{"id":5090,"date":"2014-04-30T09:54:23","date_gmt":"2014-04-30T02:54:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5090"},"modified":"2014-04-30T09:54:23","modified_gmt":"2014-04-30T02:54:23","slug":"chia-se-cung-nhau-tat-ca","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5090","title":{"rendered":"CHIA S\u1eba C\u00d9NG NHAU T\u1ea4T C\u1ea2."},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ra t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i x\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u01b0\u1eddn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng mang nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u s\u1eafc ngay t\u1eeb l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc th\u1ea5y trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng x\u1ea3y ra hay kh\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf trong quan h\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u2013 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a nhau \u2013 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng sao c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u1eabn l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, d\u00f9 sao th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ri\u00eang r\u1ebd v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00e1c nhau. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u201cg\u1eafn b\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t\u201d l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ea1o ra n\u00f3. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u00f3 qua nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi nhau, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c do h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n mang l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

\u201cG\u1eafn b\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t\u201d kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi nhau, m\u00e0 h\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 chia s\u1ebb c\u00f9ng nhau m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea5u, nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh… \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau ni\u1ec1m vui hay nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec sao ph\u1ea3i chia s\u1ebb nhau c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng? B\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n x\u00f3a b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u201cg\u1eafn b\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t\u201d v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n

Khi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu c\u1ee7a nhau, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y hi\u1ec3u nhau tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eb7t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o nhau nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, khi b\u00e0y t\u1ecf v\u1edbi nhau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9a trong l\u00f2ng, ngay c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mang n\u1eb7ng m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u00f9ng nhau, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang c\u1ea3. N\u00f3 lu\u00f4n t\u1ea1o ra cho ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau n\u00ean v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u201cg\u1eafn b\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t\u201d c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng che gi\u1ea5u m\u00e3i m\u00e3i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ho\u1eb7c suy ngh\u0129. Kh\u00f4ng s\u1edbm th\u00ec mu\u1ed9n, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 che gi\u1ea5u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n, ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia s\u1ebd b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nhau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4n ngoan nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y \u2013 chia s\u1ebb c\u00f9ng nhau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen trong n\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng chung c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1n b\u00f9 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng. Khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. V\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u1eafm thi\u1ebft, g\u1eafn b\u00f3 nhau h\u01a1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o phai nh\u1ea1t v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian nh\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn t\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n

NGUY\u1ec4N MINH TI\u1ebeN D\u1ecaCH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ra t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i x\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u01b0\u1eddn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng mang nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u s\u1eafc ngay t\u1eeb l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc th\u1ea5y trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5091,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5090"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5090"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5090\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5092,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5090\/revisions\/5092"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5091"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5090"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5090"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5090"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}