{"id":7096,"date":"2016-03-27T21:16:07","date_gmt":"2016-03-27T14:16:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=7096"},"modified":"2016-03-27T21:17:44","modified_gmt":"2016-03-27T14:17:44","slug":"the-nao-moi-dung-la-nguoi-tot-the-nao-moi-thuc-su-la-lam-viec-thien-the-nao-moi-co-duoc-phuc-bao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=7096","title":{"rendered":"Th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1edbi \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t? Th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ec7n? Th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00fac b\u00e1o?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/14.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/14-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"1\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-7097\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/14-300x199.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/14.jpg 549w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>T\u1eeb x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nay, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, v\u00ec sao l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00fac b\u00e1o? M\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ec7n, \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng sao l\u1ea1i g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n xui x\u1ebbo? Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 qu\u00e1 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng khi ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng n\u00ean ng\u1eabm ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ba c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi sau: \u201cTh\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1edbi \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t? Th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ec7n? Th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00fac b\u00e1o?\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>H\u00e3y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00ean l\u00e0m<\/strong><br \/>\nNg\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi, h\u00e3y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh n\u00ean l\u00e0m, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m. H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch thu\u1eadn theo t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf ch\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t (d\u00ednh m\u1eafc, v\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1eadn, b\u1eadn t\u00e2m\u2026)<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf ch\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u01a1m c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0103n, ng\u1ee7 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan ni\u1ec7m r\u1eb1ng bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m, m\u1eb7c cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u00f4i qua\u2026 \u0110\u00e2y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf m\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n<p>Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o n\u00ean l\u00e0m th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u1ea5t. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0, khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111i b\u00ean kia \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1ee3t ch\u00e2n ng\u00e3, l\u00fac n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a tay ra cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb v\u1ecbn \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf qua, coi nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1edbi l\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m m\u1edbi l\u00e0 m\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Cha m\u1eb9 \u1ed1m n\u1eb7ng, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf m\u00e0 l\u00e0 tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m?<\/strong><br \/>\nTr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i c\u0103n c\u1ee9 v\u00e0o quy chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng b\u1ea5t an. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an b\u00e0i r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i g\u1eafng s\u1ee9c l\u00e0m th\u00ec s\u1ebd ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ee9c l\u1ef1c m\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n<p>Ph\u1ea3i t\u0129nh t\u00e2m xu\u1ed1ng suy ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau vi\u1ec7c n\u00ean l\u00e0m l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a, c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fat \u00fd ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1ec9 khi ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn r\u00f5, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c n\u00ean l\u00e0m, ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m, vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. Ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00f4 vi, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c thu\u1eadn theo t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/p>\n<p><strong>L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u1ea5t<\/strong><br \/>\nB\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec ph\u00e1t sinh \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. B\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u, l\u1ea1i quay ra ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn.<\/p>\n<p>K\u1ef3 th\u1ef1c, t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ban \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n kh\u00e1ch quan n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn cho vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh, v\u00ec th\u1ebf ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng, ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u00e0 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. Khi ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta truy c\u1ea7u, l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh th\u00ec l\u1ea1i sinh ra lo l\u1eafng t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, t\u00e2m t\u00ecnh ti\u00eau t\u00e1n. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta khi \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00f9ng hai t\u1eeb \u201c\u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh\u201d l\u00e0m ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n. N\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 v\u00ec c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh t\u1ed1t, n\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u00ednh t\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 t\u00edch \u0111\u1ee9c, l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea5u l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ee9c, \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Nh\u01b0ng m\u00e0, n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ea5p nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0o l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t, m\u00e0 khi l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh th\u00ec sinh ra b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i, nh\u1ea5c l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecf xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00e2y v\u1eabn l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00edch \u0111\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u1eady l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh?<\/strong><br \/>\nTr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh, x\u00e9t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, xem c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang \u1edf c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a \u201ct\u1ed1t\u201d hay kh\u00f4ng? Xem xem li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 t\u01b0 t\u00e2m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn hay kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng b\u0103n kho\u0103n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 thanh danh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh hay kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00ec ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 t\u0129nh.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00fac n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta d\u1ef1a theo \u00fd nguy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111i l\u00e0m th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c. C\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ednh to\u00e1n. L\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c sau khi tr\u1ea3i qua s\u1ef1 t\u00ednh to\u00e1n r\u1ed3i th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t, hy v\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m \u01a1n th\u00ec c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c m\u1ea5t \u0111i m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda. L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 d\u01b0\u01a1ng d\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eafc, khoe khoang \u0111\u1eafc ch\u00ed th\u00ec c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9c ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh. M\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. T\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u1edbi l\u00e0 c\u1ea3nh gi\u1edbi cao nh\u1ea5t khi l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n<p>Theo Daikynguyenvn<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u1eeb x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nay, trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n r\u1eb1ng: \u201cM\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t, v\u00ec sao l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00fac b\u00e1o? M\u00ecnh c\u0169ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ec7n, \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng sao l\u1ea1i g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n xui x\u1ebbo? Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 qu\u00e1 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng!\u201d [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7097,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7096"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7096"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7096\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7099,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7096\/revisions\/7099"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7097"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7096"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7096"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7096"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}