{"id":5178,"date":"2014-05-13T09:15:38","date_gmt":"2014-05-13T02:15:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5178"},"modified":"2014-05-13T09:15:38","modified_gmt":"2014-05-13T02:15:38","slug":"dung-quy-loi-cho-nhau","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5178","title":{"rendered":"\u0110\u1eeaNG QUY L\u1ed6I CHO NHAU."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/116.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-5179\" title=\"1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/116-300x209.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"209\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/116-300x209.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/116.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>L\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, c\u00e1u g\u1eaft hay bu\u1ed3n n\u1ea3n v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ee9ng ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, c\u00e1u g\u1eaft hay bu\u1ed3n n\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ebf m\u00e0 t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef v\u1eabn c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201cGi\u1eadn c\u00e1 ch\u00e9m th\u1edbt\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i \u201ckhuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean\u201d n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ea5t, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y g\u1ea7n g\u0169i ch\u00fang ta nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00fat c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn t\u1ee9c hay c\u00e1u g\u1eaft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quanh m\u00ecnh. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng may l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh v\u1ee3 hay ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 l\u00fd c\u1ee7a khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 n\u00f3 g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng tai h\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. Th\u1eadt ra th\u00ec nh\u1eefng b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, c\u00e1u g\u1eaft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt. Ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u00e0m trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y l\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o quan s\u00e1t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eb1m \u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u1edf n\u01a1i v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft h\u1ee3p l\u00fd v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch tr\u00fat n\u1ed7i b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00ean v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>S\u1ef1 qu\u00e1 t\u1ea3i trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n t\u1ea1o ra t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1ea1n ch\u00fai m\u0169i v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3n th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i n\u00e0o cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng vui v\u1ebb c\u1edfi m\u1edf. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 cho s\u1ef1 c\u00e1u g\u1eaft, b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc x\u00e2m chi\u1ebfm t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00fa v\u1ecb khi th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng v\u1eabn qua \u0111i ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh ra m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3n th\u1eddi gian ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i h\u1ee3p l\u00fd cho ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n, trong m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng vui v\u1ebb h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e2n t\u00edch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 g\u00e2y ra t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, c\u00e1u g\u1eaft hay kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ee3p l\u00fd v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00e1u g\u1eaft v\u00f4 c\u1edb ho\u1eb7c b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n m\u01a1 h\u1ed3, kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ngay c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch quy l\u1ed7i cho nhau v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ea7n n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh. Suy cho c\u00f9ng, quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 d\u1ef1a tinh th\u1ea7n an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u1ea5y?<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd quy l\u1ed7i cho nhau, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00f4ng hay x\u1ea3y ra c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>NGUY\u1ec4N MINH TI\u1ebeN D\u1ecaCH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>L\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, c\u00e1u g\u1eaft hay bu\u1ed3n n\u1ea3n v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ee9ng ch\u1ecbu [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5179,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5178"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5178"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5178\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5181,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5178\/revisions\/5181"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5179"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5178"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5178"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5178"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}