{"id":5232,"date":"2014-05-22T17:36:45","date_gmt":"2014-05-22T10:36:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5232"},"modified":"2014-05-22T17:36:45","modified_gmt":"2014-05-22T10:36:45","slug":"nhung-cau-hoi-khong-can-thiet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5232","title":{"rendered":"NH\u1eeeNG C\u00c2U H\u1eceI KH\u00d4NG C\u1ea6N THI\u1ebeT."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 13px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/126.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-5233\" title=\"1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/05\/126.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"275\" height=\"183\" \/><\/a>M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ngay khi nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Trong quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u00edt khi t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Suy cho c\u00f9ng, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng th\u00edch \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 th\u1eeba v\u1eabn h\u01a1n l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu. Nh\u01b0ng trong quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c \u0111i. Qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u khi \u0111\u1ed3ng ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 gia t\u0103ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>Khi v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n \u0111i th\u0103m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u0169, ho\u1eb7c anh \u1ea5y mu\u1ed1n mua th\u00eam m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i c\u00e0-v\u1ea1t m\u1edbi&#8230; N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u201ct\u1ea1i sao\u201d trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n cho quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u00e3y b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 t\u00e1n th\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00f9 sao \u0111i n\u1eefa, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh d\u00e0nh cho nhau, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 anh \u1ea5y hay c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u00f4n ngoan v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c trong m\u1ed9t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng qua b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c. V\u00e0 v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i l\u1eafm trong m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y l\u00e0, m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do \u2013 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 trong m\u1ed9t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n m\u1ecdi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u1eb7n k\u1ebd v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ranh gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Khi m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c th\u1ecfa \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi nhau; v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t trong hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u1eb7n k\u1ebd v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ebd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 s\u1edf th\u00edch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh lo\u1ea1i n\u00e0y n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ea5t v\u1ea5n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 quan t\u00e2m. N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc t\u1eebng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ho\u00e0i nghi l\u1eabn nhau, thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tin c\u1eady, trong khi ch\u1eb3ng mang l\u1ea1i \u00fd ngh\u0129a t\u00edch c\u1ef1c n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ho\u1eb7c h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi lo\u1ea1i n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e2n m\u1eadt h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 tin c\u1eady l\u1eabn nhau, v\u00e0 x\u00e9t cho c\u00f9ng l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec tai h\u1ea1i c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<p>Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nhau nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00f3i, thay v\u00ec l\u00e0 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng l\u1ea1i tranh c\u00e3i nhau v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n b\u1edbt ph\u1ea7n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>NGUY\u1ec4N MINH TI\u1ebeN D\u1ecaCH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ngay khi nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3. 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