{"id":5165,"date":"2014-05-10T08:50:50","date_gmt":"2014-05-10T01:50:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5165"},"modified":"2014-05-10T08:50:50","modified_gmt":"2014-05-10T01:50:50","slug":"hay-tu-xet-minh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5165","title":{"rendered":"H\u00c3Y T\u1ef0 X\u00c9T M\u00ccNH!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Trong thu\u1eadt x\u1eed th\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a c\u00f3 d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng: \u201cTr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh, sau m\u1edbi tr\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.\u201d[3] Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn nay \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 x\u01b0a c\u0169 ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u1ee3p th\u1eddi n\u1eefa. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u00e0y v\u00e0o quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng, s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u201cto chuy\u1ec7n\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u201cb\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 \u00fd\u201d \u0111\u00e3, \u0111ang v\u00e0 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u00e1i gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd qua \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u201cTi\u00ean tr\u00e1ch k\u1ef7, h\u1eadu tr\u00e1ch b\u1ec9\u201d s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00ed quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong m\u1ed9t v\u1ee5 b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a? V\u00e0 c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111a s\u1ed1 trong ch\u00fang ta, t\u00f4i e r\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u1eafm. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta trong quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. B\u1edfi v\u00ec, nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4n ngoan nh\u1ea5t trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ee5 b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n \u201c\u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p\u201d c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean.<\/p>\n

Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch ch\u1ec9 ra sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh. C\u1ee9 cho l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00fang, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y v\u00e0 n\u00f3i ra \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm khi gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. B\u1edfi v\u00ec, \u1edf ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia, v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 h\u1ee3p l\u00fd.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 \u201cg\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n\u201d c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai trong vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng n\u1eb1m v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0, khi c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch nhau, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t hi\u1ebfm khi ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p cho v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n khi m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn ph\u1ea7n \u201c\u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a.<\/p>\n

Khi m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng khai th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0y h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. V\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n theo h\u01b0\u1edbng x\u1ea5u h\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4ng khai th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat d\u0169ng kh\u00ed c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u00e3y tin ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111i, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m cho v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n coi th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e2u, m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i sai l\u1ea7m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed9c trong vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

NGUY\u1ec4N MINH TI\u1ebeN D\u1ecaCH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Trong thu\u1eadt x\u1eed th\u1ebf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a c\u00f3 d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng: \u201cTr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh, sau m\u1edbi tr\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.\u201d[3] Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn nay \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 x\u01b0a c\u0169 ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u1ee3p th\u1eddi n\u1eefa. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc n\u00e0y v\u00e0o quan h\u1ec7 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5166,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5165"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5165"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5165\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5168,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5165\/revisions\/5168"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5166"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5165"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5165"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5165"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}