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| \u2013 \u0110\u1ea0I C\u01af\u01a0NG<\/strong>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n
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N\u00eau l\u00ean v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00ec cho r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c (sex) l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho s\u1ef1 truy\u1ec1n gi\u1ed1ng, cho s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb, cho h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh v.v\u2026t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 hai m\u1eb7t: m\u1eb7t t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00eau \u1edf tr\u00ean nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n m\u1eb7t x\u1ea5u khi b\u1ecb l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ng\u00e0y nay, c\u00f3 n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? N\u00e0o l\u00e0 b\u00e1o ch\u00ed, phim \u1ea3nh, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1t qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 ngh\u1ec7 v\u1ec1 sex v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng tua du l\u1ecbch, nh\u1eefng h\u1ed9p \u0111\u00eam\u2026 khi\u1ebfn thanh ni\u00ean, thanh n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft y\u00eau s\u1edbm h\u01a1n th\u1eddi \u00f4ng cha ta. C\u00f3 c\u1ea7u th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u00f3 cung n\u00ean vi\u1ec7c d\u1eb9p b\u1ecf m\u1ea1i d\u00e2m nh\u01b0 \u201cb\u1eaft c\u00f3c b\u1ecf d\u0129a\u201d. L\u1ea1i c\u00f2n th\u00eam c\u00e1c b\u1ec7nh truy\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec5m lan tr\u00e0n, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh Sida.<\/p>\n

N\u00eau l\u00ean v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u00f4i khuy\u00ean c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft d\u1eebng \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng Dominique Strauss-kahn, Ch\u1ee7 t\u1ecbch Qu\u1ef9 ti\u1ec1n t\u1ec7 qu\u1ed1c t\u1ebf (IMF) b\u1ecb th\u00e2n b\u1ea1i, danh li\u1ec7t v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ch\u00ea c\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

II \u2013 B\u00c0N V\u1ec0 C\u00c1I D\u1ee4C C\u1ee6A NG\u01af\u1edcI \u0110\u00c0N \u00d4NG<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00e1i d\u1ee5c (libido) c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f2n ho\u00e0i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 ch\u1ea7u Di\u00eam V\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u201c\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 h\u1ebft ham mu\u1ed1n x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt khi hai \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ea3y n\u01b0\u1edbc ra\u201d. V\u1eady bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1ed1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u1edbi ch\u1ea3y n\u01b0\u1edbc? Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd, ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n? Tr\u1eeb khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh tr\u00e0n d\u1ecbch trong bao kh\u1edbp (hydarthrosis). Khi t\u00f4i n\u00eau v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y l\u00ean, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u00e0n th\u00eam v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. T\u00f4i th\u01b0a r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. D\u00f9 sao, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 do sinh l\u00fd c\u1ee7a hai gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c nhau n\u00ean ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u1eb7ng v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng n\u1eb7ng v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i r\u00f5 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec1 bu\u00f4n h\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u00e1n ph\u1ea5n ho\u1eb7c tr\u1eeb m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ec7 th\u00ec h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u00e1i n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 y\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n s\u1ef1 ham mu\u1ed1n x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt ho\u1eb7c mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh (ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi\":)\". Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 c\u00e1c thi\u1ebfu n\u1eef m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft y\u00eau c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt t\u00ecnh th\u00ec \u201c libido\u201dkh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u v\u00ec n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n cho s\u1ef1 truy\u1ec1n gi\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec s\u00fac v\u1eadt.<\/p>\n

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\n\u0110\u00f4i m\u1eaft s\u1eafc nh\u01b0 dao hay con m\u1eaft c\u00f2n c\u00f3 \u0111u\u00f4i, th\u1eadt l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 tho\u00e1t !<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u1eafc c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng th\u1ea5y ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean khi t\u00f4i \u0111em v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m n\u00e0y ra m\u1ed5 x\u1ebb. Xin th\u01b0a v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, ch\u00ednh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u00f4i \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng \u00edt.<\/p>\n

Trong b\u1ed1n c\u00e1i mu\u1ed1n \u1edf \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 danh v\u1ecdng, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, t\u00ecnh \u00e1i, \u0103n ng\u1ee7 th\u00ec theo t\u00f4i, t\u00ecnh \u00e1i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i kh\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t. L\u00e0 nam nhi, ai m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201c\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng ai m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng d\u00ea, c\u00e1 l\u00f3c \u0103n n\u1ed5i, c\u00e1 tr\u00ea \u0103n ch\u00ecm\u201d. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00f4ng v\u1ebb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i gi\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, t\u1eeb khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t t\u1edbi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cong, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi n\u1eeda k\u00edn n\u1eeda h\u1edf. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1eb9p th\u1eadt nh\u01b0ng t\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, \u0103n n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 duy\u00ean nh\u01b0 \u201choa c\u00f3 s\u1eafc m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ai th\u00e8m \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p trung b\u00ecnh th\u00f4i nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t \u00e1nh m\u1eaft, m\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, m\u1ed9t m\u00f9i h\u01b0\u01a1ng\u2026 m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u201cth\u1ea5t \u0111i\u00ean b\u00e1t \u0111\u1ea3o\u201d. Do \u0111\u00f3 Pascal m\u1edbi n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd l\u1ebd m\u00e0 l\u00fd tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d(L\u2019amour a des raisons que la raison ne connait pas).<\/p>\n

C\u0169ng v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u1ed9i c\u00e2y B\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ec1, Ma V\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ee3 th\u00e1i t\u1eed d\u00f2ng h\u1ecd Th\u00edch Ca th\u00e0nh Ph\u1eadt n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn d\u1ee5 d\u1ed7 Ng\u00e0i b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a ra chi\u00eau g\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0ng Ng\u00e0i v\u1eabn ch\u1eb3ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m. Th\u1eadt ra \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1ee3ng tr\u01b0ng cho m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c chi\u1ebfn n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m b\u00ean trong m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta. Chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn Ng\u00e0i th\u00e0nh th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n th\u1edd. Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u b\u1ea5t h\u1ee7: \u201cChi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng v\u1ea1n qu\u00e2n th\u00f9 ngo\u00e0i sa tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng oanh li\u1ec7t nh\u1ea5t\u201d.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, bi\u1ebft bao vua ch\u00faa, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb gia b\u1ecb g\u1ee5c ng\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc giai nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0 Tr\u1ee5 V\u01b0\u01a1ng, Ng\u00f4 Ph\u00f9 Sai, Bill Clinton, Dominique Strauss-kahn . . . k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y tu c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i: \u201cl\u1ea5y l\u1eeda th\u1eed v\u00e0ng, l\u1ea5y v\u00e0ng th\u1eed \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, l\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 th\u1eed \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng\u201d kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, bao nhi\u00eau t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed5 l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u1edf v\u00f9ng Trung \u0110\u00f4ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f2n n\u00f3i: \u201c\u1ede \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 qu\u1ef7\u201d. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia, khi nghe c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 hay, nh\u01b0ng sau n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i m\u1edbi th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea7m. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 v\u00ed \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 ngang v\u1edbi qu\u1ef7 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u00ec s\u1ef1 \u00edch k\u1ef7, nhu nh\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 h\u00e8n nh\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. \u201cQ\u1ee7y\u201d th\u1eadt ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u1edf trong l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a anh v\u1eefng th\u00ec d\u00f9 c\u00f3 b\u1ecb d\u1ee5 d\u1ed7 anh s\u1ebd v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed9ng. \u0110\u1eb1ng n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 \u00fd g\u00ec v\u1edbi anh, con qu\u1ef7 trong anh \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed5i l\u00ean r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee9 v\u00f4 t\u01b0 m\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed khi c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3m \u0111i v\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c hay v\u1edbi b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt th\u00ec l\u1ea1i d\u00f9ng m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 \u201ck\u00edch\u201d n\u00f3 l\u00ean, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee9 x\u1ea3 l\u00e1ng theo \u00fd th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng anh ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u00ec \u201cnh\u00e2n n\u00e0o th\u00ec qu\u1ea3 n\u1ea5y\u201d. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i ch\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u01a1ng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u1ed1 di\u1ec7t d\u1ee5c, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu h\u00e0nh ho\u1eb7c mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

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\n\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng kh\u00f3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi tay m\u1ef9 n\u1eef, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd c\u1ed1 \u00fd d\u1ee5 v\u00e0o l\u01b0\u1edbi t\u00ecnh.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\nN\u1eef di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Ph\u00e1p: BB (BRIGITTE BARDOT), l\u00fac tu\u1ed5i tr\u0103ng tr\u00f2n\u2026\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\n\u2026 v\u00e0 l\u00fac v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0. \u00d4i th\u1eddi oanh li\u1ec7t nay c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e2u!<\/strong><\/p>\n

III- C\u00c1CH TH\u1ee8C \u0110\u1ec2 L\u00c0M CH\u1ee6 C\u00c1I D\u1ee4C<\/strong><\/p>\n

Y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

A\/ B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n th\u1eafng c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec n\u00f3i l\u00ean l\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m cho giao \u0111\u1ed9ng. \u0110\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c, m\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 n\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n n\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00f2a n\u00f3. Trong b\u00e0i n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a \u0111a s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m b\u00e0n v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng l\u1ec7ch l\u1ea1c t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0: b\u1ea1o d\u00e2m (sadisme), kh\u1ed5 d\u00e2m (masochisme), \u00e1i nhi (p\u00e9dophilie)\u2026<\/p>\n

B\/B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00f3 g\u1eafng v\u00e0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec t\u1eadp luy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee9 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngay m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp v\u00e0 s\u1eeda m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c, ta ph\u1ea3i :<\/p>\n

1\/Thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn<\/p>\n

2\/H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp<\/p>\n

3\/Bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 khi \u201c\u0111\u1ee5ng tr\u1eadn\u201d.<\/p>\n

B1\/ THAY \u0110\u1ed4I C\u00c1CH NH\u00ccN<\/strong><\/p>\n

1\/ N\u00ean hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u00f2 m\u00f2, th\u1eafc m\u1eafc n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n s\u1ef1 ham mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch c\u1ed1 qu\u00ean \u0111i ho\u1eb7c ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi v\u00e0 khi n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i b\u00f9ng l\u00ean th\u00ec c\u00f2n m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc.Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, ta ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n t\u00f2 m\u00f2, th\u1eafc m\u1eafc n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u201cnghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp\u201d v\u00e0o sex, nh\u00e9t v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ee7 lo\u1ea1i phim \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ed3i tr\u1ee5y \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i b\u1ecb n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 v\u00e0o ham mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea5p h\u00e8n \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc. Tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra bao nhi\u00eau t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u1ec1 sex, t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng truy\u1ec7n l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c tr\u1ebb em trong gi\u1edbi tu s\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n lo\u1ea1n lu\u00e2n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n

Quanh \u0111i qu\u1ea9n l\u1ea1i c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 t\u1eebng \u1ea5y th\u1ee9, v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec nhau nh\u01b0ng ta l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 xem c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 \u1ea5y v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang c\u00f3 kh\u00e1c g\u00ec gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia hay kh\u00f4ng. Cu\u1ed9c s\u0103n \u0111u\u1ed5i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ta ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 ng\u00e0nh kinh doanh v\u1ec1 Sex m\u1edbi \u201cd\u1ee5 kh\u1ecb\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n.<\/p>\n

2\/ \u0110\u1eebng n\u00ean ch\u1ee7 quan, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi l\u1eeda.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh r\u01a1i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh d\u1ec5 kh\u1edfi l\u00ean s\u1ef1 ham mu\u1ed1n v\u00ec \u201cl\u1eeda g\u1ea7n r\u01a1m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ch\u00e1y\u201d:<\/p>\n

-\u0110\u1eebng n\u00ean s\u1ed1ng th\u1eed v\u1edbi nhau tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1ea5y nhau v\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i nh\u1ea5t trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam gi\u1edbi c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef l\u1ee1 mang b\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

-\u0110i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0o ch\u1ed7 \u0103n ch\u01a1i, tru\u1ef5 l\u1ea1c (qu\u00e1n bar, qu\u00e1n bia \u00f4m, c\u00e0ph\u00ea \u0111\u00e8n m\u1edd, Karaoke \u00f4m, ti\u1ec7m h\u1edbt t\u00f3c thanh n\u1eef, v\u0169 tr\u01b0\u1eddng\u2026)<\/p>\n

-\u1ede ri\u00eang v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eef, d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng tu\u1ed5i con ch\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c tu\u1ed5i ch\u1ecb m\u00ecnh hay tu\u1ed5i m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u1edf m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i h\u1ebbo l\u00e1nh ho\u1eb7c l\u00fac khuya kho\u1eaft. N\u1ebfu ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh b\u1ea5t kh\u1ea3 kh\u00e1ng th\u00ec ta ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef \u201cch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

3\/Ph\u00f2ng b\u1ec7nh h\u01a1n tr\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 c\u00e2u : \u201cph\u00f2ng b\u1ec7nh h\u01a1n tr\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh\u201d. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh tr\u00ean th\u00ec ta n\u00ean lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c con \u201cheo l\u00f2ng\u201d trong ta tr\u1ed5i d\u1eady khi\u1ebfn ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. B\u1ec7nh \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh tinh th\u1ea7n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Bi\u1ebft bao phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i, b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, \u0111au kh\u1ed5, h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn\u2026 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ta n\u1ebfu ta b\u1ecb \u201ck\u1eb9t\u201d: Uy t\u00edn b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, danh d\u1ef1 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t, gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ee5c, con c\u00e1i b\u01a1 v\u01a1, ta b\u1ecb khinh th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c. Ta nh\u1eafm c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 ta lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch th\u1eafng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

4\/Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 di\u1ec7t d\u1ee5c m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0 v\u00e0 ho\u00e1 n\u00f3<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c, c\u00f3 bu\u1ed9c ta ph\u1ea3i \u201cdi\u1ec7t\u201d d\u1ee5c kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

Theo t\u00f4i, ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 di\u1ec7t d\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ec sao v\u1eady? V\u00ec d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 do testosterone t\u1ea1o n\u00ean (sinh l\u00fd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m l\u00fd) v\u00e0 ta \u0111\u00e2u th\u1ec3 ti\u00eau h\u1ee7y h\u1ebft c\u00e1c c\u01a1 quan \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ea3n sinh ra n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 tinh ho\u00e0n, tuy\u1ebfn th\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1eadn . . . \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u201cho\u1ea1n quan\u201d hay sao? Ta c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o l\u1ecdc h\u1ebft hormone \u1ea5y ra kh\u1ecfi m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u1eady ta n\u00ean gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u00e2y gi\u1edd?<\/p>\n

Theo t\u00f4i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u201cho\u00e0\u201d sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u201cho\u00e1\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201cHo\u00e0\u201d c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 h\u00f2a ho\u00e3n. V\u00ec quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f2n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft n\u00ean m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9. Tu\u1ec7 T\u0129nh, \u00f4ng Th\u00e1nh thu\u1ed1c Nam \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh vi\u1ec7c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 sinh ho\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9.<\/p>\n

Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u01b0\u1ee1ng sinh c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f3m t\u1eaft b\u1eb1ng 14 ch\u1eef sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/p>\n

\u201cB\u1ebf tinh, D\u01b0\u1ee1ng kh\u00ed, T\u1ed3n th\u1ea7n,Thanh t\u00e2m, Thi\u1ec3u d\u1ee5c, Th\u1ee7 ch\u00e2n, Luy\u1ec7n h\u00ecnh\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u201cHo\u00e1\u201d l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c th\u00e0nh n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1ecb tha, cho l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb (compassion) \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi mu\u00f4n lo\u00e0i. Khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd gi\u1eefa 2 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng th\u00ec k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb gi\u1edd tr\u1edf \u0111i h\u1ecd s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nhau nh\u01b0 2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng cao \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5ng s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng lo\u1ea1i trong c\u00e1c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00ec l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch cao h\u01a1n:\u201c t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 gi\u00e1c tha\u201d ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ta gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9 xong th\u00ec gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9 nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

B2\/ LUY\u1ec6N T\u1eacP \u0110\u1ec2 L\u00c0M CH\u1ee6 C\u00c1I D\u1ee4C\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tham kh\u1ea3o v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 l\u00fd th\u00ec h\u00e3y th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb d\u00ednh m\u1eafc v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p khi \u201c\u0111\u1ee5ng tr\u1eadn\u201d.<\/p>\n

1\/ Th\u00e2n, kh\u1ea9u, \u00fd ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n trong s\u1ea1ch m\u00e0 trong \u0111\u00f3, \u00fd l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t v\u00ec s\u1ef1 suy ngh\u0129 (\u00fd) c\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn th\u00ec l\u1eddi n\u00f3i (kh\u1ea9u) m\u1edbi thanh tao v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng (th\u00e2n) m\u1edbi t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

2\/ Gi\u1eef ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m (v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n, v\u1ec1 th\u1ecd, v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m, v\u1ec1 ph\u00e1p) \u0111\u1ec3 lu\u00f4n t\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh. X\u01b0a kia, \u0111\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed l\u00e0 khi g\u1eb7p ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nh\u00ecn. C\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed h\u1ecfi: \u201cN\u1ebfu con ph\u1ea3i nh\u00ecn h\u1ecd th\u00ec sao?\u201d \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cth\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd\u201d. \u0110\u1ec7 t\u1eed b\u00e8n h\u1ecfi : \u201cn\u1ebfu con ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd th\u00ec sao?\u201d. \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cth\u00ec con ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m\u201d.<\/p>\n

3\/ Qu\u00e1n th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t t\u1ecbnh<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt hay gi\u00e0 y\u1ebfu v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddm, d\u00e3i, ph\u00e2n v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ec3u tho\u00e1t ra t\u1eeb c\u00e1c l\u1ed7 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, th\u1eed h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 th\u01a1m tho, s\u1ea1ch s\u1ebd n\u1eefa hay kh\u00f4ng? Ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111ang kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh m\u1edbi ng\u1ee7 d\u1eady, n\u1ebfu ch\u01b0a lau m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00f3a c\u00e1c c\u1ee5c gh\u00e8n, ch\u01b0a \u0111\u00e1nh r\u0103ng x\u00fac mi\u1ec7ng \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00f3a tan m\u00f9i h\u00f4i, ch\u01b0a t\u1eafm r\u1eeda, ch\u01b0a trang \u0111i\u1ec3m v.v\u2026 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n

4\/ Qu\u00e1n th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng,l\u00e0 t\u1ea1m b\u1ee3,l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft n\u1ebfu hoa h\u1eadu ho\u00e0n v\u0169 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee5p X Quang th\u00ec th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u00f4 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i s\u1ecd v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 x\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Khung x\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eafp b\u1edfi c\u00e1c t\u1ea1ng, m\u1ea1ch m\u00e1u, th\u1ea7n kinh, c\u00e1c b\u1eafp c\u01a1 . . . v\u00e0 ph\u1ee7 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i l\u00e0 l\u1edbp da, l\u00f4ng, t\u00f3c, m\u00f3ng. \u0110\u00e2u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 hoa h\u1eadu \u201c\u0111\u01a1n ch\u1ea5t\u201d nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0ng m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n t\u1ea1o n\u00ean. C\u00e1c th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y tan r\u00e3 v\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian theo \u0111\u1ecbnh lu\u1eadt: th\u00e0nh, tr\u1ee5, ho\u1ea1i, di\u1ec7t gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u00f4ng h\u1ed3ng, l\u00fac m\u1edbi l\u00e0 b\u00fap (giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u201cth\u00e0nh\u201d gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00f4 hoa h\u1eadu \u1edf tu\u1ed5i tr\u0103ng tr\u00f2n), sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u00f4ng h\u1ed3ng n\u1edf r\u1ed9 (giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u201ctr\u1ee5\u201d nh\u01b0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i), r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u00e1c c\u00e1nh h\u1ed3ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u0103n nh\u00fam, m\u00e0u s\u1eafc phai nh\u1ea1t (giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u201cho\u1ea1i\u201d nh\u01b0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y sau kho\u1ea3ng m\u01b0\u1eddi n\u0103m n\u1eefa v\u1edbi c\u00e1c n\u1ebfp nh\u0103n tr\u00ean tr\u00e1n, ch\u00e2n chim \u1edf \u0111u\u00f4i m\u1eaft, ng\u1ef1c x\u1ec7, m\u00f4ng nh\u00e3o . . .) v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 b\u00f4ng h\u1ed3ng t\u00e0n \u00faa, c\u1ee5p xu\u1ed1ng (giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u201cdi\u1ec7t\u201d l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00edch m\u00e0 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn). B\u1ea1n th\u1eed nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a Brigitte Bardot l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3ng phim \u201cEt Dieu a cr\u00e9\u00e9 la femme\u201d ho\u1eb7c Elizabeth Taylor khi \u0111\u00f3ng phim \u201cIvanhoe\u201d v\u1edbi h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c n\u1eef minh tinh m\u00e0n b\u1ea1c n\u00e0y l\u00fac gi\u00e0 th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi th\u1ea5m th\u00eda c\u00e1i l\u1ebd v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u0169ng v\u00f4 th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

5\/ Ngh\u0129 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/strong><\/p>\n

G\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t giai nh\u00e2n l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n ta, ta n\u00ean ngh\u0129 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ta, em ta, con g\u00e1i ta, ch\u00e1u ta. . . \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1edbt \u0111i s\u1ef1 luy\u1ebfn \u00e1i.<\/p>\n

6\/ Ni\u1ec7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 Ph\u1eadt, ni\u1ec7m sau l\u00e0 Ma<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, \u00fd ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn sau l\u00e0 sai. T\u1ea1i sao v\u1eady? Khi th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 hoa h\u1eadu m\u1eb7c \u00e1o d\u00e0i Vi\u1ec7t nam, ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh t\u1ea1i l\u00e0ng qu\u00ea, ta th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u201cni\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ta suy ngh\u0129 ti\u1ebfp, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u201cni\u1ec7m sau\u201d, nh\u01b0 ta t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra c\u00f4 \u1ea5y m\u1eb7c \u00e1o t\u1eafm 2 m\u1ea3nh \u201cbikini\u201d, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u1ecfa th\u00e2n, nh\u01b0 ta t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ta v\u00e0 \u0111i xa h\u01a1n n\u1eefa l\u00e0 ta chi\u1ebfm h\u1eefu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ni\u1ec7m t\u00e0, ni\u1ec7m Ma.<\/p>\n

7\/ Tr\u00e1nh \u1edf kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi ai<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00ean v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t m\u00f4n th\u1ec3 thao n\u00e0o v\u1eeba s\u1ee9c m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh th\u00edch, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec c\u0169ng n\u00ean ra s\u00e2n v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. Tr\u00e1nh l\u1ee7i th\u1ee7i trong nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec l\u00e0m v\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady d\u1ec5 n\u1ea9y sinh nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, nh\u1eefng t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nh\u1ee5c d\u1ee5c. Ng\u1ea1n ng\u1eef T\u00e2y ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: \u201cS\u1ef1 r\u1ea3nh r\u1ed7i l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ebb c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u1eadt x\u1ea5u\u201d (L\u2019oisivet\u00e9 est m\u00e8re de toutes les vices).<\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 tu\u1ed5i, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u00fac v\u1ec1 h\u01b0u, n\u00ean xem b\u00e1o, l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng theo d\u00f5i tin t\u1ee9c trong n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn Tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc, T\u00e2m linh, T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o tu\u1ef3 theo t\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh b\u1edbt b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh b\u1edfi nh\u1ee5c d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

8\/ Th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n b\u1eb1ng ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt thanh cao\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00ean nghe nh\u1ea1c nh\u1eb9, nh\u1ea1c c\u1ed5 \u0111i\u1ec3n, c\u00f3 l\u1eddi hay kh\u00f4ng l\u1eddi, v\u1ebd tranh thu\u1ef7 m\u1ea1c, ch\u1ee5p h\u00ecnh phong c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ea3 \u201cstress\u201d v\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1c phim \u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, kh\u00f4ng kinh d\u1ecb, kh\u00f4ng sex\u2026 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed.<\/p>\n

9\/ T\u1ea1o ho\u00e1 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i to\u1ea3 cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng d\u1ed3n n\u00e9n v\u1ec1 d\u1ee5c<\/strong><\/p>\n

Theo Y h\u1ecdc, m\u1eaft th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3nh d\u1ee5c, tai nghe l\u1eddi d\u1ee5c, \u00fd ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00ean n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 khi\u1ebfn tinh ho\u00e0n ti\u1ebft ra tinh tr\u00f9ng c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi ti\u1ec1n li\u1ec7t tuy\u1ebfn ti\u1ebft ra tinh d\u1ecbch. C\u00e1c ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00edch t\u1ee5 trong t\u00fai tinh, khi t\u00fai tinh c\u0103ng nhi\u1ec1u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng tinh tr\u00f9ng c\u00f9ng tinh d\u1ecbch.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9ng tinh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i to\u1ea3 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3nh y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng trong m\u1ed9ng c\u00f2n th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m (masturbation) c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 \u00fd. Tuy nhi\u00ean ph\u00e1i nam kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng th\u1ee7 d\u00e2m v\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m l\u00fd (nh\u01b0 m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i) \u1edf thanh ni\u00ean ho\u1eb7c sau n\u00e0y khi c\u00f3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng d\u1ec5 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n trong quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 xu\u1ea5t tinh s\u1edbm\u2026<\/p>\n

B3\/ C\u00c1CH \u0110\u1ed0I PH\u00d3 KHI \u0110\u1ee4NG TR\u1eacN.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean 2 m\u1ee5c tr\u00ean (B1) v\u00e0 (B2) \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen, n\u1ebfu g\u1eb7p ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p l\u00e0m ta \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00e2m, ta n\u00ean x\u1eed tr\u00ed nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n

1\/ Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 hoa h\u1eadu, di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean, ca s\u0129\u2026 ta bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0ng \u201ct\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng\u201d v\u00e0 ng\u01b0ng \u201csuy di\u1ec5n\u201d, ta h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7: \u201c\u00d4i, th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i, c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ed9 x\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eafp b\u1edfi th\u1ecbt, da\u2026H\u00e3y x\u1ea3 b\u1ecf h\u1ebft, ngh\u0129 l\u00e0m g\u00ec!\u201d<\/p>\n

2\/ Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u201cl\u00e0ng ch\u01a1i\u201d, ta t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7: \u201c\u00d4i, m\u1ed9t \u1ed5 nhi\u1ec5m tr\u00f9ng, \u0111\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u00e0 mang h\u1ecda: nh\u1eb9 th\u00ec b\u1ec7nh L\u1eadu v\u00e0 Giang mai, n\u1eb7ng th\u00ec Sida !\u201d<\/p>\n

3\/ Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd v\u00e0 \u0111oan trang, ta t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 : \u201c \u1ed2, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y nh\u01b0 em g\u00e1i ta, nh\u01b0 con ta ho\u1eb7c nh\u01b0 ch\u00e1u ta, ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y!\u201d<\/p>\n

4\/ Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 ta th\u1ea5y \u201cd\u1ec5 th\u01b0\u01a1ng\u201d m\u00e0 c\u00f4 ta c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng ta, n\u1ebfu ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 v\u1ee3 r\u1ed3i th\u00ec ta n\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i: \u201cKh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e8o b\u1ed3ng n\u1eefa v\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ta s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p th\u00eam r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, gia \u0111\u00ecnh tan v\u1ee1, uy t\u00edn b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t, s\u1ed1ng l\u00e9n l\u00fat v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i\u2026 C\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng ch\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1ea1i v\u00e0i gi\u1edd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac tho\u00e1ng qua, t\u1ea1m b\u1ee3\u201d.<\/p>\n

5\/ D\u00f9 g\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y, c\u0169ng n\u00ean nh\u1edb \u201cb\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1 ng\u00e0n v\u00e0ng\u201d, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0: \u201cPh\u00e0m tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3\u201d.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng l\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n x\u00e1c th\u1ecbt trong ch\u1ed1c l\u00e1t m\u00e0 ta \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i thanh danh, s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p, gia \u0111\u00ecnh\u2026<\/p>\n

IV-K\u1ebeT LU\u1eacN<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t mong c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p th\u00eam c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 ra hay l\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f9ng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Vi\u1ec7c \u1ee9ng d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 t\u00f9y t\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, t\u00f9y kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 t\u00f9y s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta. Tr\u01b0 b\u00e1t Gi\u1edbi \u1edf trong l\u00f2ng ta, con qu\u1ef7 \u1edf trong ta ch\u1ee9 ch\u1eb3ng ai kh\u00e1c. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh th\u00ec d\u00f9 c\u1ea3nh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00ec T\u00e2m ta v\u1eabn b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i xin m\u01b0\u1ee3n l\u1eddi c\u00f9a Alexandre Dumas fils khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c (\u201cL\u2019argent est un bon serviteur mais un mauvais maitre\u201d) \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u201clibido\u201d:<\/p>\n

\u201cLibido l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea7y t\u1edb t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7 x\u1ea5u\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft, t\u00f4i xin t\u1eb7ng c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i th\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb s\u01b0 \u1edf n\u00fai T\u00e0 L\u01a1n, Ch\u00e2u \u0110\u1ed1c, t\u1ef1a \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 D\u1ee4C T\u00ccNH:
\n\u201cD\u1ee5c t\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 c\u1ecf m\u1ecdc trong v\u01b0\u1eddn,
\nC\u00e0ng nh\u1ed5, n\u00f3 c\u00e0ng l\u1ea5p t\u1ee9 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng,
\nM\u1eaft th\u1ea5y sanh t\u00ecnh, t\u00ecnh n\u01b0\u1ee3p n\u01b0\u1ee3p,
\nTai nghe \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1ee5c, d\u1ee5c th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u01b0\u1eddng,
\nD\u1ee9t t\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1eaft r\u00e0o ngang c\u1eeda,
\nTuy\u1ec7t d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 tai l\u1ea5p b\u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng,
\nV\u1eabn bi\u1ebft v\u01b0\u1eddn n\u00e0o th\u00ec c\u1ecf n\u1ea5y,
\n\u0110\u1eebng ham v\u01b0\u1eddn n\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i lo l\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d.<\/p>\n

V-V\u00c0I L\u1edcI TR\u1ea6N T\u00ccNH<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u00e0i n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ea5ng m\u00e0y r\u00e2u c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c v\u00ec n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 l\u01b0\u1eddng (v\u00ec ngo\u00e0i chuy\u1ec7n ti\u1ec1n m\u1ea5t, t\u1eadt mang, danh d\u1ef1 b\u1ecb hoen \u1ed1, gia \u0111\u00ecnh tan v\u1ee1 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea9y ra t\u1ef1 t\u1eed do c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y qu\u00e1 nh\u1ee5c nh\u00e3) ch\u1ee9 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd b\u00e0i b\u00e1c c\u00e1i d\u1ee5c trong quan h\u1ec7 nam n\u1eef ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng. Ngo\u00e0i ra, Y h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c gi\u1eefa v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00ec ngo\u00e0i l\u00fd do h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00f2n c\u00f3 l\u00fd do \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3m \u201cstress\u201d.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef v\u00ec ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd c\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u00e0 t\u00f4i m\u1edbi c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y, ch\u00ednh nh\u1edd c\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u00e0 t\u00f4i m\u1edbi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi, c\u00f3 con r\u1ed3i c\u00f3 ch\u00e1u. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i l\u00e0 g\u01b0\u01a1ng hy sinh cao c\u1ea3 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i noi theo c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh c\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n! \u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng m\u1edbi c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t x\u00fac t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u1ea7u c\u00f3 danh v\u1ecdng, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5ng s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef. Nh\u01b0ng l\u1ebd d\u0129 nhi\u00ean, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u0169ng g\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng \u00edt r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfc thay, th\u1eddi bu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ef1 e th\u1eb9n, s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00f4 b\u00e0y da th\u1ecbt khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n theo.Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, h\u1ecd c\u00f2n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u201cb\u00e1n m\u00ecnh\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, danh v\u1ecdng\u2026 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t m\u00ecnh! H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu lao \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n an nh\u00e0n, d\u1ec5 d\u00e3i nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 sau n\u00e0y. S\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao l\u00e2u? Ngo\u00e0i ra, c\u00f2n s\u1ef1 ch\u00ea c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh, c\u00f2n b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 Sida.<\/p>\n

Theo t\u00f4i, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, ai c\u00f3 th\u00e2n th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i lo v\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay \u0111au kh\u1ed5 l\u00e0 do ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng do ai kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3! \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea9y ra r\u1ed3i th\u00ec d\u00f9 c\u00f3 h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed9n.<\/p>\n

BS NGUY\u1ec4N QU\u00dd KHO\u00c1NG
\n(\u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9nh s\u1eeda v\u00e0 b\u1ed5 sung
\nNg\u00e0y 26 th\u00e1ng 5 n\u0103m 2012)<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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