{"id":6196,"date":"2014-08-18T09:58:36","date_gmt":"2014-08-18T02:58:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=6196"},"modified":"2014-08-18T09:58:36","modified_gmt":"2014-08-18T02:58:36","slug":"vi-sao-toi-khong-day-con-chia-se-do-choi-voi-ban-khac","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=6196","title":{"rendered":"V\u00cc SAO T\u00d4I KH\u00d4NG D\u1ea0Y CON CHIA S\u1eba \u0110\u1ed2 CH\u01a0I V\u1edaI B\u1ea0N KH\u00c1C?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tho\u1ea1t ti\u00ean th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y th\u1eadt \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3, nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec t\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i<\/em>. \u2013 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 chia s\u1ebb.<\/strong><\/h3>\n

T\u00f4i cho con trai theo h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o t\u01b0 th\u1ee5c. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y c\u00e1c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec1u do ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi nhau, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t quy \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb. M\u1ed9t b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i m\u00e0 b\u00e9 th\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn khi n\u00e0o h\u1ebft th\u00edch n\u1eefa th\u00ec th\u00f4i. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3, b\u00e9 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1edd cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n kia ch\u01a1i xong. Ph\u1ee5 huynh v\u00e0 c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef h\u1ed9 m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i cho b\u00e9 khi b\u00e9 \u0111i v\u1ec7 sinh, hay trong gi\u1edd \u0103n, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ai gi\u00e0nh m\u1ea5t. Quy \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 x\u00edch \u0111u.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i quan s\u00e1t trong 2 tu\u1ea7n v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3u quy \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1u vui v\u1ebb khi nghe t\u00f4i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: \u201cCon ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n Minh ch\u01a1i xong nh\u00e9!\u201d. Khi \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a con t\u00f4i, ch\u00ednh quy \u0111\u1ecbnh \u1ea5y c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00ean th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Hai c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb
\n<\/strong>
\nD\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 2 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n

Chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. C\u00f4 \u1ea5y d\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9a con 2 tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111i ch\u01a1i \u1edf c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean. B\u00e9 S\u01a1n mang theo m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i nh\u1ecf. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 kh\u00e1c, l\u1edbn h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, r\u1ea5t th\u00edch chi\u1ebfc xe, y\u00eau c\u1ea7u S\u01a1n cho m\u00ecnh chi\u1ebfc xe v\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn \u1ea9u \u0111\u1ea3 gi\u1eefa 2 b\u00e9 x\u1ea3y ra . M\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 kia h\u1eadm h\u1ef1c: \u201cB\u1ea1n \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eb9 d\u1ea1y cho c\u00e1ch chia s\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i!\u201d. \u0110\u1eebng b\u1eadn t\u00e2m, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc xe thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 con b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 khi ai \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecfi xin hay \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia s\u1ebb, b\u00e9 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n h\u1ee3p l\u00fd.<\/p>\n

Chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ee9 hai x\u1ea3y ra t\u1ea1i trung t\u00e2m v\u0103n h\u00f3a g\u1ea7n nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i. V\u00e0o s\u00e1ng th\u1ee9 6 h\u00e0ng tu\u1ea7n, \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i cho tr\u1ebb em. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf m\u00e0 con trai t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t th\u00edch, b\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e1i n\u00f3 ch\u1ea1y quanh trong su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng r\u01b0\u1ee1i \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u00e1n. T\u00f4i \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf b\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 theo d\u00f5i con m\u00ecnh t\u1eeb xa th\u00ec nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 con trai mu\u1ed1n l\u00e1i xe \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn con t\u00f4i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi: \u201cCon c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u01b0\u1eddng cho b\u1ea1n ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat kh\u00f4ng?\u201d. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean b\u00e9 ph\u1edbt l\u1edd v\u00e0 sau m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3i, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c b\u1ecf \u0111i. C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t tri\u1ec7u chi\u1ebfc xe kh\u00e1c c\u00f4 ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho con m\u00ecnh l\u00e1i, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfc g\u1ea7n gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi chi\u1ebfc xe c\u1ee7a con trai t\u00f4i, t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh y\u00eau c\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9 kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i chia s\u1ebb cho con m\u00ecnh?<\/p>\n

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B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng
\n<\/strong>
\nT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 trong hai t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean, b\u1edfi v\u00ec s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cho b\u00e9 c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 \u201c\u00c0, m\u00ecnh ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh th\u00edch n\u00f3\u201d. T\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 lu\u00f4n mong mu\u1ed1n cho con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u00e9 mu\u1ed1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u1ea1y b\u00e9 gi\u00e0nh gi\u1eadt th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p l\u00fd.
\n\u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e9 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 n\u1ea5y v\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0\u1eddng cho m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean hi\u1ec7n nay lu\u00f4n mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u0103ng l\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u0103ng c\u1ea5p ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec l\u00fd do \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u1edf c\u00f4ng ty m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y\u201d.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 li\u00ean h\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 chen l\u1ea5n, v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u01b0\u1edbc d\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng ch\u1edd thanh to\u00e1n \u1edf si\u00eau th\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 \u00fd l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c (nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i, k\u00ednh m\u00e1t\u2026) ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec h\u1ecd th\u00edch ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt kh\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean d\u1ea1y cho con m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh con \u0111\u1ec3 \u201cchi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u\u201d, \u201ctranh gi\u00e0nh\u201d m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 cho b\u00e9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta d\u1ea1y b\u00e9 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n th\u00f4ng qua l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9, si\u00eang n\u0103ng v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y m\u1edbi l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

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Tho\u1ea1t ti\u00ean th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y th\u1eadt \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3, nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec t\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i. \u2013 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9c gi\u1ea3 chia s\u1ebb. T\u00f4i cho con trai theo h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o t\u01b0 th\u1ee5c. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y c\u00e1c quy \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec1u do ph\u1ee5 huynh th\u1ea3o […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6197,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6196"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6196"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6196\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6198,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6196\/revisions\/6198"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6197"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6196"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6196"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6196"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}