{"id":5239,"date":"2014-05-24T15:27:41","date_gmt":"2014-05-24T08:27:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5239"},"modified":"2014-05-24T15:27:41","modified_gmt":"2014-05-24T08:27:41","slug":"khong-noi-duoc-bang-loi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=5239","title":{"rendered":"KH\u00d4NG N\u00d3I \u0110\u01af\u1ee2C B\u1eb0NG L\u1edcI."},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>N\u0103m th\u00e1ng tr\u00f4i qua, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 to\u00e0n nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u00eam \u1ea3, th\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n.<\/span><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 hi\u1ebfm hoi, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p h\u1eefu \u00edch: h\u00e3y vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 cho nhau.<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac nhau m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 cho nhau, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb h\u01a1i k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1. Nh\u01b0ng trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7a gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

Trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t, khi m\u1ed9t trong hai b\u00ean qu\u00e1 b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c ho\u1eb7c gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u1eafng nghe, vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Th\u1ee9 hai, ngay c\u1ea3 khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u1ed1t, nh\u1eefng g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra ti\u1ebfp theo sau \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t ho\u1eb7c th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u2013 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9. Th\u1ee9 ba, khi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i trong m\u1ed9t b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed \u0111ang c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng ho\u1eb7c v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 v\u00ec n\u00f3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf n\u00f3i tr\u00ean. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u00ean t\u0129nh th\u00edch h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, d\u00f2ng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n, c\u1eaft ngang \u2013 nh\u01b0 khi \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi \u2013 n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i, l\u00fang t\u00fang, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem l\u1ea1i, s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u00e0 tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n \u00fd m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ee9 hai, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y trong m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t v\u00e0 h\u1ee3p l\u00fd nh\u1ea5t cho v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng. Th\u1ee9 ba, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn th\u01b0 \u2013 v\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c hay gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i nh\u01b0 khi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t nhau, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129 ra c\u00e1c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p th\u1ecfa \u0111\u00e1ng cho s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u1edf ch\u1ed7 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u0103n phong tr\u00e1c tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m xi\u00eau \u0111\u1ed5 l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau trong l\u00e1 th\u01b0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00f3a tan \u0111i s\u1ef1 gi\u1eadn d\u1ed7i trong l\u00f2ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch vi\u1ebft th\u01b0 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u00f4 \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o!<\/p>\n

Tr\u1eeb khi nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u2013 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eb1m ngo\u00e0i ph\u1ea1m vi \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp c\u1ee7a t\u1eadp s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y \u2013, b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng xung \u0111\u1ed9t \u201cqu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed9\u201d trong quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng. Gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 n\u00f3i, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c chi ti\u00eau trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y v\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con c\u00e1i, ho\u1eb7c v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n chia tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh… Tuy nhi\u00ean, ngay c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu ng\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn v\u00e0i d\u00f2ng v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y: \u201cAnh y\u00eau em!\u201d H\u00e3y ch\u1edd xem, t\u00f4i tin ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh!<\/p>\n

NGUY\u1ec4N MINH TI\u1ebeN D\u1ecaCH<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

N\u0103m th\u00e1ng tr\u00f4i qua, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng chung c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 to\u00e0n nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u00eam \u1ea3, th\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5242,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5239"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5239"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5239\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5243,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5239\/revisions\/5243"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5242"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5239"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5239"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5239"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}