{"id":5199,"date":"2014-05-17T14:30:51","date_gmt":"2014-05-17T07:30:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5199"},"modified":"2014-05-17T14:30:51","modified_gmt":"2014-05-17T07:30:51","slug":"dung-danh-mat-tinh-yeu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5199","title":{"rendered":"\u0110\u1eeaNG \u0110\u00c1NH M\u1ea4T T\u00ccNH Y\u00caU."},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>\u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean lu\u00f4n \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n d\u00e0i l\u00e2u, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u201cAnh m\u00e3i m\u00e3i y\u00eau em\u201d hay nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. R\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 th\u00e2n quy\u1ebfn c\u0169ng chia s\u1ebb ni\u1ec1m vui v\u1edbi l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u ch\u00fac \u201ctr\u0103m n\u0103m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\u201d!<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt m\u00e0 \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan t\u00e2m l\u00e0, m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho \u0111\u1ebfn \u201ctr\u0103m n\u0103m\u201d, th\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201ctr\u0103m n\u0103m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\u201d. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh cho nhau trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n s\u1ebd \u201cm\u00e3i m\u00e3i y\u00eau nhau\u201d. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i quen bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. H\u1ecd v\u1eabn t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung b\u00ean nhau v\u00e0 chung lo cho con c\u00e1i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 xem nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u201cgia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\u201d, ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u00f3ng d\u00e1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa!<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 mu\u1ed1n d\u00e0nh tr\u1ecdn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 cho con c\u00e1i m\u1ed9t khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 con, v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi c\u00e1c con c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4n l\u1edbn. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. Nh\u01b0ng li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ch\u0103m lo nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay ch\u0103ng? Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p l\u00fd trong nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u1edf \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tr\u1ea3i qua n\u0103m th\u00e1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi nhau qua con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, trong khi t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed1ng tro t\u00e0n ngu\u1ed9i l\u1ea1nh, v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi n\u1ed3ng \u1ea5m th\u00ec nay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u01b0u l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fat d\u1ea5u v\u1ebft n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t lo\u00e0i hoa c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n. N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3, m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y kia n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau!<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn s\u1ebd c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 c\u1ecd x\u00e1t va ch\u1ea1m h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng v\u1eeba \u00fd nhau, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p… c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng m\u00e0 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 thu\u1edf ban \u0111\u1ea7u, khi m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhu\u1ed1m m\u1ed9t m\u00e0u h\u1ed3ng t\u01b0\u01a1i tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1eb9p. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea7n l\u01b0\u1ee3t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn trong t\u1eadp s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, tr\u1eeb khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn l\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111i \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh theo n\u0103m th\u00e1ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 phai nh\u1ea1t d\u1ea7n \u0111i, b\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u00f3. T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, l\u00e0 v\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa nh\u1eefng b\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a thu\u1edf ban \u0111\u1ea7u, m\u00e0 gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb1m th\u1eafm s\u00e2u xa c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau g\u1eafn b\u00f3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n qua n\u0103m th\u00e1ng, m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau mang l\u1ea1i cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n vai tr\u00f2 l\u1edbn lao c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ee7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ea7y tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m g\u1ea7y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p gia \u0111\u00ecnh, nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con c\u00e1i, v\u00e0 k\u00e8m theo l\u00e0 h\u00e0ng kh\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa… nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0m phai nh\u1ea1t d\u1ea7n t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1edd v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ecdn \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, bi\u1ebft g\u00ecn gi\u1eef v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, th\u00ec ch\u00ednh t\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf l\u1edbn lao ti\u1ebfp s\u1ee9c cho m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi t\u1eebng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00fang theo nh\u1eefng h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n t\u1eeb thu\u1edf ban \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0m cho qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau qua nh\u1eefng n\u0103m th\u00e1ng c\u00f9ng nhau chung s\u1ed1ng? Trong h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra: s\u1ef1 phai nh\u1ea1t d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u th\u00edch h\u1ee3p. Khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u00fang t\u00fang v\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed9ng, b\u1ecb x\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1edfi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh m\u00e0 \u00edt khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, trong l\u00f2ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u00e0n ng\u1eadp t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ee9ng cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn v\u00e0 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p h\u00e0i h\u00f2a gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh cho nhau m\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc, b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, v\u00e0 l\u1ebd ra c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i, duy tr\u00ec v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1ea3 hai t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u1ea5y. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn ho\u1eb7c chi\u1ebfm ch\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a nhau, m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho nhau. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed ng\u1eadp tr\u00e0n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f2n c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con c\u00e1i. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t \u0111i t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 b\u1ed5n ph\u1eadn kh\u00f4 khan m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5t li\u1ec7u t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 say m\u00ea v\u00e0 h\u01b0ng ph\u1ea5n.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9, ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng con c\u00e1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u00fat m\u1ef1c n\u00e0o t\u1ea3 xi\u1ebft. Ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t cho c\u00e1c con, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem nh\u01b0 hy sinh tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n cho con c\u00e1i. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1c con, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n. Ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u0103m s\u00f3c ch\u00fang, v\u00e0 b\u00f9 l\u1ea1i ch\u00fang mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho ch\u00fang ta ni\u1ec1m vui kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ea3 b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi, ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn c\u00e1c con l\u1edbn l\u00ean t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y trong s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng nhau n\u1ed3ng th\u1eafm. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ed1ng g\u1eafn b\u00f3 c\u00f9ng nhau kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn \u201cr\u0103ng long t\u00f3c b\u1ea1c\u201d. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 may m\u1eafn, c\u00e1c con r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ch\u1eafp c\u00e1nh tung bay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n r\u1eddi b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i qua giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 \u201cbu\u1ed3n vui c\u00f3 nhau\u201d. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong quan h\u1ec7 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m, m\u00e0 x\u00e9t cho c\u00f9ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201ctr\u0103m n\u0103m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\u201d.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft n\u00ean th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0: \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng v\u00ec ch\u0103m lo cho con c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh. C\u1ea3 hai v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t trong hai c\u1ea3. H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 hai, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y trong t\u1eadp s\u00e1ch m\u1ecfng n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eb1m gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

N\u0103m th\u00e1ng r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd qua \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 sau s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00e3y c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc ngay t\u1eeb h\u00f4m nay tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u: kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n

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\u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhau, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean lu\u00f4n \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n d\u00e0i l\u00e2u, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u201cAnh m\u00e3i m\u00e3i y\u00eau em\u201d hay nh\u1eefng […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5200,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5199"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5199"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5199\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5202,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5199\/revisions\/5202"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5200"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5199"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5199"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5199"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}