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T\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng sinh con ra, \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecd nghi\u00eam t\u00fac t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, hay b\u00e0n lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi nhau l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i nu\u00f4i con th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, d\u1ea1y con ra sao ch\u01b0a? Hay cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ebd th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecnh khi c\u1ee9 l\u1ea5y nhau r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebb con, \u201cs\u00f2n s\u00f2n\u201d nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c c\u1ee5 ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a v\u1eabn b\u1ea3o \u201c\u0110\u1ea5y, c\u00f3 d\u1ea1y g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u r\u1ed3i ch\u00fang n\u00f3 t\u1ef1 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ea5y th\u00f4i!\u201d X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng ti\u1ebfp thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u v\u0103n minh v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng \u201ctr\u1ebb con th\u1eddi nay th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n th\u1eddi x\u01b0a nhi\u1ec1u\u201d. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc b\u1edfi ch\u1eb3ng ai gi\u1ed1ng ai c\u1ea3 khi m\u1ed7i \u00f4ng b\u1ed1, b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201cs\u1edf h\u1eefu\u201d c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t gia t\u00e0i m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u201cc\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n\u201d \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7. X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 t\u00e0i, c\u00f3 t\u00e2m v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u1eafm ch\u1ee9.<\/span><\/h6>\n

T\u00f4i suy ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y Gi\u1ea3n T\u01b0 Trung khi b\u00e0n v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u2013 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u201cH\u1ecdc \u0111i \u0111\u1ec3 sau n\u00e0y l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d; nh\u01b0ng \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi\u201d l\u00e0 g\u00ec? C\u00f3 ai \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u00e1i \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng b\u1edfi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec th\u00ec m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i \u0111\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb khi m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u201ch\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh\u201d, t\u00f4i d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb \u201ch\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh\u201d c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 s\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t ra n\u00f3. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n h\u00ecnh dung v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t sinh linh nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 \u1ea5y c\u0169ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. T\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con ngay t\u1eeb khi trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t giai \u0111o\u1ea1n quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c, 0 \u2013 6 tu\u1ed5i, giai \u0111o\u1ea1n d\u1eady th\u00ec hay giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh\u2026 H\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y con, hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u1edf t\u1eebng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u1ee7a con c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u1ed1, l\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng. C\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng, cha m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, d\u1ea1y con t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc \u0103n, h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1eadp ch\u1eefng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u con nh\u1ea5t trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap con \u0111i t\u00ecm c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi con sau n\u00e0y. Con s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 con c\u00f3 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh sau n\u00e0y!\u201d<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 t\u1ea1o ra cho con c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee9 mong r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi con nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 ch\u1ebf c\u00f3 \u01b0u vi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft b\u1edfi l\u1ebd n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c \u2013 m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh r\u1ea5t ri\u00eang v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n.<\/a> B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3,\u00a0 theo quy \u0111\u1ecbnh hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 con g\u1eafn b\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0: 5 n\u0103m h\u1ecdc Ti\u1ec3u h\u1ecdc, 4 n\u0103m THCS, 3 n\u0103m THPT, 3 \u0111\u1ebfn 10 n\u0103m \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc ho\u1eb7c cao h\u01a1n. V\u1eady th\u00ec kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb l\u00fac nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u1ea5y \u201cs\u1ed1ng\u201d l\u00e2u nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u1eady m\u00e0, khi \u0111\u1ee9a con \u1ea5y tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7y s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t\u201d nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 tr\u00f4ng ch\u1edd v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 ngo\u00e0i kia s\u1ebd l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 cao c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 Nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng hay X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111ang ph\u00f3 m\u1eb7c qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u cho nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng hay m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, mong mu\u1ed1n r\u1eb1ng con s\u1ebd TH\u1ef0C S\u1ef0 THAY \u0110\u1ed4I trong m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2u bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng con s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i v\u1edbi c\u00e1ch gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, con \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec t\u1eeb b\u00e9 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i ra sao? Kinh nghi\u1ec7m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u00edt nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh than phi\u1ec1n r\u1eb1ng: con h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i g\u00ec sau m\u1ea5y ng\u00e0y h\u1ecdc k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, r\u1ed3i \u201c\u0111\u00e2u l\u1ea1i v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea5y\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng x\u00e9t cho c\u00f9ng th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p hay b\u00ed quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c con h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh? Thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0m sao khi \u1edf nh\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi con theo c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef? L\u00e0m sao con ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 trong h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp khi nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng, th\u1ea7y c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch kh\u01a1i g\u1ee3i v\u00e0 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa c\u1ee7a con theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c? Hay s\u1ebd th\u1eadt kh\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi con c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m? D\u1ecb bi\u1ec7t qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e2u h\u1eb3n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t! \u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u1eabn s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o khi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed7i h\u1ecdc vi\u00ean x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i v\u00e0 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c. V\u1eady th\u00ec con s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o khi tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ed3n to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 l\u00ean Nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng hay X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i khi con b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i h\u1ecdc hay b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi v\u1edbi m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn?<\/p>\n

Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i nghe chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 than th\u1edf v\u1ec1 con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0: \u201cH\u01b0 l\u1eafm. Ngh\u1ecbch nh\u01b0 qu\u1ef7. Ch\u1eb3ng ch\u1ecbu h\u1ecdc h\u00e0nh g\u00ec.\u201d L\u1ed7i n\u00e0y thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 ai? \u2013 V\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u00f3 g\u00e2y ra? V\u1ec1 Nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng? Hay v\u1ec1 X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? Ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u1edf con m\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh b\u1ecf \u0111i nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i d\u00f9 nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t, con ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 so v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh con c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m qua, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, con b\u1ecb \u0111em ra so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi \u201ccon nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m\u201d. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1eabn m\u00e3i thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha, l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con hay l\u00e0 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

C\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 lo l\u1eafng cho con \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn con nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 mong mu\u1ed1n con thay \u0111\u1ed5i, mu\u1ed1n con t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, mu\u1ed1n con ph\u1ea3i b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n, b\u1eb1ng b\u00e8 trong khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen ch\u01b0a h\u1eefu \u00edch l\u1eafm, th\u00edch l\u00e0 l\u00e0m v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i quy\u1ec1n \u201cl\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn\u201d \u0111\u1ec3 cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. S\u1ebd th\u1ebf n\u00e0o n\u1ebfu \u1edf nh\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 qu\u00e1t con v\u00e0o b\u00e0n l\u00e0m b\u00e0i t\u1eadp trong khi b\u1ed1 th\u00ec th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i xem ti vi, m\u1eb9 th\u00ec c\u00f2n \u0111ang m\u1ea3i bu\u00f4n d\u01b0a l\u00ea v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m? Ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef trong giao ti\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, th\u00f3i quen qu\u00e1t m\u1eafng con v\u00f4 c\u1edb m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ra cho ch\u00fang b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc hay c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c thay \u0111\u1ed5i sau m\u1ed7i l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao con ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?\u2026<\/p>\n

Ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u1edf c\u00e1c n\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng \u1edf m\u1ed7i qu\u1ed1c gia \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft l\u00fd r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng: H\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c t\u1ef1 do\u201d c\u1ee7a gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c M\u1ef9; tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i tin v\u00e0o tr\u1ebb trong gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c Ph\u1ea7n Lan v\u1edbi 3 ti\u00eau ch\u00ed: L\u00f2ng tin \u2013 B\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng \u2013 H\u1ee3p t\u00e1c; Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n v\u1edbi quan \u0111i\u1ec3m \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c\u201d l\u00e0 c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i; \u0111\u1ec1 cao s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng con c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 Anh; gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0110\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea9y cao t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t s\u1edbm c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ee3 gi\u00fap v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn; con ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u00e1p \u0111i\u1ec1m t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u0169ng do \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf khi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c lu\u00f4n d\u1ea1y con bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng; t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ebfn nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 Do Th\u00e1i c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ea3n sinh ra \u201cm\u1ed9t d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c th\u00f4ng minh nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi\u2026\u201d <\/strong>V\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng tri\u1ebft l\u00fd \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5m nhu\u1ea7n ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn g\u1ed1c suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc \u1ea5y. Gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 g\u00f3i g\u1ecdn trong ph\u1ea1m vi gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u, \u201cgi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d.<\/p>\n

C\u00f2n \u1edf Vi\u1ec7t Nam, ch\u00fang ta \u0111i theo c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c d\u1ea1y con n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 tin r\u1eb1ng, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u201cs\u1ea3n xu\u1ea5t\u201d ra m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng? B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi ch\u1edd x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, ch\u1edd h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n, hay tr\u00f4ng ch\u1edd v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 Nh\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd thay m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m cho con? C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c n\u00e0o ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 ti\u00ean ti\u1ebfn, hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ea5y \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa nh\u01b0ng trong c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ecdc gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho m\u00ecnh, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, cho nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea7n lu\u00f4n t\u00edch l\u0169y v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hay l\u00fd do b\u1eadn b\u1ecbu b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 l\u01a1 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi, h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i vi\u1ebft b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng mong ch\u1edd r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1edbn n\u00e0o trong gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c, m\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 trong m\u1ed9t s\u1edbm m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u khi mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn nh\u1ecf trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i; m\u00e0 v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb h\u01a1n l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh cho m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3, \u0111ang v\u00e0 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra khi \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n. H\u00e3y tr\u1ed3ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i c\u00e2y xanh t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 khi m\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m nh\u1ecf b\u00e9, gieo cho con m\u1ed9t \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 \u0111\u1ec3 con t\u1ef1 l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1edbi d\u00e1m mong ch\u1edd m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u1edf \u0111\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201cc\u00f3 gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n\u201d b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c sinh th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1ee1ng d\u1ee5c con.<\/p>\n

B\u00f9i Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng Linh<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/article>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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