{"id":5143,"date":"2014-05-06T09:39:27","date_gmt":"2014-05-06T02:39:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5143"},"modified":"2014-05-06T09:39:27","modified_gmt":"2014-05-06T02:39:27","slug":"suc-manh-cua-loi-noi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5143","title":{"rendered":"S\u1ee8C M\u1ea0NH C\u1ee6A L\u1edcI N\u00d3I."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/18.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-5144\" title=\"1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/18.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"284\" height=\"178\" \/><\/a>N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng mang l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m bao ph\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp m\u00e2y \u0111en u \u00e1m l\u00ean cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i. N\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t con dao hai l\u01b0\u1ee1i m\u00e0 c\u00f4ng n\u0103ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec1u m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 nhau.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Khi b\u1ea1n l\u01b0u t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ra c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 cung c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c t\u1eeb ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m nh\u01b0 v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>L\u1eddi n\u00f3i gi\u00fap nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1ed1n c\u00f3, t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng s\u1eafc th\u00e1i t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m m\u1edbi, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa nh\u1eefng g\u00ec v\u01b0\u1edbng m\u1eafc trong quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 cung c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n<p>L\u1eddi n\u00f3i l\u00e0m x\u00f3i m\u00f2n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1ed1n c\u00f3, t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 nhau, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng g\u00fat m\u1eaft trong quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb b\u1eeba b\u00e3i, th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 t\u00f9y theo nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t theo c\u00e1ch thi\u1ebfu h\u1eb3n s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng, c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>Khi b\u00e0n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c xa c\u00e1ch, thi\u1ebfu th\u00e2n m\u1eadt, ho\u1eb7c \u00edt ra c\u0169ng l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. T\u00e2m l\u00fd n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1eadt, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen m\u1edbi c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen t\u1ed1t. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00fang n\u1eefa khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f3i quen t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean trong vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i n\u0103ng th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n<p>Xin \u0111\u1eebng nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp theo m\u1ed9t cung c\u00e1ch qu\u00e1 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng, lu\u00f4n \u201cgi\u1eef k\u1ebd\u201d v\u1edbi nhau. N\u00f3i n\u0103ng th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u00e0 n\u00ean n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 nghi\u00eam ngh\u1ecb m\u1ed7i khi giao ti\u1ebfp. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen trong vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n<p>L\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 quan tr\u1ecdng trong m\u1ecdi quan h\u1ec7 giao ti\u1ebfp, v\u00e0 ri\u00eang trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng n\u00f3 c\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e1ng cho b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p l\u00e0 khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng quen thu\u1ed9c v\u1edbi nhau th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng d\u1ec5 v\u1ea5p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3 trong giao ti\u1ebfp, cho d\u00f9 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 \u00fd. \u0110i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng may l\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 \u00fd n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1ec1 nhau, v\u00e0 trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn tai h\u1ecda.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat l\u01b0u t\u00e2m khi ch\u1ecdn cung c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i n\u0103ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1edbi nhau, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebd nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 m\u1ee9c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. B\u1edfi v\u00ec tr\u1ebb con lu\u00f4n b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m m\u00e0 \u00edt khi tu\u00e2n theo nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n d\u1ea1y cho ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n<p>Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong giao ti\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 h\u00e3y c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1eebng n\u00f3i n\u0103ng theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nghe. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ti\u1ebfp theo \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra theo h\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n, b\u1edfi v\u00ec v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m theo nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n<p>NGUY\u1ec4N MINH TI\u1ebeN D\u1ecaCH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng mang l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m bao ph\u1ee7 m\u1ed9t l\u1edbp m\u00e2y \u0111en u \u00e1m l\u00ean cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i. 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