{"id":5069,"date":"2014-04-26T10:28:57","date_gmt":"2014-04-26T03:28:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5069"},"modified":"2014-04-26T10:28:57","modified_gmt":"2014-04-26T03:28:57","slug":"hay-ton-trong-lan-nhau","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5069","title":{"rendered":"H\u00c3Y T\u00d4N TR\u1eccNG L\u1eaaN NHAU."},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Quan h\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i b\u00e0n c\u00e3i. Nh\u01b0ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau l\u00e0 hai vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. \u0110\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 l\u01b0u t\u00e2m nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, v\u00ec th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng may l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/span><\/p>\n

Bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u s\u1eafc khi d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb \u201ct\u01b0\u01a1ng k\u00ednh\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi nhau.[1] M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 v\u1eady, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn cho ch\u00fang ta thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t trong c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau. Ch\u00fang ta coi th\u01b0\u1eddng nhau m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau mang l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n cho c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean, v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00f3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb b\u00e1c b\u1ecf m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng th\u1ecfa \u0111\u00e1ng? T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, trong quan h\u1ec7 th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi nhau ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng l\u1eafm. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian, v\u00ec c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c \u0111ang c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. Suy cho c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c chung c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh, h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 anh \u1ea5y (hay c\u00f4 \u1ea5y) ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ch\u1ee9… v\u00e2n v\u00e2n v\u00e0 v\u00e2n v\u00e2n… C\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m th\u1ebf, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft trong \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u xem l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111ang xem m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh ti-vi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7m l\u1ea5y h\u1ed9p \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n t\u1eeb xa \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n sang m\u1ed9t k\u00eanh kh\u00e1c xem b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1. Chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf m\u00e0! H\u1ebft gi\u1edd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u0169 v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111i d\u00f9ng c\u01a1m nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ch\u1edd c\u01a1m h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3. Chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf m\u00e0! Nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 cho th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u01b0u t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eafm khi nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf di\u1ec5n ra th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c tr\u00f4i qua m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh qua c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed th\u00edch h\u1ee3p trong t\u1eebng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng. V\u00e0 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf, m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c di\u1ec5n ra theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ea5y, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec di\u1ec5n ra sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ee3p l\u00fd v\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i, ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen kh\u00f4ng l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1eed m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng bao l\u00e2u b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngay nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129a t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n

NGUY\u1ec4N MINH TI\u1ebeN D\u1ecaCH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Quan h\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00f4i l\u1ee9a, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i b\u00e0n c\u00e3i. Nh\u01b0ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau l\u00e0 hai vi\u1ec7c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. \u0110\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 bi\u1ebft t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng l\u1eabn nhau, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5070,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5069"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5069"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5069\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5071,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5069\/revisions\/5071"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5070"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5069"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5069"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5069"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}