{"id":65,"date":"2010-12-29T06:36:00","date_gmt":"2010-12-29T06:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=65"},"modified":"2012-06-16T22:03:36","modified_gmt":"2012-06-16T15:03:36","slug":"duc-phat-day-con-nhu-the-nao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=65","title":{"rendered":"\u0110\u1ee8C PH\u1eacT D\u1ea0Y CON NH\u01af TH\u1ebe N\u00c0O?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ng\u00e0y nay, h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed n\u00e0o c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng Th\u00e1i t\u1eed T\u1ea5t \u0110\u1ea1t \u0110a, t\u1ee9c \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt sau n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00eca b\u1ecf gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u00ecm con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i ng\u00e0y La H\u1ea7u La \u2014 \u0111\u1ee9a con trai [duy nh\u1ea5t] c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i \u2014 ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 h\u1ecd cho l\u00e0 \u201cthi\u1ebfu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m\u201d nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Song, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 sau khi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 ch\u00ednh cho con trai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi ni\u00ean thi\u1ebfu, k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi La H\u1ea7u La l\u00ean 7 tu\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi: La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9 \u1edf tu\u1ed5i m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh [20]. V\u1eady, ta h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p d\u1ea1y con c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i ra sao? L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1ed9t b\u1eadc gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9 trao truy\u1ec1n nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho con c\u00e1i?<\/p>\n

Kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 cha-con gi\u1eefa \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt v\u00e0 La H\u1ea7u La, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0i m\u1ea9u chuy\u1ec7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft con m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. C\u00e1c b\u1ed9 kinh tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn nh\u1eefng m\u1ea9u chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y n\u1eb1m trong 3 b\u00e0i ph\u00e1p m\u00e0, n\u1ebfu ta gom ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau, n\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9: l\u00fac La H\u1ea7u La 7 tu\u1ed5i, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y cho con v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c; l\u00fac La H\u1ea7u La 10 tu\u1ed5i, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y cho con thi\u1ec1n; v\u00e0 l\u00fac 20 tu\u1ed5i, Ng\u00e0i d\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t. Qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a La H\u1ea7u La, v\u00ec v\u1eady, ti\u1ebfn tri\u1ec3n song song v\u1edbi ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt.<\/div>\n
Khi con trai c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i tr\u00f2n 7 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u suy t\u01b0 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft n\u00f3 v\u00e0 em trai c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00e2m linh. \u00cdt nh\u1ea5t, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fang n\u00f3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh Ph\u1eadt ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 sau n\u00e0y l\u1edbn l\u00ean ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ti\u1ec1m l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang th\u00edch hay c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a n\u01a1i Ph\u1eadt ph\u00e1p, th\u00ec sau n\u00e0y, d\u00f9 \u0111ang \u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2u, ch\u00fang c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quay v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi c\u00e1i m\u00e1i \u1ea5m \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0, v\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, gia t\u00e0i l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp Ph\u1eadt ph\u00e1p l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 an l\u1ea1c, th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i, v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb bi, t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao truy\u1ec1n c\u00e1i gia t\u00e0i t\u00e2m linh \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i cho th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 sau. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft La H\u1ea7u La b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 t\u1eeb n\u0103m 7 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i l\u1ee5c t\u00ecm trong nh\u1eefng b\u1ea3n kinh ti\u1ebfng Pali \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p m\u00e0 \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 con c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i.\n<\/div>\n
\"\"<\/a> T\u00f4i t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y trong c\u00e1c b\u1ea3n kinh n\u00e0y c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t di s\u1ea3n t\u00e2m linh th\u1eadt \u0111\u1eb9p. S\u00e1u n\u0103m sau khi \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt r\u1eddi b\u1ecf gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u0103m sau khi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 kinh th\u00e0nh. La H\u1ea7u La, l\u00fac \u1ea5y 7 tu\u1ed5i, theo l\u1eddi m\u1eb9, ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean cha \u0111\u1ec3 xin th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng gia t\u00e0i. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a Th\u00e1i t\u1eed T\u1ea5t \u0110\u1ea1t \u0110a kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf kinh th\u00e0nh ra \u0111i, th\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c truy\u1ec1n ng\u00f4i vua. Nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi kh\u1ed5 h\u1ea1nh, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao l\u1ea1i cho con m\u00ecnh c\u00e1i g\u00ec? \u0110\u00e1p l\u1eddi La H\u1ea7u La, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt quay sang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi Ng\u00e0i X\u00e1 L\u1ee3i Ph\u1ea5t (Sariputta), m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ec7 th\u00e2n t\u00edn c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt: \u201cH\u00e3y th\u00e2u nh\u1eadn n\u00f3.\u201d [Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady], thay v\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4i vua, La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i c\u1ee7a cha m\u00ecnh \u2014 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t.
\nC\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u00f2n l\u00e2u l\u1eafm con trai t\u00f4i m\u1edbi c\u1ea1o tr\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 kho\u00e1c l\u00ean m\u00ecnh chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o c\u00e0 sa, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n cho con t\u00f4i ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u0103n b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a Ph\u1eadt ph\u00e1p, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i. Khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng \u0111o\u1ea1n kinh v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y La H\u1ea7u La, t\u00f4i ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n m\u1edbi m\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y con \u1edf n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 n\u00e0y, trong th\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i n\u00e0y. Th\u1eadt v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i ph\u00e1p n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kim ch\u1ec9 nam cho t\u00f4i trong vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y con.\n<\/div>\n
\u0110\u1ea0O \u0110\u1ee8C
\nC\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c (integrity) nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. L\u00fac l\u00ean 8 tu\u1ed5i, La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i. B\u00e0i Kinh Gi\u00e1o Gi\u1edbi La H\u1ea7u La (Trung B\u1ed9 Kinh, 61) k\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng sau khi t\u1ecda thi\u1ec1n xong, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00ecm La H\u1ea7u La. Sau khi m\u1eddi cha ng\u1ed3i, La H\u1ea7u La l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t thau n\u01b0\u1edbc cho cha r\u1eeda ch\u00e2n, theo phong t\u1ee5c h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3. Sau khi r\u1eeda ch\u00e2n xong, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt h\u1ecfi: \u201cN\u00e0y, La H\u1ea7u La, con c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y ch\u00fat n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i trong c\u00e1i thau n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/div>\n
\u201cD\u1ea1, con c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y\u201d \u2013 La H\u1ea7u La th\u01b0a.<\/div>\n
\u201c\u0110\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00e1ng b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat n\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00e0y th\u00f4i, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i.\u201d\n<\/div>\n
T\u00f4i t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u1ecf m\u1eb7t l\u00ean.\n<\/div>\n
Sau \u0111\u00f3, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt h\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed5 h\u1ebft n\u01b0\u1edbc trong thau ra v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1ea5t b\u1ecf \u0111i nh\u01b0 v\u1ea7y n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i.\u201d<\/div>\n
Xong, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt l\u1eadt c\u00e1i thau \u00fap xu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1ea3o l\u1ed9n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i.\u201d<\/div>\n
V\u00e0, \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh th\u00eam n\u1eefa, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt l\u1eadt ng\u1eeda c\u00e1i thau tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu c\u0169ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i thau n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i.\u201d<\/div>\n
Sau \u0111\u00f3 Ng\u00e0i d\u1ea1y con: \u201c\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i x\u1ea5u xa n\u00e0o m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. V\u00ec v\u1eady, La H\u1ea7u La, con h\u00e3y t\u1eadp \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f9a.\u201d<\/div>\n
C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi la m\u1eafng gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c ra ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u1ed9i l\u1ef1c. \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, ch\u1ecdn th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y con m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t hay n\u1ed5i gi\u1eadn v\u1edbi con.<\/div>\n
Sau b\u00e0i thuy\u1ebft gi\u1ea3ng ng\u1eafn m\u00e0 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eafng nghe cha h\u01a1n. Sau \u0111\u00f3, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn con l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 suy x\u00e9t m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.\u201cC\u00e1i g\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec?\u201d \u2013 Ng\u00e0i h\u1ecfi.<\/div>\n
\u201cB\u1ea1ch \u0110\u1ee9c Th\u1ebf T\u00f4n, g\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 soi\u201d \u2013 La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u00e1p.<\/div>\n
\u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt l\u1ea1i d\u1ea1y : \u201cTrong khi chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u chi b\u1eb1ng th\u00e2n, kh\u1ea9u, \u00fd, con ph\u1ea3i qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu: h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i cho ta ho\u1eb7c cho k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu, sau khi \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu, con th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i, th\u00ec con h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu con th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u00edch l\u1ee3i cho con v\u00e0 cho k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec con h\u00e3y l\u00e0m.\u201d<\/div>\n
T\u00f4i ch\u1ee3t nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng thay v\u00ec d\u1ea1y cho con m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0sai, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y cho con m\u00ecnh suy g\u1eabm v\u1ec1 l\u1ee3i \u00edch v\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tri (self-awareness) l\u1eabn s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m (empathy). \u0110\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean \u201cc\u00f3 l\u1ee3i\u201d hay \u201cc\u00f3 h\u1ea1i\u201d gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ta kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ni\u1ec7m ch\u1eb3ng \u0103n nh\u1eadp g\u00ec t\u1edbi h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ta l\u00e0m. \u201cC\u00f3 l\u1ee3i\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cc\u00f3 h\u1ea1i\u201d c\u0169ng gi\u00fap cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ta l\u00e0m ho\u1eb7c s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed1i ngh\u1ecbch ho\u1eb7c s\u1ebd thu\u1eadn chi\u1ec1u v\u1edbi con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ta \u0111ang \u0111i.<\/div>\n
Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p gi\u00e1o ho\u00e1 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt khi\u1ebfn cho t\u00f4i c\u00e0ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00eam r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n gieo xu\u1ed1ng n\u01a1i t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n con tr\u1ebb nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u01a1ng, nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1t gi\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed7i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. S\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb bi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft v\u00e2ng theo l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn: \u201cCon h\u00e3y bi\u1ebft qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu, v\u00e0 h\u00e3y c\u00f3 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb bi!\u201d Nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c qua g\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb.<\/div>\n
\u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt c\u0169ng d\u1ea1y cho La H\u1ea7u La h\u00e3y xem x\u00e9t sau khi l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3, th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn con tr\u1ebb ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00f2ng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 l\u00f2ng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5y l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh ra sao. C\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb: n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 cho con tr\u1ebb th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap cho con m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t con, th\u00ec con tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang h\u01a1n.\n<\/div>\n
THI\u1ec0N \u0110\u1ecaNH
\nC\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ee9 hai n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y thi\u1ec1n cho La H\u1ea7u La ra sao, \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m (Trung B\u1ed9 Kinh, 62). L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 10 tu\u1ed5i. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u trong l\u00fac hai cha con \u0111ang \u0111i thi\u1ec1n h\u00e0nh. Trong l\u00fac \u0111i, La H\u1ea7u Ha ch\u1ee3t th\u1ea5y h\u00e3nh di\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3 \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/div>\n
Ng\u00e0i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi con: \u201cNh\u00ecn b\u1eb1ng con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c, c\u00e1i th\u00e2n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i (me), kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i (mine), kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i (myself).\u201d R\u1ed3i \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt gi\u1ea3ng ti\u1ebfp: ta ph\u1ea3i lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u01b0\u1edfng, h\u00e0nh, th\u1ee9c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 t\u00f4i, c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y n\u00e0y xong, La H\u1ea7u La c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed5 th\u1eb9n, lui v\u1ec1 thi\u1ec1n vi\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0103n u\u1ed1ng g\u00ec c\u1ea3 su\u1ed1t ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3.<\/div>\n
T\u00f4i cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n cho con tr\u1ebb. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t em thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. T\u00f4i nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i, r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, r\u1eb1ng \u1edf v\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 to\u00e0n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn dung m\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ra sao. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng nghe n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng cho ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em v\u1ec1 \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d, v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 n\u00ean tr\u00e1ch m\u1ed9t em trai 14 tu\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng ph\u00f9 du nh\u01b0 v\u1eady hay kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 xen v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eb1m trong ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a con tr\u1ebb, thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c em th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1edbi nhau? N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d, l\u00e0m sao m\u1ed9t thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd?<\/div>\n
\u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y qua nh\u1eefng g\u00ec Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho con c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i.\n<\/div>\n
T\u1ed1i h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3, sau khi b\u1ecb \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt qu\u1edf tr\u00e1ch, La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u1ebfn xin cha d\u1ea1y cho m\u00ecnh ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p thi\u1ec1n qu\u00e1n h\u01a1i th\u1edf. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt d\u00f9ng th\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 minh ho\u1ea1 l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 thanh th\u1ea3n trong l\u00fac ng\u1ed3i thi\u1ec1n. Ng\u00e0i d\u1ea1y:\n<\/div>\n
\u201cCon ph\u1ea3i thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0m sao gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ea5t v\u1eady: \u0111\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y phi\u1ec1n v\u00ec b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed5 l\u00ean \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu con t\u1eadp thi\u1ec1n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ea5t, con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c vui th\u00edch hay kh\u00f4ng vui th\u00edch v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. H\u00e3y t\u1eadp thi\u1ec1n nh\u01b0 n\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u01b0 l\u1eeda, nh\u01b0 gi\u00f3, v\u00e0 nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng gian: t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y phi\u1ec1n b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c vui th\u00edch hay kh\u00f4ng vui th\u00edch. Th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 n\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u01b0 l\u1eeda, nh\u01b0 gi\u00f3, nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng gian, t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a con s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n v\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1eadn g\u00ec c\u1ea3.\u201d\n<\/div>\n
R\u1ed3i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi d\u1ea1y cho La H\u1ea7u La ph\u00e9p th\u1edf, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y cho con v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1n t\u00e2m t\u1eeb nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng thu\u1ed1c gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed9c tr\u1eeb kh\u1eed \u00e1c t\u00e2m, v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m bi \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t th\u1eafng s\u1ef1 t\u00e0n \u00e1c, v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m h\u1ef7 \u0111\u1ec3 thu\u1ea7n ph\u1ee5c nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t to\u1ea1i nguy\u1ec7n, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m x\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t an, th\u01b0\u01a1ng gh\u00e9t.\n<\/div>\n
Sau \u0111\u00f3, Ng\u00e0i m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u1ea1y cho con ph\u00e9p th\u1edf qua 16 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng giai \u0111o\u1ea1n n\u00e0y chia th\u00e0nh 3 ph\u1ea7n: a) t\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m; b) \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft th\u00e2n t\u00e2m v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c; v\u00e0 c) bu\u00f4ng x\u1ea3. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, Ng\u00e0i nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp \u00fd th\u1ee9c t\u1eebng h\u01a1i th\u1edf c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n h\u01a1i th\u1edf cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u1eeb gi\u00e3 c\u00f5i \u0111\u1eddi.\n<\/div>\n
Khi \u0111\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y con v\u1ec1 ph\u00e9p th\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft th\u00e2n t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc v\u1ec1 \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d. T\u00f4i t\u1ef1 ngh\u0129, ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng c\u00e1c em thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i ng\u00e0y nay hay ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o \u201cc\u00e1i t\u00f4i\u201d c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ni\u1ec7m ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, l\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u00e1c em kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? V\u00e0 t\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng, c\u00e1i ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u1eefa n\u1ebfu c\u00e1c em c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an vui \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi chung quanh.\n<\/div>\n
Khi gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y thi\u1ec1n cho thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thi\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c em nh\u1ea3y b\u1ef1c v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3ng 13-14 tu\u1ed5i. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadp thi\u1ec1n r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u, tuy r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c em kh\u00f4ng duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i n\u00e0y l\u00e2u l\u1eafm. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb d\u00f9ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng th\u1eed th\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tu\u1ed5i m\u1edbi l\u1edbn.\n<\/div>\n
Tuy nhi\u00ean, thi\u1ec1n qu\u00e1n h\u01a1i th\u1edf kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u00edch l\u1ee3i cho c\u00e1c em thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean, m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u00e0i gi\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u1ec9 cho La H\u1ea7u La th\u1ea5y gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadp thi\u1ec1n qu\u00e1n h\u01a1i th\u1edf nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh.\n<\/div>\n
TU\u1ec6 GI\u00c1C
\nTrong \u0111o\u1ea1n kinh th\u1ee9 ba v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn La H\u1ea7u La tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t (Trung B\u1ed9 Kinh , 147). La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e2ng tr\u1ecdn th\u1eddi ni\u00ean thi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9; trong m\u1ed9t \u0111o\u1ea1n v\u0103n, Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 tu g\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1eabu v\u00e0 tinh chuy\u00ean. Khi La H\u1ea7u La tr\u00f2n 20 tu\u1ed5i, \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng con trai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t. Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c r\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9ng: Ng\u00e0i \u0111i b\u1ed9 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi con v\u00e0o s\u00e2u trong r\u1eebng. Ng\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1edbi g\u1ed1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e2y \u0111\u1ea1i th\u1ee5 gi\u00e0 c\u1ed7i, Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn La H\u1ea7u La m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c ph\u00e1p \u0111\u00e0m r\u1ea5t k\u1ef9 v\u1ec1 thuy\u1ebft v\u00f4 ng\u00e3. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 tu t\u1eadp cao nh\u01b0 La H\u1ea7u La, nh\u1eefng t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u1eb1m s\u00e2u trong ti\u1ec1m th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 l\u00e0 ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t. Ng\u1ed3i nghe \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt gi\u1ea3ng, La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 t\u00ednh v\u00f4 ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a v\u1ea1n ph\u00e1p, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng gi\u00fap La H\u1ea7u La \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n.\n<\/div>\n
Thuy\u1ebft v\u00f4 ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tri\u1ebft thuy\u1ebft tr\u1eebu t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c ra \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi d\u1ea1y r\u1ea5t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf h\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, vi\u1ec7c \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y con v\u1ec1 thuy\u1ebft v\u00f4 ng\u00e3 trong r\u1eebng s\u00e2u r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn kh\u00e1c khi \u1edf gi\u1eefa thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean so v\u1edbi khi \u1edf gi\u1eefa ph\u1ed1 th\u1ecb. T\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an l\u1ea1c v\u00e0 th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i m\u00e0 thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean mang l\u1ea1i gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 tho\u00e1t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i \u201cng\u00e3\u201d h\u01a1n. Qu\u00e1n chi\u1ebfu v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 bu\u00f4ng x\u1ea3 trong khi \u0111\u1ecdc mu\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 Ph\u1eadt ph\u00e1p khi ng\u1ed3i \u1edf trong nh\u00e0 r\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi khi m\u00ecnh ng\u1ed3i d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t g\u1ed1c c\u00e2y. Trong khi \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e0i ph\u00e1p th\u1ee9 ba n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i chi\u00eam nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh (t\u1ef1 tri) gi\u1eefa khung c\u1ea3nh thi\u00ean nhi\u00ean.\n<\/div>\n
Ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a, l\u00fac La H\u1ea7u La 7 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u1ebfn xin v\u1edbi cha \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng gia t\u00e0i, Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 13 n\u0103m sau \u0111\u00f3, Ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t gia t\u00e0i qu\u00fd b\u00e1u nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho con c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Trong Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o, gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9 l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u1edbn lao nh\u1ea5t. T\u00f4i \u01b0\u1edbc mong con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 an l\u1ea1c, th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i, v\u00e0 an l\u00e0nh tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i t\u1edbi gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd, tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, ch\u00fang c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, thi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ecbnh, v\u00e0 tu\u1ec7 gi\u00e1c [nh\u01b0 La H\u1ea7u La v\u1eady].Gil Fronsdal<\/p>\n
(\u201cThe Buddha as a Parent\u201d, T\u1ea1p ch\u00ed Inquiring Mind, s\u1ed1 Xu\u00e2n 2008, Ho\u00e0i H\u01b0\u01a1ng chuy\u1ec3n ng\u1eef)
\nhttp:\/\/www.ue-global.com\/showthread.php?p=12306
\nTi\u1ebfn s\u0129 Gil Fronsdal \u0111ang gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y Thi\u1ec1n t\u1ea1i Insight Meditation Center \u1edf Redwood City, California, USA. \u00d4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ee3 v\u00e0 hai con.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ng\u00e0y nay, h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Ph\u1eadt t\u1eed n\u00e0o c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng Th\u00e1i t\u1eed T\u1ea5t \u0110\u1ea1t \u0110a, t\u1ee9c \u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt sau n\u00e0y, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00eca b\u1ecf gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u00ecm con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i ng\u00e0y La H\u1ea7u La \u2014 \u0111\u1ee9a con trai [duy nh\u1ea5t] c\u1ee7a Ng\u00e0i \u2014 ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=65"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":156,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65\/revisions\/156"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=65"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=65"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=65"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}