u01a1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00f3m g\u1ecdn tri\u1ebft l\u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong nh\u1eefng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i m\u00e0 Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u01b0a th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0: “Qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean gi\u1eef ho\u1eb7c gi\u1ea5u di\u1ebfm cho ri\u00eang ai”. Qu\u00e0 t\u1eb7ng m\u00e0 m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Khi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb s\u1ef1 phong ph\u00fa c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Trong m\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n, nh\u1eb1m l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n h\u01a1n. T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng?<\/p>\n

Ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay, h\u00e3y b\u01b0\u1edbc ra ngo\u00e0i, h\u00f2a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 cho s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng trong tim ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt m\u1edbi t\u1ea1o cho ta c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c vi\u00ean m\u00e3n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

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S\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c nhau v\u1ec1 gi\u1ed1ng n\u00f2i, v\u1ec1 m\u00e0u da, qu\u1ed1c t\u1ecbch, ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, phong t\u1ee5c, t\u1eadp qu\u00e1n, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o… T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u1ea5y l\u00e0 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u0103n […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4904,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4903"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4903"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4903\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4905,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4903\/revisions\/4905"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4904"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4903"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4903"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4903"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}