{"id":6129,"date":"2014-08-04T11:12:55","date_gmt":"2014-08-04T04:12:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=6129"},"modified":"2014-08-04T11:12:55","modified_gmt":"2014-08-04T04:12:55","slug":"nhan-hieu-khong-nen-dan-cho-con-nguoi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=6129","title":{"rendered":"NH\u00c3N HI\u1ec6U, KH\u00d4NG N\u00caN D\u00c1N CHO CON NG\u01af\u1edcI!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>N\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ef1ng trong m\u1ed9t chai c\u00f3 nh\u00e3n l\u00e0 \u201cgi\u1ea5m\u201d, d\u00f9 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tho\u00e1ng th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng m\u00e0u n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0\u01a1ng, ng\u1eedi th\u1ea5y m\u00f9i n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ed3i, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng t\u00e0i n\u00e0o ng\u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i nghi ng\u1edd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ph\u1ea3i \u0111em n\u1ebfm th\u1eed. X\u00e1c minh r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng r\u1ed3i, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u1eb7t d\u1ea5u h\u1ecfi to \u0111\u00f9ng trong \u0111\u1ea7u: \u201cL\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0\u01a1ng sao l\u1ea1i ghi \u2018gi\u1ea5m\u2019 ?\u201d ho\u1eb7c: \u201cL\u00e0 chai gi\u1ea5m sao l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0\u01a1ng?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cNh\u00e3n hi\u1ec7u\u201d c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1edfi qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb tri gi\u00e1c: L\u00e0 nghe, nh\u00ecn, s\u1edd, n\u1ebfm, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn. Th\u00f4ng qua tri gi\u00e1c, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 so s\u00e1nh gi\u1eefa bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0u tr\u1eef trong tr\u00ed nh\u1edb v\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111ang t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 ta \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 quen v\u1edbi \u201cchai ghi ch\u1eef gi\u1ea5m th\u00ec \u0111\u1ef1ng gi\u1ea5m\u201d (l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n trong tr\u00ed nh\u1edb), khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y chai gi\u1ea5m (bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111ang t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng) ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ngay v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt ch\u1ee9a trong \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ebd l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ea5t l\u1ecfng m\u00e0u tr\u1eafng\/ ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecf, c\u00f3 v\u1ecb chua \u0111\u1eb7c tr\u01b0ng\u2026V\u00e0 khi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t k\u00edch th\u00edch \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi v\u1ed1n hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft m\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3, l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t sinh nghi ng\u1edd, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/p>\n

Th\u00f4ng qua kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tri gi\u00e1c, ghi nh\u1edb, t\u01b0 duy\u2026 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh chung v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u201cnh\u00e3n hi\u1ec7u\u201d n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u00e3n hi\u1ec7u c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u00ean g\u1ecdi gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u00ecnh dung v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 th\u00f4ng qua kinh nghi\u1ec7m mua s\u1eafm, khi nghe nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn Gucci, ta s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft ngay \u201c\u00c0, m\u00f3n h\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb l\u1eafm\u201d, c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m kh\u00f4ng bao b\u00ec th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qui \u0111\u1ecbnh ngay l\u00e0 \u201cgi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng l\u00e0 bao\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng v\u00ec nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi \u201cnh\u00e3n hi\u1ec7u\u201d nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i g\u00e2y ra kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n cho m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1eeba th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi ta d\u00e1n m\u00e1c Gucci l\u00ean cho m\u00f3n h\u00e0ng \u201ckh\u00f4ng bao b\u00ec\u201d, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc t\u00fai Gucci kh\u00f4ng nh\u00e3n m\u00e1c c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi mua ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea7n ch\u1eeb, nghi ng\u1edd v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1edd c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ean v\u00e0 ghi nh\u1edb d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u (nh\u00e3n hi\u1ec7u) m\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh. V\u00e0 d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang c\u1ea3 th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u00f3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, khi \u0111\u00f3 ta c\u00f3 t\u1eeb D\u00c1N NH\u00c3N, trong ngo\u1eb7c k\u00e9p.<\/p>\n

\u201cKhi g\u1eb7p c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 trong s\u00e1ng \u0111\u00f3\u201d v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d c\u1ee9 \u0111eo mang \u201c\u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u201d \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e3i v\u1ec1 sau. \u201cC\u00f4 \u1ea5y\u201d \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i \u201cd\u00e1n\u201d cho c\u00e1i nh\u00e3n \u201cng\u00e2y th\u01a1, trong s\u00e1ng\u201d. Ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft \u201cc\u00f4 \u1ea5y\u201d \u0111\u00e3 \u201cng\u00e2y th\u01a1, trong s\u00e1ng\u201d \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u201c\u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean\u201d \u1ea5y, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u, l\u1ee1 nh\u01b0 trong m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c, nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ra, \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e2t s\u1ef1 ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 trong s\u00e1ng nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d, th\u00ec ch\u00ednh \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ef1 x\u00e2y \u0111\u1eafp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u201cc\u00f4 \u1ea5y\u201d ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng hay bi\u1ebft, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i b\u00e0y. Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn ch\u1ee7 quan v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 quan th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 m\u00ecnh ta bi\u1ebft, \u0111\u00fang hay sai th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng ai x\u00e1c minh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Mike Georgetrong cu\u1ed1n The 7 Myths about Love\u2026 Actually!: The Journey from Your Head to the Heart of Your Soul, \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1: \u201cH\u00e3y h\u00ecnh dung ra m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u00e3n m\u00e1c g\u1eafn tr\u00ean b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai hay v\u1eadt g\u00ec (\u2026) H\u00e3y h\u00ecnh dung ra m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c d\u00e1n nh\u00e3n \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t kh\u1ecfi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2. V\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u hay n\u00f3i \u00edt \u0111i? Nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n bao nhi\u00eau ho\u1eb7c \u00edt \u0111i bao nhi\u00eau? Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd d\u00f9ng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y \u201ckho\u1ea3ng tr\u1ed1ng\u201d \u1ea5y? (\u2026) B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n k\u1ec3 ra b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u00e1i nh\u00e3n n\u00e0o ch\u1ee9? N\u1ebfu v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec? H\u00e3y th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp ngay trong ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c s\u00e2u s\u1eafc vi\u1ec7c \u201cg\u1eafn nh\u00e3n m\u00e1c\u201d \u0111\u00e3 cho\u00e1n h\u1ebft nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u bao nhi\u00eau\u201d<\/p>\n

D\u00e1n nh\u00e3n, theo suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c th\u00ec l\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, c\u00f2n ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c th\u00ec s\u1ebd l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u201cM\u00e0y \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eb1ng A h\u1ea3, tao bi\u1ebft n\u00f3, n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u00f3 uy t\u00edn trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nha, l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 chu \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.\u201d \u201cC\u00f4 B n\u00e0y h\u1ea3, ch\u1ea3nh ch\u1eb9 l\u1eafm, kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 g\u00ec ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u, l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 n\u1eeda con m\u1eaft th\u00f4i \u00e0.\u201d V\u00e0 t\u1eeb tin t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ebd k\u00e9o theo c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn, c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i th\u00ec c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n. Khi b\u1ea1n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 cho h\u1ecd (v\u00e0 cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh) c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n nhau h\u01a1n. V\u00e0 th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn c\u00e0ng s\u00e2u th\u00ec kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh (hay c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh) x\u00e2y n\u00ean s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng xa, c\u00e0ng s\u00e2u, kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 g\u00ec m\u00e0 x\u00f3a b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean th\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ta c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n th\u00f4ng qua m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac. Nh\u01b0ng, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ri\u00eang, c\u00e1 t\u00ednh ri\u00eang, quan \u0111i\u1ec3m ri\u00eang. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng? T\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9? T\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n h\u1ebft. C\u00f3 ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 trong c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ng\u00e0y n\u00e0y qua ng\u00e0y kh\u00e1c, v\u1edbi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 nhau v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m h\u1ecd d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fat g\u00ec thay \u0111\u1ed5i? V\u1eady th\u00ec v\u00ec sao nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee9 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p?<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u t\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.\u201d Th\u00ec c\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Ch\u1eafc g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u01b0 x\u1eed y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Hay h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n th\u1ebf n\u00e0y trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y, trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c h\u1ecd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf? T\u00e2m l\u00fd con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, mu\u1ed1n hi\u1ec3u tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, tr\u1eeb khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y th\u1eed tham gia m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i nh\u1ecf, ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u1ea3n tr\u00f2 s\u1ebd ghi v\u00e0i nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i d\u00e1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u1ef1c h\u1ecd (b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111ang tham gia tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i), b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 tham gia \u201cng\u00e0y n\u00f3i th\u1eadt\u201d, v\u1eady th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u201cc\u00e1i nh\u00e3n\u201d nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf? Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd y nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng mi\u1ebfng d\u00e1n h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chai gi\u1ea5m c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0\u01a1ng (n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 ai c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh \u201cch\u01a1i\u201d b\u1ea1n th\u00ec ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ebft chai r\u1ed3i n\u00ean\u2026 h\u1ebft c\u00e1ch!), v\u1eady th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u201cth\u1ebf n\u00e0y\u201d kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u201cth\u1ebf kh\u00e1c\u201d? V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i? Hay nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn sai v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? D\u00f9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ed3i. B\u1ea1n d\u00f9 g\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ( v\u00ec l\u00f2ng tin b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t) ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng (v\u00ec hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m h\u1ecd). N\u1ed7i \u0111au n\u00e0o s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 xoa d\u1ecbu h\u01a1n?<\/p>\n

Gi\u1eef th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ebd n\u00e0o ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ai? Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady, ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef c\u1ea3m t\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y hay \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng hay v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0, c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ri\u00eang ch\u1ee9. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n sai l\u1ea7m. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ta n\u00ean hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n thay \u0111\u1ed5i, ho\u1eb7c nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u201ckh\u00e1c l\u1ea1\u201d m\u00e0 ta \u201cph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n\u201d th\u1ea5y \u1edf m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u00e1 t\u00ednh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, l\u00e0 g\u00f3c khu\u1ea5t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd m\u00e0 ta ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 d\u1ecbp \u201cnh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y\u201d. Th\u00ec c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf m\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u00f4i. Qu\u00e1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh ra th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, gi\u1eef th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn qu\u00e1 s\u00e2u s\u1ebd l\u1ee1 m\u1ea5t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y (hay t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng) nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p t\u1eeb ai \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Quan h\u1ec7 gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 s\u01b0 th\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u, l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eddi, \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng v\u1ea1n v\u1eadt lu\u00f4n thay \u0111\u1ed5i, \u201ckh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eafm hai l\u1ea7n tr\u00ean c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t d\u00f2ng s\u00f4ng\u201d, \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ta tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00ec ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t t\u00edn hay \u0111\u00e1ng tin, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 ta ngh\u0129, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng r\u1ed3i t\u1ef1 chu\u1ed1c kh\u1ed5 cho m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n, c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t x\u1ea5u, c\u00f3 l\u00fac \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac sai, c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3i.<\/p>\n

Nh\u00e3n hi\u1ec7u, ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean d\u00e1n l\u00ean \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 th\u00eam cho hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh. Nh\u00e3n hi\u1ec7u, \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean d\u00e1n l\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 cho nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang hay sai, l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o sai. Nh\u00e3n m\u00e1c d\u00e1n tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt khi th\u00e1o ra v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i d\u1ea5u keo hay v\u1ebft tr\u1ea7y tr\u01b0\u1edbc, c\u00f2n khi d\u00e1n l\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u00e1o ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u201cv\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d d\u00f9 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 l\u00f2ng m\u00e0 b\u00f4i x\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

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N\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u1ebfu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ef1ng trong m\u1ed9t chai c\u00f3 nh\u00e3n l\u00e0 \u201cgi\u1ea5m\u201d, d\u00f9 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tho\u00e1ng th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng m\u00e0u n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0\u01a1ng, ng\u1eedi th\u1ea5y m\u00f9i n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u01b0\u01a1ng r\u1ed3i, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng t\u00e0i n\u00e0o ng\u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i nghi ng\u1edd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ph\u1ea3i \u0111em n\u1ebfm th\u1eed. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6130,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6129"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6129"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6129\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6131,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6129\/revisions\/6131"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6130"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6129"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6129"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6129"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}