{"id":5228,"date":"2014-05-21T08:42:20","date_gmt":"2014-05-21T01:42:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5228"},"modified":"2014-05-21T08:42:20","modified_gmt":"2014-05-21T01:42:20","slug":"co-dieu-gi-khong-tot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5228","title":{"rendered":"C\u00d3 \u0110I\u1ec0U G\u00cc KH\u00d4NG T\u1ed0T."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/125.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-5229\" title=\"1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/125.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"260\" height=\"194\" \/><\/a>Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u00fd trung nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Cho d\u00f9 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 may m\u1eafn c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u \u00fd h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, th\u00ec trong su\u1ed1t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng chung ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y sang ng\u00e0y kh\u00e1c, n\u0103m n\u00e0y sang n\u0103m kh\u00e1c, c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i \u00e2m th\u1ea7m ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ngay t\u1eeb khi n\u00f3 c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ph\u1ea3i b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ra. V\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra trong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 h\u00e3y th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi trong m\u1ed9t b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh th\u00edch h\u1ee3p. C\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t trong c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed ho\u1eb7c trong t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n?<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f4i khi, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecfi anh \u1ea5y hay c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua nh\u1eefng ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a anh \u1ea5y hay c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ho\u1eb7c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp.<\/p>\n<p>Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb7t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ra theo m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, v\u00ec n\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt, tin c\u1eady gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1p. V\u00e0o m\u1ed9t d\u1ecbp th\u00edch h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u d\u1ecbp nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng \u2013 h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb anh \u1ea5y ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p d\u00e0i l\u00e2u, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 anh \u1ea5y hay c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i ra \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ng\u0103n ng\u1eeba tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec3m h\u1ecda trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m nh\u1ecf, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00f3a gi\u1ea3i theo hai c\u00e1ch. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fa \u00fd kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c. Th\u1ee9 hai, v\u00ec c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng nhau \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, anh \u1ea5y ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng nhau th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn s\u00e2u h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0n \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec7n ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng nhau kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p c\u00f4ng khai t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Nhi\u1ec1u \u201cth\u00f3i x\u1ea5u\u201d nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00f4 \u1ea5y h\u01a1i kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i ra, v\u00e0 sau th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u00fang s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201c\u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau\u201d l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea5y, \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 \u201ckhi th\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u1ea3 \u1ea5u c\u0169ng tr\u00f2n\u201d m\u00e0.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n ti\u1ebfn theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 t\u1eeb c\u00f4 \u1ea5y hay anh \u1ea5y. V\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f9ng nhau t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 cho d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng sao. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ho\u1eb7c anh \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u1eeb ph\u00eda b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n<p>NGUY\u1ec4N MINH TI\u1ebeN D\u1ecaCH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi \u00fd trung nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Cho d\u00f9 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 may m\u1eafn c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u \u00fd h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, th\u00ec [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5229,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5228"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5228"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5228\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5230,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5228\/revisions\/5230"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5229"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5228"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5228"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5228"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}