{"id":936,"date":"2012-07-17T17:42:53","date_gmt":"2012-07-17T10:42:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=936"},"modified":"2012-07-17T17:42:53","modified_gmt":"2012-07-17T10:42:53","slug":"khi-con-nguoi-ta-so-su-that","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/?p=936","title":{"rendered":"KHI CON NG\u01af\u1edcI TA S\u1ee2 S\u1ef0 TH\u1eacT"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>S\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, s\u1ee3 ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn, \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt s\u1ebd l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1eafn nh\u1ea5t d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ef1 hu\u1ef7 ho\u1ea1i. G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, trong nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t sinh ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 h\u01a1n s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, gian d\u1ed1i \u0111ang ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. Nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i th\u00ec g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen h\u00e0nh x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c v\u1edbi n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u00a0“NGU\u1ef4 THI\u1ec6N”?<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 khi bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 c\u00e1i \u0111ang di\u1ec5n tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 \u01b0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i s\u1ee3 “v\u1ea1ch \u00e1o cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi xem l\u01b0ng”, s\u1ee3 “x\u1ea5u ch\u00e0ng h\u1ed5 ai”, n\u00ean s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, b\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng dai v\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u1edbng.<\/p>\n

Gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i lu\u00f4n song h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u00e8n y\u1ebfu, thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin n\u01a1i nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t khi th\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch b\u01b0ng b\u00edt v\u00e0 ng\u0103n che s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. Bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 l\u00e0 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng vai l\u00e0m “nh\u00e0 t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n” nh\u01b0ng b\u00ean trong th\u00ec ra s\u1ee9c ti\u00eau th\u1ee5 h\u00e0ng qu\u00e1 \u0111\u00e1t, h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 thu l\u1ee3i b\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee9ng gian cho nhau, ho\u1eb7c ng\u1eadm mi\u1ec7ng cho qua m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u to\u00e0n, h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i… V\u00ec th\u1ebf gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i lu\u00f4n song h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi t\u00e2m l\u00fd x\u1ea5u che, t\u1ed1t khoe v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. Trong c\u00e1c quan h\u1ec7 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed, m\u1ed9t khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta thi\u1ebfu l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i ph\u00e1t t\u00e1c v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

C\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t th\u00eam gi\u1eefa n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i v\u00e0 gian d\u1ed1i. N\u00f3i d\u1ed1i ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i mi\u1ec7ng, nh\u01b0ng gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i v\u00e0 gian d\u1ed1i th\u00ec v\u01b0\u1ee3t xa s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i mi\u1ec7ng. V\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ngay trong h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129 g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i th\u00ec d\u1ec5, l\u00e0m th\u00ec kh\u00f3. N\u00f3i d\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 n\u00f3i sai s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, qu\u00e1 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 n\u00f3i hoa m\u1ef9, khoa tr\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u00eau d\u1ec7t, n\u00f3i v\u00f4 b\u1eb1ng. \u0110\u1eb1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc n\u00f3i ph\u1ea3i sau l\u01b0ng n\u00f3i tr\u00e1i, n\u00f3i \u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9c g\u00e2y th\u00f9 h\u1eadn, \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1… N\u00f3i d\u1ed1i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m d\u1ed1i c\u00f3 t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i \u1edf nh\u1eefng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu c\u1ea3 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m d\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ecb \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n th\u00ec c\u1ee5\u00f4c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t sinh nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t \u1ed5n.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c th\u00edch nghe khen, nghe n\u1ecbnh, nghe t\u00e2ng b\u1ed1c c\u0169ng \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ebfp tay cho s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i. Gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t ni\u1ec1m tin trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, m\u1ed9t khi ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee9 m\u1edf mi\u1ec7ng ra l\u00e0 rao gi\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec lu\u00f4n \u0111i v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. H\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t khi c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c b\u1ecb b\u1ea5t t\u00edn. N\u00f3i nh\u01b0 d\u00e2n gian: “Tr\u0103m n\u0103m t\u00edch \u0111\u1ee9c tu h\u00e0nh, m\u1ed9t nh\u1eddi th\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ee9c c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed5 \u0111i”…<\/p>\n

Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd quy ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 t\u1ea9y chay c\u1ea3 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh “t\u00edch \u0111\u1ee9c” l\u00e2u d\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00e0nh t\u00edch qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 “\u0111\u1ee1” n\u1ed5i cho c\u00e1i hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i tr\u1ea7n tr\u1ee5i, nhi\u1ec1u khuy\u1ebft t\u1eadt n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu ai d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i, th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ph\u1ee5c d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p cho c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu d\u00f9ng quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c \u0111\u1ec3 bao che t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, th\u00ec s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra cho \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng \u1ee9ng x\u1eed m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 lo ng\u1ea1i h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh, r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u01a1i b\u00e0y m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ec3 cho s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i ngang nhi\u00ean c\u00f4ng ph\u00e1 v\u00e0o th\u00e0nh tr\u00ec ni\u1ec1m tin con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Khi c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i x\u1ea3y ra s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin \u1edf di\u1ec7n r\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhau th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng ph\u00e2n tuy\u1ebfn v\u00e0 c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 cho c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp “y\u00eau n\u00ean t\u1ed1t gh\u00e9t n\u00ean x\u1ea5u” c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Do \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi nhau s\u1ebd b\u1ecb s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh ki\u1ebfn ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n.<\/p>\n

R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn “y\u00eau n\u00ean t\u1ed1t gh\u00e9t n\u00ean x\u1ea5u” c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1ecbch s\u1eed trong vi\u1ec7c “\u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a” con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n hay \u00e1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa hay kh\u00f4ng. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m kh\u00f4ng th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a Nho gia v\u00e0 Ph\u00e1p gia trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed cai tr\u1ecb m\u00e0 Vi\u1ec7t Nam t\u1eebng ch\u1ecbu \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n

Ph\u00e1p gia ngh\u0129 ra m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u lu\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 t\u0103ng t\u1ed1i \u0111a c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 cai tr\u1ecb c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho v\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ec1n, trong khi Nho gia th\u00ec gia gi\u1ea3m v\u00e0 b\u1ed5 sung nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1c ph\u00e9p t\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f3 tin nh\u01b0 “m\u1ec7nh tr\u1eddi”. C\u0169ng v\u00ec \u0111\u1ed5 h\u1ebft cho m\u1ec7nh tr\u1eddi, n\u00ean l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u00edt \u0111i \u0111\u00f4i v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u1eef “trung” \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00ean m\u1ee9c cao nh\u1ea5t (trung th\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 nh\u1ecb qu\u00e2n), th\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7c quy\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a gi\u1edbi qu\u00fd t\u1ed9c g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m d\u1eebng, trong khi d\u00e2n ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 kh\u1eafc ch\u1ebf. H\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn n\u0103m d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c ta ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 “m\u1ec7nh tr\u1eddi”, m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng “ngu\u1ef5 thi\u1ec7n” trong cai tr\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

S\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng, n\u00f3i th\u1eadt trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u1ee9ng x\u1eed x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i thi\u00ean v\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng duy c\u1ea3m ki\u1ec3u “y\u00eau n\u00ean t\u1ed1t gh\u00e9t n\u00ean x\u1ea5u”. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c thi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea9y v\u00e0o g\u00f3c khu\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

C\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eadt, c\u00e1i \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c cai tr\u1ecb trong \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng chung v\u1edbi n\u00f3. “Ngu\u1ef5 thi\u1ec7n” l\u00e0 l\u1ea5y c\u00e1i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3 l\u00e0m n\u1ec1n cho \u1ee9ng x\u1eed, khi\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u00edch nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi t\u00e2ng b\u1ed1c v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt.<\/p>\n

\u00a0GI\u1ea2 D\u1ed0I- \u00dd TH\u1ee8C B\u1eca C\u00c1I \u00c1C CH\u1ebe NG\u1ef0 HO\u00c0N TO\u00c0N<\/strong>
\n\"\"<\/a>Theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i cho ai, n\u00ean n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i d\u00f9 \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00e0o v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn “qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o” m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t ni\u1ec1m tin. N\u00f3i d\u1ed1i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 n\u1eb7ng nh\u1eb9 kh\u00e1c nhau, nh\u01b0ng gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i th\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hu\u1ea5n t\u1eadp v\u00e0o trong t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u00fac l\u1ea5n l\u01b0\u1edbt v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, c\u00f4ng l\u00fd.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i. Gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i c\u00f3 c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 cao h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, v\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb c\u00e1i \u00e1c ch\u1ebf ng\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n.<\/p>\n

Trong v\u1ebf t\u00e2m l\u00fd “gh\u00e9t n\u00ean x\u1ea5u”, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n nghe \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u0169ng coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 vui s\u01b0\u1edbng, \u0103n m\u1eebng. Ngay c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 ni\u1ec1m vui. \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f2n tranh lu\u1eadn: “T\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4i, c\u00f2n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ai ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi”.<\/p>\n

Theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt, m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1eabn d\u1eaft b\u1edfi \u00fd th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nghi\u1ec7p m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, d\u00f9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia ch\u01b0a gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec t\u1ed9i gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh l\u1eadp, v\u00ec \u00fd th\u1ee9c trung t\u00e2m \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb c\u00e1i \u00e1c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. \u0110\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u00e1c, gi\u00e1o tha t\u00e1c, ki\u1ebfn t\u00e1c tu\u1ef3 h\u1ef7 (t\u1ef1 tay m\u00ecnh gi\u1ebft, b\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1ebft, th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1ebft m\u00e0 vui theo).<\/p>\n

D\u00f9 \u1edf t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee9u v\u1ea1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu q\u1ee7a b\u00e1o gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00f9 l\u1ea5p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ed1 s\u00e1t. V\u00ec gi\u1ebft c\u00e1i \u00e1c trong m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 gi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t v\u1ebf c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u00f2n \u0111ang t\u00e2m gi\u1ebft c\u1ea3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 gi\u1ebft lu\u00f4n c\u00e1i thi\u1ec7n, kh\u00f4ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Khi \u00fd th\u1ee9c th\u00f9 ngh\u1ecbch ph\u00e2n tuy\u1ebfn v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn trong \u1ee9ng x\u1eed x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u00ec s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c \u00edt khoan dung v\u00e0 ho\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i. M\u1ed9t khi l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb bi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh th\u00ec c\u00e0ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, c\u00e0ng cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. Ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i ch\u00ednh ng\u0103n che s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0nh vi g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n h\u1ea1i, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec1m th\u00f9, \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

Trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 nh\u00e2n ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 nhau. V\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i “ngu\u1ef5 thi\u1ec7n” l\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng t\u1ef1 cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 “ch\u00e2n l\u00fd”. Ngay c\u1ea3 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c nh\u1ea5t, m\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebft ch\u00f3c, th\u00f9 h\u1eadn do xung \u0111\u1ed9t t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 gi\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n

Ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1c m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t h\u00e0nh vi, duy tr\u00ec tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean “ngu\u1ef5 thi\u1ec7n” khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1o ra n\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh vi \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3, thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng s\u1ef1 soi chi\u1ebfu n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m v\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u00fd th\u1ee9c. Song nh\u1eefng b\u1ea5t \u1ed5n x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan r\u1ed9ng l\u1edbn, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 t\u00e2m th\u1ee9c kh\u01a1i m\u00e0o cho nh\u1eefng nghi k\u1ef5, th\u00f9 h\u1eadn, kh\u1eafc s\u00e2u v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea9y nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i h\u1ecda tham s\u00e2n si l\u1edbn h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 tranh gi\u00e0nh \u00edch l\u1ee3i v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng, \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u00e1i t\u1ef1 ng\u00e3 nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

T\u00cdNH GI\u1ea2 D\u1ed0I V\u00c0 C\u0102N B\u1ec6NH S\u1ee2 S\u1ef0 TH\u1eacT<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed, Ph\u00e1p gia v\u00e0 Nho gia ra s\u1ee9c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 v\u01b0\u01a1ng quy\u1ec1n b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi quy \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 quy chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n

B\u1edfi “\u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c ngu\u1ef5 thi\u1ec7n” v\u00e0 “ph\u00e1p quy\u1ec1n m\u00e1nh kho\u00e9” \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1eb7t l\u1ee3i h\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng bao nhi\u00eau th\u1ebf k\u1ef7 nay n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eebng \u1edf m\u1ee9c kh\u1eafc ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 th\u00fac \u01b0\u1edbc nhau, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tri\u1ec7t ti\u00eau nhau. V\u00e0 khi l\u1ee3i \u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00e0n x\u1ebfp, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch x\u00edch l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n nhau.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Vi\u1ec7t m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf l\u00e0 th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 v\u1ed3 v\u1eadp, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i c\u00e1i g\u00ec cho \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ed1n. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u00edt l\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng \u00edt ti\u1ebfp n\u1ed1i v\u00e0 th\u1eeba k\u1ebf nh\u1eefng tinh hoa c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. N\u00f3i chung l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan to\u00e0n di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 lu\u00f4n t\u1ecf ra s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i khi ph\u1ea3i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m. V\u00ec th\u1ebf d\u00f9 ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt c\u00f3 quy \u0111\u1ecbnh chi ti\u1ebft th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ef1 tin \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft d\u1ee9t \u0111i\u1ec3m, t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1eebng kh\u1eebng, l\u01b0ng ch\u1eebng, n\u1eeda v\u1eddi, nh\u00ecn tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u00f3 sau \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o to\u00e0n cho m\u00ecnh. Quy ho\u1ea1ch chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf ta y\u1ebfu c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh v\u00ec t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0103n x\u1ed5i \u1edf th\u00ec, thi\u1ebfu b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh t\u1ef1 tin n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan t\u00e2m h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng: “Nghe n\u00f3i anh b\u1ecb ung th\u01b0 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng?”. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: “Kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ec7nh g\u00ec c\u1ea3”. M\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn sau ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia th\u1ea5y anh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh qua \u0111\u1eddi v\u00ec b\u1ec7nh ung th\u01b0, b\u00e8n ch\u1eb7c l\u01b0\u1ee1i: “R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng anh ta ch\u1ebft v\u00ec ung th\u01b0 m\u00e0 c\u1ee9 b\u1ea3o m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ec7nh g\u00ec?”. Vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn n\u01a1i r\u1ed3i m\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 b\u1ec7nh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh g\u00ec, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt.<\/p>\n

S\u1ee2 S\u1ef0 TH\u1eacT, S\u1ee2 PH\u1ea2I TI\u1ebeP C\u1eacN, \u0110\u1ed0I M\u1eb6T V\u1edaI S\u1ef0 TH\u1eacT S\u1ebc L\u00c0 CON \u0110\u01af\u1edcNG NG\u1eaeN NH\u1ea4T D\u1eaaN \u0110\u1ebeN T\u1ef0 HU\u1ef6 HO\u1ea0I<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i b\u00e1o, nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o H\u1eefu Th\u1ecd c\u00f3 n\u00f3i: “Mu\u1ed1n nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u1eadt l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4ng phu l\u1eafm, ph\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m l\u1eafm. H\u00e3y r\u1eeda tai \u0111\u1ec3 nghe l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u1eadt v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u1eadt n\u00e0o m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ecb chua ch\u00e1t. \u0110\u1ec3 b\u1ec7nh n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i tr\u00e0n lan ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe”.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt n\u00e0o th\u1eadt h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u \u1ea5y? \u0110\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i Gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Ho\u00e0ng Tu\u1ef5 ph\u1ea3i th\u1ed1t l\u00ean: “S\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i \u0111ang l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i nh\u1ee5c l\u1edbn”. Nh\u01b0ng ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i \u0111\u1ea7u trong nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c “bi\u1ebft nh\u1ee5c” \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ee5c, th\u00ec c\u00f2n tu\u1ef3 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1i th\u00f3i quen \u1ee9ng x\u1eed “y\u00eau n\u00ean t\u1ed1t, gh\u00e9t n\u00ean x\u1ea5u” c\u0169ng kh\u01a1i m\u00e0o cho vi\u1ec7c dung d\u01b0\u1ee1ng s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, \u0111\u00e1nh tr\u00e1o kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u00e0 l\u00e0m sai l\u1ec7ch nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c. Khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ni\u1ec1m tin \u1edf nhau, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u1edf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c ph\u00eda gh\u00e9t y\u00eau \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n gi\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n th\u1eafng v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p c\u1ea3 “l\u1eddi n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i”, b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p vi\u1ec7c b\u1ebb ch\u1eef, b\u1ebb ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y b\u1ea5t l\u1ee3i cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111ang d\u1ea1y nhau d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u, v\u00ec c\u00f2n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1eef vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ea7m c\u00e2n n\u1ea3y m\u1ef1c \u01b0a n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, l\u00e0m d\u1ed1i, n\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng d\u00f9ng ch\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ecd. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, nh\u1ebd ra ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng, n\u00f3i ngay, n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe th\u1eb3ng, nghe ngay, nghe \u0111\u00fang s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt…, th\u00ec v\u00ec \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn “truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng”, “ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a”, “t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o”, ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, vi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o ho\u1ea1t c\u1ea3nh d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1…<\/p>\n

Khi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 \u1ea5y g\u1eb7p nhau, \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ecdi nhau th\u00ec l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e0ng ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a. M\u1ed9t khi c\u00e1i s\u1ef1 gian d\u1ed1i b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea9y v\u00e0o g\u00f3c khu\u1ea5t, \u0111\u1ea9y v\u00e0o b\u00ed m\u1eadt qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u th\u00ec s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t t\u00edn. Theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1o Ph\u1eadt, n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o, v\u00e0 qu\u1ea3 b\u00e1o nh\u00e3n ti\u1ec1n l\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 khi n\u00f3i th\u1eadt nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ai tin.<\/p>\n

Truy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 d\u00e2n gian c\u00f3 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1eeba ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vui th\u00edch, \u0111\u00e3 h\u00f4 ch\u00e1y nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee9u. Nh\u01b0ng khi tr\u00f2 \u0111\u00f3 t\u00e1i di\u1ec5n v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n tin v\u00e0o n\u00f3 n\u1eefa. Cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi nh\u00e0 n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra ho\u1ea3 ho\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 h\u00f4 kh\u1ea3n c\u1ea3 c\u1ed5 nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ai th\u00e8m \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee9u.<\/p>\n

Trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed d\u00e2n t\u1ed9c, vua L\u00fd Nh\u00e2n T\u00f4ng t\u1eebng xu\u1ed1ng chi\u1ebfu c\u1ea7u l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng, x\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00e0i \u0111\u1ee9c cho qu\u1ea3n qu\u00e2n d\u00e2n. Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf ph\u1ea3i qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 d\u0169ng m\u00e3nh v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng khoan dung \u0111\u1ed9 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n

Trong c\u00e1c quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, kh\u00f4ng dung \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng dung \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh. Dung ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u1edf ch\u1ed7 bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng. Kh\u00f4ng dung \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n \u1edf h\u00e0nh vi tr\u1ea5n \u00e1p b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u1ee9ng x\u1eed d\u01b0\u1edbi chu\u1ea9n kh\u00e1c. Do \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e0ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c, c\u00e0ng d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 th\u00ec c\u00e0ng l\u1ed9 ra s\u1ef1 k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi trong nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, ho\u1ea3ng lo\u1ea1n, m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01b0\u1edbng trong tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh vi, ng\u00f4n t\u1eeb trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i th\u1eafng th\u1ebf th\u00ec h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng xa r\u1eddi c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd, c\u00e0ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt… L\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t qu\u1ed1c gia h\u00f9ng m\u1ea1nh, trong s\u1ea1ch khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta lu\u00f4n s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, t\u00ecm m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n che s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt.<\/p>\n

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S\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, s\u1ee3 ph\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn, \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt s\u1ebd l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1eafn nh\u1ea5t d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ef1 hu\u1ef7 ho\u1ea1i. G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, trong nhi\u1ec1u m\u1eb7t sinh ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn r\u00f5 h\u01a1n s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i, gian d\u1ed1i \u0111ang ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. Nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":938,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[111],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/936"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=936"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/936\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":942,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/936\/revisions\/942"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=936"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=936"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.yogavocuc.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=936"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}