{"id":5162,"date":"2014-05-09T09:04:48","date_gmt":"2014-05-09T02:04:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5162"},"modified":"2014-05-09T09:04:48","modified_gmt":"2014-05-09T02:04:48","slug":"khia-canh-tich-cuc-cua-moi-van-de","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5162","title":{"rendered":"KH\u00cdA C\u1ea0NH T\u00cdCH C\u1ef0C C\u1ee6A M\u1ed6I V\u1ea4N \u0110\u1ec0"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p cho quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e1c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng v\u0169 kh\u00ed hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y d\u1eaby trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn n\u00e0y b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y ai quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0, trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec, d\u00f9 t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u h\u00e0m ch\u1ee9a \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o nh\u1eadn ra, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i m\u00e0u s\u1eafc bi quan cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd v\u00e0o y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 n\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng t\u1ea1o \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n minh h\u1ecda r\u00f5 n\u00e9t cho \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef \u201cT\u00e1i \u00f4ng th\u1ea5t m\u00e3\u201d[2] c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Trung Hoa. M\u1ed9t \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 \u1edf v\u00f9ng bi\u00ean \u1ea3i c\u00f3 con ng\u1ef1a \u0111i l\u1ea1c m\u1ea5t, \u00edt l\u00e2u sau tr\u1edf v\u1ec1. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fac m\u1eebng, \u00f4ng b\u1ea3o ch\u01b0a h\u1eb3n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u may. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ea5y h\u00f4m sau, con trai \u00f4ng c\u01b0\u1ee1i con ng\u1ef1a \u1ea5y v\u00e0 ng\u00e3 g\u00e3y ch\u00e2n. H\u00e0ng x\u00f3m l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn chia bu\u1ed3n, \u00f4ng th\u1ea3n nhi\u00ean b\u1ea3o h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a h\u1eb3n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ee7i. \u00cdt l\u00e2u sau chi\u1ebfn tranh n\u1ed5i l\u00ean, trai tr\u00e1ng trong l\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111i l\u00ednh tr\u1eadn, nh\u00e0 n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ebft. Con trai \u00f4ng nh\u1edd c\u00f3 t\u1eadt \u1edf ch\u00e2n m\u00e0 kh\u1ecfi \u0111i l\u00ednh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00ean \u1ed5n \u1edf nh\u00e0.<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00e0, trong c\u00e1i r\u1ee7i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0m ch\u1ee9a c\u00e1i may; v\u00e0 trong c\u00e1i may c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0m ch\u1ee9a c\u00e1i r\u1ee7i. Trong \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang x\u00e9t, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0: trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec, d\u00f9 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0m ch\u1ee9a nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt, khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt ph\u1ea7n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 bi quan lo l\u1eafng nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta t\u1ef1 an \u1ee7i m\u1ed7i khi g\u1eb7p vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng may, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0, nh\u00ecn theo kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u00eam s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn theo nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m cho s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa m\u00e0 th\u00f4i!<\/p>\n

Kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1eadt. V\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o ra n\u00f3, b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngay khi r\u01a1i v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u1ea5u. M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n. Th\u1eadt t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 bi\u1ebft bao, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch d\u00e0i nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3n chi ti\u00eau gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a thanh to\u00e1n. T\u00e0i ch\u00e1nh s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nhanh ch\u00f3ng \u0111i t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh r\u01a1i v\u00e0o t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng \u00ea ch\u1ec1 v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed mang c\u1ea3 b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 m\u1edbi. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. C\u00f3 g\u00ec t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u0111i t\u00ecm vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c? C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea5y! Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n, thu nh\u1eadp kh\u00e1 h\u01a1n? V\u00ec n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u00f3 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n an ph\u1eadn v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c s\u1eb5n c\u00f3. C\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m cho th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i g\u00ec c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn n\u00f3 gi\u00fap thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t, b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng va ch\u1ea1m kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p t\u00edch c\u1ef1c quan tr\u1ecdng. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eb7ng l\u1eddi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 khuya. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c! Nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i m\u00e0 xem, ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1 \u1ea5y v\u1ed1n c\u0169ng xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m lo l\u1eafng cho nhau? Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng c\u00e1ch c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i ra c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng?<\/p>\n

Khi m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1ea3y sinh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft n\u00f3 theo c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ph\u1edbt l\u1edd hay tr\u00e1nh n\u00e9. Bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn theo kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 theo c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0, khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eadp th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen nh\u00ecn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 theo kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1c quan y\u00eau \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng th\u1ed1i ch\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p cho quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e1c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng v\u0169 kh\u00ed hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p lu\u00f4n […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5163,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5162"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5162"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5162\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5164,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5162\/revisions\/5164"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5163"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5162"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5162"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5162"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}