{"id":6988,"date":"2016-01-02T17:02:33","date_gmt":"2016-01-02T10:02:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=6988"},"modified":"2016-01-02T17:02:33","modified_gmt":"2016-01-02T10:02:33","slug":"cuoi-nam-di-bac-si-tri-benh-do-thua","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=6988","title":{"rendered":"CU\u1ed0I N\u0102M \u0110I B\u00c1C S\u0128… TR\u1eca B\u1ec6NH \u0110\u1ed6 TH\u1eeaA!"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"1\"<\/a>C\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta, khi g\u1eb7p chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n, th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean nh\u1ea5t, l\u00e0 ki\u1ebfm c\u1edb \u0111\u1ed5 t\u1ed9i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, cho ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh!<\/div>\n
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\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u1ea9u truy\u1ec7n ng\u1eafn x\u1ea3y ra cho m\u1ed9t b\u00e0 n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3, c\u00f3 b\u1ec7nh hay \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba:<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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B\u00e0 ta \u0111ang \u0111\u1ee9ng trong nh\u00e0 b\u1ebfp, m\u1eb7c chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o h\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea1t, v\u00e0 c\u00e1i qu\u1ea7n tr\u1eafng t\u01b0\u01a1m t\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n. Trong tay b\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e1ch c\u00e0 ph\u00ea \u0111\u1ea7y, v\u1eeba m\u1edbi pha xong, c\u00f2n n\u00f3ng h\u1ed5i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 t\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 hai c\u1ee7a b\u00e0.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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B\u1ed7ng d\u01b0ng, b\u00e0 h\u1ee5t tay l\u00e0m r\u01a1i c\u00e1i ly c\u00e0 ph\u00ea xu\u1ed1ng s\u00e0n nh\u00e0 b\u1ebfp, m\u1ea3nh v\u1ee1 v\u0103ng t\u1ee9 tung, v\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e0 ph\u00ea \u0111en \u0111\u1eadm tung t\u00f3e l\u00ean b\u1ed9 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n. V\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ph\u00e1t ra t\u1eeb mi\u1ec7ng b\u00e0 l\u00e0: \u201c\u0110\u00fang l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i th\u1eb1ng ch\u1ed3ng m\u1eafc d\u1ecbch!\u201d<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed xem c\u00e1ch b\u00e0 ta gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a anh ch\u1ed3ng khi\u1ebfn b\u00e0 ta l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed5 ly c\u00e0 ph\u00ea v\u00e0 l\u00e0m l\u1ea5m lem b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n, m\u00e0 b\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u00edch:<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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\u00d4ng ch\u1ed3ng b\u00e0 th\u00edch ch\u01a1i tennis v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u00f4ng ta \u0111i ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00e1nh tennis v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 b\u00e0 ta c\u00f3 d\u1eb7n ch\u1ed3ng nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 s\u1edbm, kho\u1ea3ng 10 gi\u1edd t\u1ed1i, v\u00ec b\u00e0 ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111i ng\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u1ed3ng b\u00e0 v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. \u00d4ng ch\u1ed3ng, v\u00ec l\u00fd do n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ebfn 11 gi\u1edd t\u1ed1i m\u1edbi v\u1ec1 t\u1edbi nh\u00e0. Do \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u0111i ng\u1ee7 tr\u1ec5 m\u1ea5t 1 ti\u1ebfng. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u00e0 b\u00e0 c\u1ea7n t\u00e1ch c\u00e0 ph\u00ea th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ec9nh ng\u1ee7. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 m\u00e0 \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng b\u00e0 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd (10 gi\u1edd) th\u00ec b\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 u\u1ed1ng t\u00e1ch c\u00e0 ph\u00ea th\u1ee9 hai, n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed5 t\u00e1ch c\u00e0 ph\u00ea, l\u00e0m l\u1ea5m lem b\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1eb9p!<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Trong l\u00fac b\u00e0 \u0111ang lau d\u1ecdn nh\u00e0 b\u1ebfp v\u00ec t\u00e1ch c\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed5 th\u00ec \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i v\u1ec1, h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng: \u201c\u1ede nh\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb ch\u1ee9 h\u1ea3, b\u00e0 x\u00e3?\u201d B\u00e0 ta li\u1ec1n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \u201cT\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i cho \u00f4ng nghe chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec v\u1eeba x\u1ea3y ra!\u201d V\u00e0 b\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u k\u1ec3 l\u1ec3 v\u1edbi c\u00e1i gi\u1ecdng r\u1ea5t h\u1eadm h\u1ef1c, h\u1eddn gi\u1eadn. B\u00e0 m\u1edbi n\u00f3i t\u1edbi c\u00e2u t\u00e1ch c\u00e0 ph\u00ea b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed5 th\u00ec \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng c\u00fap m\u00e1y \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i v\u00ec \u00f4ng ta bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh g\u00ec? Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba cho th\u1eddi ti\u1ebft, cho ch\u00ednh ph\u1ee7, cho cha m\u1eb9, hay cho c\u00e1i m\u00e1y vi t\u00ednh m\u1eafc d\u1ecbch, hay tr\u1edf ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh! \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e3 bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady khi c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea5u x\u1ea3y ra; v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i t\u1ea1i ai \u0111\u00e2y (ch\u1edb kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1i t\u00f4i!)?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n c\u00f3 b\u00e0i h\u00e1t \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba cho tr\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea5t: \u201cKh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1i anh, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1i em. T\u1ea1i Tr\u1eddi xui khi\u1ebfn n\u00ean ch\u00fang m\u00ecnh chia tay\u2026\u201d N\u00f3i cho vui v\u1eady th\u00f4i ch\u1edb c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba n\u00e0y \u0111ang c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u00e0n lan trong gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3 gi\u1edbi gi\u00e0 v\u00ec d\u1ec5 qu\u00e1!<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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C\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea1i cho ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ph\u1ee7i tay, v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m! \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y v\u1ec1 b\u1ec7nh hay \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba: \u0110\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi, hay cho c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn trong l\u00f2ng. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi tinh th\u1ea7n tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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C\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, hay d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, khi m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ecb \u0111au kh\u1ed5 do tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ch\u01b0a tr\u00f2n, hay l\u00e0m sai qu\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. M\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o d\u1ec5 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m cho m\u00ecnh.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o c\u00f3 t\u1eadt hay \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00edt c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ki\u00ean tr\u00ec b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9, v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho vi\u1ec7c ch\u00ednh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m, b\u1edfi v\u00ec m\u00ecnh c\u1ee9 lo ph\u00ed s\u1ee9c v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c s\u00e2n gi\u1eadn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho h\u1ecd; v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u00edt khi nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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B\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m b\u1ecb b\u00e0o m\u00f2n v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1edfi v\u00ec khi c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian l\u1eafng nghe h\u1ebft c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n m\u00e0 lo t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e0ng nhanh c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0m m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m sai.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Khi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho ai \u0111\u00f3, m\u00ecnh \u0111ang che d\u1ea5u s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Ph\u1eadt th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac, s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u1ed5 th\u1eeba l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, gi\u1edbi th\u1ee9 t\u01b0. M\u00ecnh s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb li\u00ean l\u1ee5y, hay s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb g\u00e1nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, hay v\u00ec s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 n\u00ean m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. C\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 mang \u0111\u1ebfn tai h\u1ecda cho m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 sau v\u00ec m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m do m\u00ecnh g\u00e2y ra.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Thay v\u00ec r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m cho l\u1ea7n sau, ch\u00fang ta lo \u0111\u1ed5 h\u1ebft c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 tr\u00fat h\u1ebft l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. N\u00ean chi, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0103n n\u0103n, h\u1ed1i qu\u00e1 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u sai ph\u1ea1m do ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh g\u00e2y ra th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao m\u00e0 tu t\u1eadp, s\u1eeda sai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c!<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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\u0110\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt c\u00f3 d\u1ea1y r\u1eb1ng: tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 2 h\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. M\u1ed9t l\u00e0 h\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i. C\u00f2n h\u1ea1ng th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0, h\u1ea1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh l\u1ea7m l\u1ed7i m\u00e0 lo \u0103n n\u0103n, s\u00e1m h\u1ed1i, tr\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng t\u00e1i ph\u1ea1m.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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B\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. V\u00ec s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb ch\u00ea c\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean m\u00ecnh c\u1ee9 lu\u00f4n vi\u1ec7n c\u1edb \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. T\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i h\u01a1n n\u1eefa, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1y l\u00f2ng, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i do ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh g\u00e2y ra! Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1, b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i l\u1eabn nhau. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia; ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. C\u00e1i tr\u00f2 \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho nhau l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb b\u1eaft qu\u1ea3 tang, \u0111ang l\u00e0m sai. Phong c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng \u2018t\u1ed1t khoe, x\u1ea5u che\u2019 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen nguy h\u1ea1i, th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i d\u1edf, c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Kinh Ph\u00e1p c\u00fa, ph\u1ea9m C\u1ea5u U\u1ebf:<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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D\u1ec5 thay th\u1ea5y l\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi,<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
L\u1ed7i m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y m\u1edbi kh\u00f3.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
L\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta phanh t\u00ecm,<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
Nh\u01b0 s\u00e0ng tr\u1ea5u trong g\u1ea1o.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
C\u00f2n l\u1ed7i m\u00ecnh, che \u0111\u1eady,<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
Nh\u01b0 k\u1ebb gian d\u1ea5u b\u00e0i.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Ngo\u00e0i ra, \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0a m\u00ecnh l\u00ean v\u00e0 h\u1ea1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c xu\u1ed1ng. Khi m\u00ecnh nhanh ch\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba cho ai v\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u00e0m c\u1ea9u th\u1ea3, b\u1eeba b\u00e3i m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t tho\u00e1ng h\u1ea3 h\u00ea v\u00ec m\u00ecnh \u2018ngon l\u00e0nh\u2019 h\u01a1n h\u1ecd. Ho\u1eb7c d\u0129 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 l\u00e0m sai th\u00ec c\u0169ng t\u1ea1i h\u1ecd m\u00e0 ra n\u00f4ng n\u1ed7i n\u00e0y. N\u00f3i chung, ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay c\u00f3 c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba, ngay trong t\u00e2m \u00fd, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1y t\u1ed9i.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 l\u00fac m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u2018n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n\u2019 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. S\u1edf d\u0129 c\u00f3 c\u1edb s\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1ea7y v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ecd gh\u00e9t b\u1ecf m\u00ecnh. Cho n\u00ean, m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n sai tr\u00e1i x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 do ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh g\u00e0i b\u1eaby cho m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m sai!<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Cho n\u00ean Ph\u1eadt d\u1ea1y ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i \u00fd th\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, phi\u1ec1n n\u00e3o do m\u00ecnh g\u00e2y ra qua nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i thi\u1ebfu ch\u00e1nh ni\u1ec7m t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i quay tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c t\u1eadp, h\u1ecdc th\u1ea5y l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n h\u00f3a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba n\u00e0y ph\u00e1t ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng thi\u1ebfu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu \u00fd th\u1ee9c m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, hay trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh s\u1ed1ng.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc s\u1ed1ng ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, d\u1eb9p b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng d\u1ed1i gian, l\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3o, \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec t\u1ef1 \u00e1i, v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n khoe khoang, hay v\u00ec b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fd do g\u00ec! Ch\u00fang ta \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng hay \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng mang l\u1ea1i an l\u1ea1c, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac g\u00ec cho m\u00ecnh; ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n \u00e2u lo, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Cho n\u00ean Ph\u1eadt c\u00f2n d\u1ea1y th\u00eam b\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 v\u1ea5n l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3i:<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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T\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
L\u1eddi n\u00f3i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi, \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ra hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
L\u1eddi n\u00f3i n\u00e0y mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i l\u1ea1c hay tai h\u1ea1i?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i ra l\u00fac n\u00e0y l\u00e0 v\u00ec l\u1ee3i \u00edch cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, hay v\u00ec gi\u1eadn h\u1eddn; n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt; n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ra; hay n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111em l\u1ea1i \u0111au kh\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 an l\u1ea1c, v\u1eady t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean n\u00f3i, \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba. Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u1eady th\u00f4i! Trong nhi\u1ec1u kinh t\u1ea1ng, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee9c Ph\u1eadt th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch, hay kh\u00f4ng vui cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi h\u1ecd l\u1eadp l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ebfn 3 l\u1ea7n.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Trong Kinh Ph\u00e1p C\u00fa, ph\u1ea9m Song Y\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u0111o\u1ea1n vi\u1ebft:<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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\u00dd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e1c ph\u00e1p<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
\u00dd ch\u1ee7 tr\u00ec, t\u1ea1o t\u00e1c<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
N\u1ebfu ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
V\u1edbi t\u00e2m \u00fd nhi\u1ec5m \u00e1c<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
Kh\u1ed5 theo t\u1ef1a b\u00e1nh xe<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
\u0110i sau d\u1ea5u ch\u00e2n b\u00f2.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba, suy cho c\u00f9ng, ch\u1eb3ng mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i l\u1ea1c g\u00ec cho m\u00ecnh c\u1ea3; ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n mang \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u1ed5 \u0111au, tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n tu th\u00e2n m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1ed5 th\u1eeba cho c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, c\u00e1i kia, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ecd th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd tu h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec!<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
Ngu\u1ed3n: Thi\u1ec7n \u00dd \u2013 V\u01b0\u1eddn hoa Ph\u1eadt gi\u00e1o\u200b<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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