{"id":5218,"date":"2014-05-19T08:57:43","date_gmt":"2014-05-19T01:57:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5218"},"modified":"2014-05-19T08:57:43","modified_gmt":"2014-05-19T01:57:43","slug":"hay-tha-thu-cho-nhau","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5218","title":{"rendered":"H\u00c3Y THA TH\u1ee8 CHO NHAU."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/123.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-5219\" title=\"1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/123.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"224\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/123.jpg 224w, http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/123-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 224px) 100vw, 224px\" \/><\/a>M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m. \u0110\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee3t g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu cho ai \u0111\u00f3, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 m\u00e0 l\u1ebd ra kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 trong giao ti\u1ebfp&#8230; Nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 tr\u00ean h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai, ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 kh\u00f4n ngoan ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u, v\u00ec m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i sai l\u1ea7m.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ho\u1eb7c th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac anh \u1ea5y tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, c\u00e1u g\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c&#8230; V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai trong ch\u00fang ta ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i \u201cth\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng\u201d kh\u00f4ng hay nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i \u201cto chuy\u1ec7n\u201d. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung vui bu\u1ed3n c\u00f3 nhau, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 chia s\u1ebb c\u00f9ng nhau nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p n\u1eefa. C\u00e1 t\u00ednh m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, v\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng vui v\u1ebb b\u00ean nhau. V\u00e0 h\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac sai l\u1ea7m. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tha th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd \u0111an xen l\u1eabn nhau v\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem nh\u01b0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng.<\/p>\n<p>Khi m\u1ed9t nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn hay m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p l\u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a gi\u1eefa hai th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9. L\u00e0m r\u00f5 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch sai tr\u00e1i c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, tha th\u1ee9. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00fd. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch kia th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>Khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sai l\u1ea7m khi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 qua \u0111i. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00e1nh cho anh \u1ea5y ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i trong t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 bu\u1ed9c anh \u1ea5y hay c\u00f4 \u1ea5y nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed5n kh\u00f3 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn trong quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean. Nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, anh \u1ea5y ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u201cth\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng\u201d trong vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Ch\u01b0a n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec5n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n: b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 m\u1ed9t v\u1ee5 tranh c\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng sai s\u00f3t th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng x\u1ea3y ra kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean qua \u0111i theo th\u1eddi gian. N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00fang v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng hay. S\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4n ngoan.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng x\u1ea3y ra, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t sai l\u1ec7ch&#8230; Nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 l\u00e0 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c h\u01a1n, b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 cam ch\u1ecbu nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi hay th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng n\u1ed3ng th\u1eafm g\u1eafn b\u00f3 h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>NGUY\u1ec4N MINH TI\u1ebeN D\u1ecaCH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m. \u0110\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi \u0111\u00f9a c\u1ee3t g\u00e2y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu cho ai \u0111\u00f3, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 m\u00e0 l\u1ebd ra kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 trong [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5219,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5218"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5218"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5218\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5220,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5218\/revisions\/5220"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5219"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5218"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5218"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5218"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}